Why shouldn't children object to their parents' divorce?

As a person, in the face of family changes and parents' choices, we often need to face many emotional and practical considerations. Accepting or not accepting parents' divorce or remarriage is a very personal decision and cannot be simply defined. But we can discuss this problem from the following aspects.

1. The influence of parents' divorce or remarriage on their children

The influence of parents' divorce or remarriage on their children is inevitable. Children are often hurt emotionally and hit financially. Children usually feel confused and uneasy about their families, and need to face all kinds of comments and discrimination from classmates and society. However, if parents' divorce or remarriage can bring a better growth environment and a better family atmosphere to their children, it will be beneficial to them.

2. Reasons for parents' divorce and remarriage object

The reasons for parents' divorce are usually varied, some are emotional breakdown, some are due to the pressure of life and lack of mutual understanding. Children usually pay attention to their parents' choice of remarriage object. If parents' remarried partners can bring happiness and better quality of life to parents, then children should also support their choices.

3. Children's own maturity and acceptance.

The maturity and acceptance of children themselves are one of the key factors that affect whether they accept divorce or remarriage. If children are mature enough to treat their parents' divorce or remarriage rationally, then they will be more able to accept this reality. On the other hand, if children are not receptive, it is difficult to face this change, which may lead to a series of psychological problems.

4. Social concept and cultural background

Social concept and cultural background also have great influence on people's acceptance of parents' divorce or remarriage. In some traditional societies and cultures, divorce and remarriage may be regarded as a shameful or immoral behavior. However, in today's society, this concept has been gradually diluted.