Anti-intrusion manual newspaper daquan

Hell is empty, and the devil is on earth. Children's sexual crimes exposed by the news media have made people feel the horror of the "devil" again and again. Their evil black hand made the children suffer irreparable pain in their lives.

Child sexual abuse cases are like a sinful prison, and what we see is only the tip of the iceberg. We have never understood what has not been discovered. Therefore, in order to shelter a sunny childhood, we should not only protect children, but also teach them the wisdom to avoid danger.

Child sexual assault cases are mostly committed by acquaintances. They use the identity of "acquaintances" to easily approach children and gain trust, and then violently coerce, seduce, kiss and touch them ... Why didn't anyone find the children after sexual assault? Have so many shocking cases sounded the alarm for parents and guardians? Have you ever taught your children to prevent sexual assault? How can children communicate with each other when they are so young? Next, let's take a look at the details!

First, the current situation of child sexual abuse

Child sexual abuse refers to all acts such as forcing, cheating, flattery, material temptation or other means to cause children to have sexual contact, or exposing themselves to children, ordering them to expose themselves, forcing them to watch pornographic videos, taking nude photos and so on. Although there was no physical contact.

Second, the sex ratio of child victims.

Female students: 95.74%

Boys: 4.26%

There are few publicly reported cases of sexual assault by boys, and the risks faced by boys are very low. The sexual assault of boys is more hidden, the relevant laws are missing, and it is more difficult to safeguard rights and interests.

Three. Age distribution of child victims

Under 65438 +04: 80%

14- 18 years old: 10.4%

Unknown age: 9.6%

The fourth is the distribution of criminal groups.

Others: 20.97%

Teachers: 33.8%

Relatives: 1 1.9%

Neighbors: 14.76%

Netizen: 18.57%

There are a large number of cases of teachers sexually abusing children, and schools need better prevention mechanisms.

Verb (abbreviation of verb) criminal form

Threaten to force, cheat, ask children for help, pretend to play, lie to make up lessons or be entrusted by parents.

Criminals often use the identity of "acquaintances" to approach children and gain trust. After the incident, they covered up the facts of the crime by means of cajoling and coercion. And the words "it's nothing, it's normal" and "it's our secret" have also become spells that make evil invisible.

Sixth, the characteristics of child sexual assault cases.

The epidemic situation is high, the victims are younger, the countryside is the hardest hit area, and acquaintances commit crimes frequently.

One of the reasons for the high-frequency outbreak of cases is the lack of sex safety education, and most of the left-behind children are taken care of by grandparents, which often leads to poor communication between generations of education, and children in rural areas are loosely supervised by families and schools, which makes obscene behavior difficult to be found for a long time.

Seven, the harm of sexual assault on minors

It not only causes serious physical harm to the child victims, but also makes them feel depressed and inferior, afraid to talk to strangers or have autistic tendencies and premature sex. It not only hurts children themselves, but also has a bad social impact.

Eight, why do parents talk about "sex"?

"Sex" is often associated with reasons such as virginity and morality, coupled with the legal setup of institutions related to children in China, so when it comes to sexual violence against children, people often hold the attitude of "can't say", "don't want to say" or "can't say".

(The above information data source: China Research Network)

How to deal with the child after being sexually assaulted?

65438 +0. How to judge whether a child has been sexually assaulted?

Unexplained scars on abdomen and buttocks, nightmares, fears, vulvar pain or bleeding, sexually transmitted diseases, imitation of sexual behavior, blurred body boundaries and excessive attention to one's reproductive organs.

Second, the psychology of children after sexual assault.

This is a bad thing. I can't let my parents know, or they will beat me and scold me.

This is a shameful thing, and I can't let others know.

● If I tell others, TA will hit me and even hurt my parents.

This is an act of exchanging money for snacks.

● What happened? It's a little strange. I'd better go out to play.

● Maybe TA likes me and will do this to me.

In the usual education, you should tell your children what is good and bad physical contact, and tell them that if someone touches you or shows you the private parts of TA, you must tell your parents that they will not be angry, which is not your fault.

Third, teach children how to protect themselves from sexual assault.

1. Call for help in public places.

2. Lie to the bad guys to protect yourself.

3. Break something to attract others' attention.

4. Escape and find a safe place.

Fourth, how to minimize the loss?

Keep the underwear, underwear, body fluids, hair and other physical evidence left by criminals and call the police in time.

Go to the hospital for examination and treatment in time.

Encourage children to tell the truth and be "the person they trust most"

Keep children away from aggressors and ease their emotions.

Seek the help of professionals and take children for physical and mental health examination.

Children's sexual assault prevention education

First of all, what is a private part:

Mouth, ears, chest, neck, lower body

Parents must tell their children that no one can touch the place covered by vest and trousers except mom and dad.

Second, how to talk about sex with children correctly

0-3 years old: After 2 years old, children begin to pay attention to the physical differences between boys and girls. Parents can tell him the physical differences between boys and girls with the help of picture books. At the same time, parents should tell boys not to touch their penises and tell girls not to take off their pants casually.

3-6 years old: Children of this age will ask their parents how they were born. Parents only need to explain this knowledge in a normal way, don't avoid or exaggerate it, and tell their children that everyone is unique and should learn to cherish their own lives.

6- 12 years old: children of this age have more opportunities to contact the opposite sex. Parents should tell their children not to touch the bodies of students of the opposite sex, and at the same time, their bodies are not allowed to be touched by others.

Third, remind parents

1. Strengthen the awareness of prevention and systematically educate children to prevent sexual assault. In preventive education, we should not only aim at girls, but also at boys.

2. Don't entrust your child to an acquaintance at will. We should pay special attention to measures to prevent sexual assault by acquaintances, and don't leave acquaintances with opportunities to commit crimes.

3. Pay attention to the intimate relationship between other people and children, and be vigilant.

4. Always check whether the child's clothes and body are abnormal, and often ask the child related questions.

5. Sexual assault prevention education is continuous, don't just talk about it once, but also test them from time to time.

Four. Child reminder

1. Only when parents, mothers or doctors check can you see the private parts. No one else, no other time, no place!

If someone hugs and kisses you when your parents are not looking, dare to say "no" and tell your parents.

3. Avoid chatting with strangers or contacting strangers alone in a closed environment.

4. Don't accept drinks or food from strangers casually.

If someone tells you not to tell your parents about it, then you must tell your parents!