How to meet the challenge of fate?

Life is a thick book that is difficult to understand; life is a net filled with success and failure, joy and sorrow, smiling faces and bitter faces; life is a A big tree, the lush branches and leaves on the tree are the result of people's struggle; life is a cup of Coca-Cola, which makes people feel nourished; life is a five-flavor bottle, in which all the sweet, sour, bitter and spicy are included. Life requires challenges, life requires struggle.

For poor people, they should learn to challenge! Only by being a brave challenger and putting your ideas into action can you embark on the road to get rid of poverty and become rich. There were two little birds huddled in the nest, waiting for their mother to come back when they were out looking for food. However, a few hours passed and the mother had not come back. They screamed with hunger. One of the little birds said: "I want to spread my wings and fly high." , It may be difficult to go out for food at first, but I will not fail, because we are born to fly."

His brother said uneasily: "You must not fly, because you are. The wings are not yet full." As soon as he finished speaking, Brother Bird had already jumped to the branch and spread his wings. At first, he almost fell to the ground, but he fluttered his wings and flew again. It shouted to its younger brother from high in the sky: "You see it's not as difficult as you think! Come on! You can fly too!"

The little birdie brother sighed and huddled listlessly. In the bird's nest, two hours passed, and my brother came back after killing a few bugs. He told his brother about the wonderful world outside.

After the bird brother finished speaking, he said: "Fly with me if you are willing." The younger brother replied: "My wings are definitely not as hard as yours. I will fall to the ground and be killed by other animals." I don’t know how to get back after eating it. I’m very scared.”

The next day, a python woke up the little bird brother. It started to approach the little bird brother, but it didn’t try to escape. The python asked: "Why don't you fly?" The little bird brother replied: "I missed the opportunity to fly before, but now it's too late to fly." In this way, the little bird brother was eaten by the ruthless python!

Just imagine: if the little birdie brother could be as brave as his brother to challenge difficulties, this tragedy would not have happened.

The same is true for the life of the poor. If you do not accept the challenges of life and make brave decisions at the beginning, the opportunities will never come back and you will not be able to become a responsible, mature or even successful person. .

Many disasters and accidents in life are the result of seeds planted by people's will over a period of time. The seed that determines destiny is everyone's decision.

Destiny is often in your own hands. Therefore, even some trivial small decisions can lead to serious consequences, and the accumulation of some small decisions can also affect the failure of big decisions.

Once upon a time, there was a man who went fishing with a net. Unfortunately, it rained heavily, and he broke the net out of anger. It was not enough that the net was broken. He fell into the pond out of anger and never climbed up again.

You can’t fish when it rains. Just wait until the weather clears up. You can’t throw yourself into a pond just because of a rain. If you don’t vent your grievances for a long time, you will lose your youth, love, possible glory and a hand. The happiness that can be picked up.

In a small rural village in the western United States, a young man from a poor family wrote his extraordinary "Lifetime Volunteer" when he was 15 years old: "To explore the Nile, Amazon and Congo rivers; Climb Mount Everest, Kilimanjaro and Denali; ride elephants, camels, ostriches and wild horses; follow the paths of Marco Polo and Alexander I, and star in a "Tarzan" movie; take off and land in an aircraft; read the works of Shakespeare, Plato and Aristotle; compose a piece of music; write a book; hold a patent for an invention; raise $1 million in donations for extraordinary children..."

He listed 127 grand aspirations in life in one breath. Not to mention implementing them, just looking at them is daunting enough.

The young man's heart was instigated by his huge "lifelong wish", and all his thoughts were tightly pulled by the "lifelong wish", and made him From then on, he began the long journey of turning dreams into reality. The wind, frost, snow and rain along the way turned his long-cherished wishes, which were almost utopias, into living realities. As a result, he tasted the joy of fighting and success again and again. 44 years later, he finally realized the 106 wishes in "A Lifetime of Purpose"...

He is the famous explorer John Goddard of the last century.

When someone asked him in surprise what kind of power he relied on to step on many destined "impossibles" under his feet, he replied with a smile: "It's very simple. I just let it happen." The soul reaches that place first, and then there is a magical power all over the body. Then, all you have to do is follow the call of the soul. "

A 15-year-old poor boy wrote this. So many aspirations in life. It was precisely because he dared to challenge fate that his wish came true later.

As long as you have a heart that never admits defeat and a will that becomes more and more exciting the more frustrated you are, no matter how poor you are, you will have the courage to move forward bravely, and you will no longer Complain about God's injustice. Although you may not always reach the ideal destination or harvest the expected fruits after going through such arduous efforts, the inspiration of your soul and the process of struggle itself shine with the boundless beauty of life.

Don’t imagine that life is always so perfect, and don’t imagine that you can enjoy all the spring in the four seasons of life. Everyone is destined to travel through ditches, taste bitterness and helplessness, and experience frustration and frustration.

Bill Gates said that misfortunes in life should be considered inevitable, and these misfortunes will pass sooner or later, and time will dilute the painful feeling. Repeat the words "It's nothing big" in your mind a few times. You must not become extremely haggard because of the unfortunate blow, but you should stop suffering, cheer up, and do what you should do.

Mr. Wilson is an extremely ordinary person, and after years of hard work, he finally became a respected entrepreneur.

On this day, when he walked out of the office building, he heard a "tap-tap" sound from behind. Wilson knew it was the blind man tapping the ground with a bamboo pole, so he stopped. At this time, the blind man realized that there was someone in front of him, and quickly stepped forward and said: "Sir, I am a poor blind man, help me buy a beautiful lighter, it only costs 1 dollar." Wilson sighed and took the lighter: " I don’t know how to use it, but I’m willing to help you.” He handed over a banknote. When the blind man touched it and found it was 100 US dollars, his voice trembled with excitement: "You are such a kind person, God will bless you!"

Just when Wilson was about to turn around and leave, the blind man said to himself He said to himself: "I was not born blind. It was caused by the accident in Bulton 18 years ago. It was really terrible." Wilson was very shocked when he heard what he said. He turned around and shouted in silence: " Was that the chemical plant explosion? ""Yes!" Seeing that the blind man caught Wilson's attention, he kept talking about his experience, hoping to win the sympathy of the rich man and get more benefits. "Many people died that time, and I ended up in the situation I am in today, living in poverty. You don't know, but the scene was so terrifying. There was a loud thunder, and then there were blazing fires everywhere. People who were running for their lives huddled together. , I was already at the door, but a big man behind him shouted: "I'm still young, let me go out first." As he said this, he pushed me down hard and ran out when I woke up. Then I can't see anything..." The blind man continued to speak, but Wilson interrupted him coldly: "What you said is all lies. That's not the case at all." Wilson said. After these words, the blind man was very surprised and stopped talking.

Wilson added: "I was also in the chemical plant at that time, and you stepped on my body and ran out of the door. Those words you said, I will never forget them in my life!" The blind man was stunned, and he suddenly pulled Wilson Wearing clothes, Wilson shouted excitedly: "This is not fair! I ran out, but became blind; you stayed in, and now you are proud of yourself!"

Wilson broke away from him with all his strength, and raised his hand He picked up a delicate cane in his hand and said disdainfully: "I am also blind, but I never believe in fate."

Human life is always full of variables, and everyone has their own problems, big or small. Suffering, different people have different ways of coping with this dilemma. Physical disabilities, especially those of the eyes, have the greatest impact on people's lives, making it difficult to find a way of life that suits them. But Mr. Wilson did not compromise with fate, but overcame the difficulties with determination, started his own business, and was able to succeed. His success should contain a kind of incomparable tolerance, just like tolerance for the person who trampled on him and ran away 18 years ago, but cannot tolerate his decadence, his lack of energy, and his resignation.

In the face of violent storms, beautiful verses can lose their novelty, but the sonorous footsteps cannot disappear in the journey of life. In the face of difficulties, those who retreat without seeking progress will never experience the joy of success, never have a colorful life, and will never experience the exciting melody and gorgeous chapters of youth!

Ten years ago, Zhang Bo worked in an embroidery factory in Ruicheng, Shanxi. Later, because the factory was in recession, it became difficult for him to support his family. With the help of his friends, he found a job in a bank. He worked very hard and was appreciated by his boss, who became the HR director a few years later. During this period, because the Ruicheng area was rich in apples, most fruit farmers shipped their apples to Guangzhou for sale. In order to develop business, the bank sent Zhang Bo to stay in Guangzhou for two years and asked him to handle remittances for local fruit farmers. Later, he discovered that there were not many gas stations along the highway from the local area to Guangzhou, but the roads were getting bigger and bigger. Therefore, Zhang Bo was thinking about setting up a gas station. Coupled with the impact of the current trend of doing business overseas, in 1999, he took a leave of absence without pay and went overseas.

He usually has a hobby, that is, he likes to read newspapers, magazines, and TV news, and he likes to use his brain and conduct investigations. He found that a round trip from Ruicheng to Guangzhou requires more than 1,100 liters of gasoline. The car must be refueled every three to four hundred kilometers. The entire journey requires three gas stations. In particular, fruit farmers like to go to Sanmenxia to refuel, because Sanmenxia can buy oil from three provinces, and the price is 2 cents per liter lower than that in Ruicheng. He thought this was an opportunity, so he started his bold plan.

He and his partners invested in a gas station in Qingyuan, Guangdong, and put up a sign specifically to entertain fellow villagers from the Yuncheng area (Ruicheng belongs to the Yuncheng area). In order to attract customers, they also provide food and accommodation, change tires, and provide help to fellow villagers who are temporarily unable to make money. Then when he came to Sanmenxia, ??he found a gas station that was on the verge of closing down for cooperation. Because the business at this gas station is deserted, the cost is naturally low. After the cooperation, they hung up a placard: "Traveling thousands of miles to find a close friend, fellow Yuncheng folks are here. If you encounter difficulties and need help, we are always here to relieve your worries." This trick worked, and five cars arrived that night. This approach can easily arouse a sense of intimacy among drivers from the same hometown. Coupled with the considerate services, business is getting better and better. One day, 150 vehicles came to the gas station from the Yuncheng area alone. Because cars usually run out of gas when going from Sanmenxia to Wuhan, they also cooperated with a gas station in Wuhan and also advertised to provide various services to fellow villagers in Yuncheng, and the results were very good.

But for Zhang Bo, who is never satisfied, he feels that the profit in the gas business is small, and he always wants to find new ways. He found that the trucks used by local fruit farmers are usually large trucks, such as Jiefang 141 and 142. Due to their long distance, large load capacity, and continuous rotation day and night, their service life is short and they will be eliminated in two or three years. However, a small Jiefang half-truck often It can be used for seven or eight years. So he suddenly thought about it and decided to become a large truck agent. In order to attract more business, he thought that it would be difficult for fruit farmers to spend 160,000 to 70,000 yuan at a time to buy a car. If he could pay in installments, there would be a lot of buyers.

So after he made the plan, he started taking action. Therefore, he found a number of partners in Taiyuan, Xi'an, and Yuncheng, but none of them were very satisfactory. Finally, Shanxi Tongda Group was found, and the two parties hit it off immediately, and 50 vehicles were sold in a short time. And sales increased to more than 70 units in less than four months. Since 30% is paid in advance and the remaining amount is deducted monthly within two years, he still has some management rights over its operating conditions. At this point, he was still not satisfied and was thinking about how he could make more money in the car.

One day, while he was eating, he suddenly saw a car of Yabao Group, a large and well-known pharmaceutical company in Ruicheng, passing by on the road. The words "Baobao Yitie Ling" and "Yabao Zhenju" were sprayed on the car. "Break-down tablets" advertisements suddenly inspired him. Why not also spray-paint these advertisements on the cars under his control? Therefore, he quickly found Yabao Group and expressed his thoughts. The shrewd boss immediately agreed. Because their annual advertising fee is 30 to 50 million yuan, the investment in this plan is small, and these cars are running all over the country every day, so the effect is sure to be unmistakable, so they agreed to pay 4,000 yuan in advertising fees for each car. And the car owner can also get a few hundred yuan, so the car owner is naturally happy. Excluding advertising and paying various fees, Zhang Bo earns more than 2,000 yuan per car. So, overnight, the story spread that Zhang Bo became a millionaire with 100,000 yuan.

Life is inherently a challenge. Only by accepting challenges and constantly pursuing can you have a fulfilling life and experience the beauty of life. The saying that where there is a will, there is a way, it is a reflection of this kind of life.

There is no eternal success, only the eternal success. Only by challenging poverty and destiny can we create a great self.