Tell me how you gave it to him the first time.

There is no doubt that your attitude and actual behavior are contradictory. For you, if you really don't want to have sex too early, you should properly block this closed opportunity to get along. 0 1 I want to wait three years before having sex. Is that too much? I met the male ticket through a friend's party. I am 2 1, 158, a student. The male ticket is 20, 182, even number. After the party, my boyfriend chased me through my friend's WeChat for two months, and now we have been together for almost three months. After the party, he took me to meet his friends and his parents. It's also good for me to bring everything to my friends' party. Basically, he pays for going out to eat. Basically, he took the initiative to find me on WeChat, told me where to go and listened to me. Now I will go to his house for a night on weekends. If I go too much, he wants to have sex with me now. I refuse. He sometimes jokingly asks me when I can have sex with him. I don't want to have sex too early. When someone asked me for the last time, I replied that it was natural when he was deeply in love. I said I would give it to him before, but it will take three years. He said he was willing to wait, but recently he asked for sex many times. The problem now is that I think he is all right. Is staying with me a short-term choice? Analysis of your main confusion is: "the problem now is that I think he is very good at everything." Is being with me a short-term choice? " First of all, let's take a look at what "short election" and "long election" are. The long-term election is to talk about marriage with the goal of falling in love, and the short-term election is just for falling in love. Therefore, the premise of choosing long or short is to be at marriageable age. For a 20-year-old young man, it is difficult to consider whether to get married at this stage. You said, "I want to wait three years before having sex. Am I too much? " It doesn't matter if you have too much. If you think this is important to you, please respect your own ideas. However, although you don't want to have sex so soon, your date is very short, and you go to his house for one night every week. Your attitude and actual behavior are undoubtedly contradictory. In reality, you have created such convenient conditions, and it is normal for a boyfriend to have this idea. For you, if you really don't want to have sex too early, you should properly block this closed opportunity to get along. How can I get him to contact me? I am 26 years old, Xiaojiabiyu, nurse, 154cm, undergraduate, virgin. 30-year-old, handsome, teacher, 176cm, had several love histories. Family conditions of both parties: equality, parents divorced, and he and his younger brother followed their mother; My family is happier! He and I met through the introduction of colleagues, and we both have the desire to go on together. Because he didn't make a clear statement and lacked initiative in the process of getting along, I couldn't see hope, contradictions gradually emerged, and finally I lost contact! I really love him, and I hope we can get together again and create a bright future! Analyze your confusion: "How can I get my beloved to contact me?" If you love him more, don't wait for the other person to contact you actively, but you should contact him actively. Because smart women will actively pursue what they want, rather than just passively waiting for others to pursue it. Judging from your description, if you take the initiative to contact, you may have a chance of success. If you don't take the initiative, the chances are almost zero. At the same time, even if you take the initiative to contact, you can only succeed. Why do you say that? Because you met through friends, similar to blind date, you generally met through these channels, and the goal of finding someone is relatively strong. In other words, most of them are thinking about getting married. If they don't contact, it means they feel ordinary. Of course, if you don't want to regret it, you might as well take the initiative to contact and give yourself a chance. How to save love? I have been in love with her for five years, and now she likes other boys and wants to dump me. I really want to save our relationship. She and I are both studying in the same city, and that person is in another city. Her first time was given to me. Analysis of the love stage, if you break up because of cheating, even if it is recovered, the probability of being together in the future is very small, which is the law. Because you are only in love, you still have many possibilities and opportunities for each other, and there are still many uncertainties. If two people don't get along well in the future, the crux and contradiction of the previous breakup will easily emerge, which will affect your active handling of the relationship between them. But it's different for married people. If you cheat after marriage, if you try your best to save it, it is more based on practical considerations, such as children. In order to be together, both sides will try to adjust. Besides, ask yourself, what makes you want to save it? Is it because you really don't want to give up your previous feelings, or is it uncomfortable to be dumped? If it is the latter, it is revenge, and you will still take the initiative to get rid of her in the future. If it is the former, express your feelings and thoughts to your girlfriend and ask her, "What can I do to save our feelings?" Because, if you just make positive recovery unilaterally, sometimes it will be counterproductive and annoying. Tell me how to give him face for the first time. In the sun,/kloc-I saw him for the first time at the age of 0/5, and looked at his clear face in the sun. I can't help recalling my youth. My whole youth is him. Maybe in the present words, when I was young, I was one of the few dog lickers. I will never forget it. I first met him in hot August, when I was fifteen, and he first appeared in my life. The neat short hair shows the unique spirit of teenagers, and the simple and simple T-shirt shows the arm of wheat yellow. At an ordinary and unforgettable intersection at the school gate, my best friend casually introduced me that this is W, and you should be in the same high school in two years. The boy raised his simple and honest mouth, showed a pair of neat white teeth and smiled brightly. \ hello! \。 In a short moment, the young man's perseverance was deeply engraved in my heart. Maybe from that moment on, my youth is him. After that day, I never resisted going to school, and I began to look forward to the new semester, looking forward to him who wanted me to spend the whole youth with him. On the first day of school, I never thought that I could see him on the first day, and I never thought that he and I could be in the same class. He sneaked in from the back door of our class, just like seeing him for the first time, which attracted all my attention at that moment. When he was a teenager, he still had the same skin, unique smile and angular face. It should be at that moment that I believed in the word destiny takes a hand, and since then I have unswervingly chosen him. I am as outgoing as he is. When I was in class, I was always close to the boys in the class. Whoever scolded me, I could tell him that I doubted life or kick him out. I have studied karate since I was a child, although my level is not high. Only when he makes fun of me will I be quiet and sometimes blush. At that time, the girls who had a good relationship with me basically knew that I liked him. How much I liked him then. He sat behind me. I buy two cans of Wangzai milk at school every day, one of which is for him. The excuse is that my mother bought it for me on my way to school, and then I couldn't finish it. But the real reason is only because his favorite drink is Wangzai milk. My schoolbag contains band-aid and Yunnan Baiyao all year round, plus sterile cotton swabs. All the boys in the class know that they need me if they are injured. The real reason is that he always gets hurt while playing basketball. I hope I can help him at the first time. He will also do something that surprises me. When a particularly annoying boy in the next class always bullies me and pulls my underwear belt, it means that he is not with me. I don't know how he knows, but he still secretly chats with others and quietly warns them not to bully girls. Later, his friend said that he almost had a fight. When I go to PE class, I always bring him water. Because he always knows to grab the basket in advance instead of buying water, he will be very thirsty at halftime. I am the first person in my class to get to school every day. Boys always go home at night without doing their homework. If I arrive early, I can give him my homework to copy. Several times he was ill and didn't come to school. I pretend to be sick and ask for leave to send his homework to his home. I will buy a bunch of medicine and some snacks. Once in a sports meeting, I hurt my leg when I ran 400 meters. He subconsciously rushed down from the stands in the first second and was the first person to run to me. I will line up at the school gate for an hour to buy him his favorite cake. Just because he didn't mean to mention it once, snacks in this family are hard to buy. In the first three months after his birthday, I didn't eat lunch for those three months, so I saved money to buy him more than 2000 mountain bikes. On Christmas Eve, I finish my homework every night. I secretly folded the paper crane under the quilt and collected 13 14 sticks for him. Everyone in our class knows that I like him. I don't know if he knows, but he didn't say anything from beginning to end. Our family conditions are not bad, and I am not ugly. Sometimes boys chase me. I knew he would be angry and unhappy with me because of this, so I refused all the boys who chased me without giving them any ideas, and simply and cruelly refused. At the beginning of senior three, one day he took my hand and said nothing. But I didn't feel sleepy that night, so I naturally thought of myself as his girlfriend. At that time, I would bring him sandwiches, cupcakes, hamburgers and various breakfast packages every day. Bring a lot of meat and vegetables for lunch at noon, and then give him more than half. I knew he didn't have enough food for him, so I just told him I couldn't eat so much. At that time, my mother wondered why I could eat so much and not gain meat. Gao is very busy. I help him with his homework, clear his seat and make coffee for him every day. I will take the T-shirt he changed after playing basketball to my house and secretly wash it for him. Sneak out my mother's recharge card and take him to eat all kinds of big meals on weekends. Almost all my pocket money is used to buy him his favorite clothes and give him some gifts. All his hobbies, such as basketball. I will also find out with his good brothers and take care of them all. He will take me home every day and climb over the wall to buy me my favorite candied haws. But people around me say I like him better, and I have done too much for him. But what I want to say is that I have never regretted it, because it is worthwhile, because I like him, and I just want to be good to him. After the college entrance examination, my score was 22 points higher than his. However, all my volunteers are exactly like him, regardless of my parents' opposition. After quarreling and arguing, my parents respected my choice, so I filled in the city outside my home and made my first choice. Later, he told me that he was going to a military school approved in advance because of family conditions, and I couldn't go with him because of my eyesight problems. He broke up with me that day. He told me that I wouldn't wait for him for four years. He said he didn't want to keep you. I kept crying on the phone, but I didn't let him know. I told him I was waiting for him. In this life, I will not only wait for him, but also give him my first time with me. That summer, I tricked him into my room. I kissed him awkwardly and he refused. He said that he can't take responsibility, we are all too young, and our promises can't stand the test of time. He was worried that I would regret it. I smiled. This is what I like most about him and hate most about him. Tell me how to give it to him the first time. 3. How to leave a good impression on the right person for the first time? Methods/Steps No matter what kind of person he meets, he should first dress neatly, have a neat hairstyle, have no foreign objects in his eyes, have a clean face, have no smelly teeth, have no peculiar smell in his body, hold his head up and chest high, and walk slowly (at normal speed). When you see each other, you should look at him, smile and nod gently. Turn your eyes to your friends or surroundings, speed up your steps (reflect your attention) and walk towards each other. Keep a distance of about one meter from each other (the distance from strangers), stop, smile and say hello (say hello to friends first, then turn to each other), introduce yourself first (preferably gently), extend your right hand (at a 45-degree angle) to show friendship, and the other person will also extend his right hand (if you don't extend your hand for three seconds), then lead the other person to the seat, gently move out of the stool (enough feet can walk in), and use it. After sitting down, ask the other person what you want to eat and drink, and introduce the dishes and drinks you think are delicious (indicating your opinion). If the other person likes it, that's the best. Just order what you think is delicious. If you are eating, you should give the other person some dishes (when the other person insists that you don't need to give them to him/her, don't cook any more) and put her favorite dishes in front of him/her. Talk less when eating, and it's better not to talk. You can't eat until he/she finishes eating (lest she be embarrassed). When he/she has finished eating, he/she will hand in his/her napkin. When drinking: When ordering drinks, give her something hot (tell her that women should drink less frozen drinks, which is good for their health). If she insists on a cold drink, only give her something cold (let her drink first). Give her a napkin when drinking. Find out each other's characteristics, praise some words, talk about each other's elders, ask Xuan once, don't ask more! Then come back and ask each other how they are doing (work, life). Don't chatter when chatting, pause and give the other person a chance to talk. The other party should listen carefully (show concern and respect) and make a short response when the other party speaks (well, yes-). The first meeting usually lasts only one to three hours. Needless to say, remember what happened when the other person spoke affectionately and what the other person did when talking to himself! If you want to leave, of course, we will pay the bill. Generally, we won't grab the bill. The main reason is that we don't need to be so polite when we meet for the first time, we should. After purchasing the bill, ask him/her to send it back. If the other party says no, it must be delivered to the car. In short, when we first meet, we should be more natural! Relax, it's nothing, just making friends!