What are the differences between gesture etiquette in Western etiquette and gesture etiquette in my country? How to use gestures in daily work

The meanings expressed by gestures are very rich, and the emotions expressed are also very subtle and complex. Such as waving in greeting, waving goodbye, clapping in praise, cupping hands in thanks, raising hands in approval, waving hands in rejection; touching hands means love, pointing fingers means anger, hugging hands means kissing, holding hands means respect, covering hands means shame, etc. The meaning of gestures is to send messages, or to express likes and dislikes and express feelings.

First, pay attention to regional differences.

In different countries, different regions, and different ethnic groups, due to different cultural customs, the meanings of gestures also have many differences, and even the meanings expressed by the same gesture are also different. Therefore, only when the use of gestures is in compliance with regulations can we avoid causing trouble.

Americans and French people use gestures more;

Nordic people rarely use gestures. Too many unconscious gestures can be annoying and sometimes even considered a sign of rudeness;

When talking to Asians, gestures should also be used as little as possible.

Second, the number of gestures should be few rather than too many.

Gestures should be few rather than too many. Excessive gestures will give people the impression of pretentiousness and lack of self-cultivation.

The third is to avoid gestures.

In social activities, some gestures can be offensive and seriously affect the image. For example, scratching the scalp in public, picking ears, picking noses, biting nails, scribbling on the table with fingers, etc.

Walking action

In China, it is mainly to call others over, while in the United States, it is to call the dog over.

Thumbs up

Generally, it means success or complimenting others. But there are many exceptions. In the United States and parts of Europe, it means asking for a ride, in Germany it means the number "1", in Japan it means "5", and in Australia it means "fuck". When talking to others, raising your thumb and pointing it back at the third person, that is, pointing the back of the thumb pad at another person other than the person you are talking to, is a mockery of the third person.

OK gesture

The thumb and index finger are connected to form a ring, and the other three fingers are straightened with the palm facing outward. The OK gesture originated from the United States, where it means "agree", "smooth" and "very good"; in France it means "zero" or "worthless"; in Japan it means "money"; in Thailand it means " No problem" in Brazil means vulgar and obscene.

V-shaped gesture

This gesture was first used by British Prime Minister Churchill during World War II. It has spread throughout the world and is a symbol of "victory". If the palm is turned inward, it becomes a swearing gesture.

Raising hands

It is also called waving. Used to express greetings, salutes and thanks to others. When you see someone you know well and have no time to look around, raise your hand to greet them, which can immediately eliminate the other person's feeling of being left out. Face your opponent with your palms facing outward and your fingertips pointing upward. Never forget to open your palms.

Shaking hands with others

We often shake hands with others when we first meet, say goodbye, express condolences to others, express gratitude, slightly apologize, etc. The first is to pay attention to the order. When shaking hands, the standard order in which both parties extend their hands should be "the distinguished person comes first." That is, those with higher status stretch out their hands first, and those with lower status reach out later. If you are a service staff, you should usually not take the initiative to reach out and shake hands with the service recipient. When shaking hands with someone, generally holding it for 3 to 5 seconds is enough. Normally, you should use your right hand to shake hands. The left hand should not be used, and it is not necessary to hold the hands together frequently.

Hold your head with both hands

Many people like to hold their head with one hand or both hands. The original intention of this posture is to relax. If you do this in front of others, especially when serving others, it will give people a feeling of arrogance.

Fiddling with one’s fingers

Repeatedly fiddling with one’s fingers, either moving the joints, cracking the joints, clenching the fists, or moving the fingers around, often giving people a sense of boredom The feeling is unacceptable.

Hands in pockets

At work, it is usually not allowed to put one or both hands in your pockets. This kind of performance will make people think that you are not trying your best at work and are taking time off from your busy schedule.