Parents' attitude towards their children's puppy love is opposed. What is the best way to deal with your daughter's puppy love?

No criticism, no support, give her room to think. In the face of a puppy love daughter, parents should make her feel respected, and then make a choice like an adult, and you are her closest and most trusted consultant. Puppy love will be even more rebellious if the daughter's growth is handled well and not handled well. In short, be patient, who is not from this era. Be patient with your heart.

? What should I do if I find my daughter in love? 1. Treat puppy love correctly. The child is currently in adolescence, his body and mind are still developing, and he is curious about all new things. At this age, it is normal to have a good impression on the opposite sex. Don't make a fuss. After adolescent children have a good impression on the opposite sex, some children can't help but want to get closer to the opposite sex, talk to her more, chat more and communicate more!

2. Explain the bet to her. It is normal for a girl of this age to fall in love, but it is also normal to tell her what to do and what not to do. Most parents may think that puppy love affects her studies, so it is better to reach an agreement with her and let her children prove that it does not affect her studies. After all, children nowadays are like a blank sheet of paper. When they grow up, they will naturally understand.

3. Pay attention to methods. Never force children not to "fall in love" by beating and cursing, and keep a distance from the opposite sex. Some children are thin-skinned from the beginning, so I'm sorry. When parents say this, they will feel very uncomfortable and will have resistance. The more so, the closer he gets to the girl. Maybe there is no love yet. Parents' handling like this will only be counterproductive, so that children can really "love".

4. Teach children how to recognize others, especially the opposite sex. People say that first love is beautiful, and it is a game for boys and girls. In the eyes of children, the object of first love cannot be a perfect person, because the special feelings for the opposite sex blind the truth. Therefore, teaching children how to get rid of the influence of subtle emotions, identify the opposite sex and encourage them to make more friends with the opposite sex is helpful to identify the opposite sex and grasp themselves. Education in this field seems to be based on social knowledge and novels.

5. Guide a correct outlook on life. Love is always the theme of literature, but people's life is not all love, it involves the ideals and wishes of life. Outlook on life will also be an important criterion for choosing the right person in the future. If we strengthen the guidance of the correct outlook on life, it is possible to curb the behavior that does not conform to social norms brought about by sexual demand. However, the education of outlook on life is a long-term accumulation process. In other words, the education of puppy love existed long before it happened.