What should I do if I meet someone who doesn't agree with three views (what should I do if I meet a book with three views)

Because "Yi" is a science, which is both reasonable and can make the other party speechless. In the worst case, just like the two sides of the debate, no one can completely "kill" each other. Otherwise, it is a wishful accusation.

The book I want to read is the pit I accidentally stepped on. At present, the recommendation of this book on a reading software is 78. 1%, which is not low. It is much higher than this, otherwise it won't fool me.

Although the score of Douban is only 7. 1, it is pointed out in the introduction that this book is the first classic work in a certain field that comprehensively and profoundly expounds a certain phenomenon. Is this misleading?

Comprehensive evaluation: chicken blood is too heavy, and the whole story is logical.

Chichiyi

Do you still remember an animated film called "Behind the Sky"? This film represents the worry of negative emotions, which has been guarded and rejected by other emotions. It seems to be the most redundant and unnecessary of the five emotions. It doesn't know how to be happy except lying on the floor crying. It is this worry that represents negative emotions that has become the key for the little girl to find happiness again.

This is true in movies and in reality. Happiness or sadness is an emotion, and there is no right or wrong. Life will be complete only if we allow them to exist and happen. If we forcibly cut off a part of it, just as chemotherapy is to cells, it will inevitably kill the good and the bad.

Ziwaji

The negative thoughts here, I prefer to call them "artificially defined negative thoughts". Is "996 Fortune" a positive idea? Is lying flat a negative idea? Perhaps in the eyes of some people, there are still a large number of people who disagree. Finally, what is positive and what is negative, everyone has their own standards. It is ridiculous to demand others by your own standards.

Suppressing negative thoughts is like blocking water with a gun, which can't be stopped for a while and eventually overflows; Just as someone preached that "996" was a blessing, it was resisted by more and more people.

773

Confuse success with concepts such as excitement and happiness.

If you "destroy" yourself in the cold and hard way in the book, you may achieve secular success, and you will certainly pay a huge price. Which is more important, loss or gain? Perhaps only those who rely on this book to succeed can give answers when they ask themselves and answer themselves.

Wonderful four

Think about it from another angle, this method is actually terrible. If you want to attract others. What would you do if that person tried to get close to you and read "I love you" every hour? Will throw themselves into each other's arms as excitedly as the book says? Still feel depressed and scared, just want to stay away from that pervert?

I can only describe it as pervert here. Crazy pursuit of a person, or crazy pursuit of power and money, such people are terrible, I always stay away from them.

Will they get what they want? I think sometimes. I don't know whether the probability is high or low. But one thing is certain, they get success, not happiness.

As a passer-by, I am afraid of infecting their misfortune and just want to stay away. Are those who are forced into their lives really happy?

After reading the wonderful ideas in the book, let me talk about my own ideas. I hope everyone can share them more.

We should ask our hearts what we like to do instead of reading inspirational slogans every hour, let alone planting an idea in our hearts. I can't do it anyway. If anyone is willing to read the slogan, I have no objection.

Replacing hate with love and negativity with positivity sounds mysterious and logically unreasonable. No light, no shadow, no black, no white, no hate, no love. Normal people live not to be "successful people" who are always excited, but to be a real person.

Suppressing emotions does not make them disappear completely. Just like in a game that can be resurrected indefinitely, after killing the enemy, it will be resurrected again and again, and it will be more powerful and fierce again and again. Normal people can't completely get rid of negative emotions, such as sadness, fear and withdrawal. If possible, there may be a word that can best describe this state-"castration".

Attraction is not hard work, but that you are good enough, and at the same time you are good enough to accept it, and it will naturally like you. If you just want to hold on to it, how can it not run away?

If you are in full bloom, the breeze will come.

If you cling to the sand in your hand, it will only run faster.

Reading a good book, the sound is lingering, and the lips and teeth are fragrant. If you come across a book that doesn't conform to the three concepts, you can still benefit from it if you go back and read it carefully.

Have you ever met three different books? Did you go back?

I write my heart, I write my thoughts, and I am just myself.