What should I do if I have a child who is reluctant to study?

Children are becoming more and more perfunctory in learning. This has both objective and subjective reasons.

1. From the perspective of the overall environment, the entire society’s publicity on education is not enough. Education and propaganda slogans that have deeply rooted in the hearts of the people, such as "If the land is thin, plant more trees, if the family is poor, study hard", "It takes ten years to grow trees, a hundred years to cultivate people..." were all painted on the walls with red paint a long time ago. How many propaganda slogans about education are there in the streets and alleys today? Instead, it is probably the real estate advertising that takes the lead!

2. From the perspective of the entire social atmosphere, the high exposure and success of Internet celebrities make children envious. In addition, the boom of the entertainment industry in recent years has given children the illusion that they don’t need to read many books, as long as someone pays attention and someone praises them, they can succeed casually. This has resulted in some children who are still in the nine-year compulsory education stage, no longer interested in studying and dreaming of becoming Internet celebrities all day long. Children only see the success of others, not the efforts of others. For example, Li Ziqi's cultural level is not high, but she is super successful. They didn't know that Li Ziqi's grades were not bad when she was studying. It was just that the environment forced her to study hard, but she had been studying hard, practicing bravely, having an infinite love for life, and a persistent pursuit of beauty.

3. Teachers’ rights and interests have not been well implemented. Whenever a parent complains, no matter whether it is right or wrong, they first point the finger at the teacher, which leads to many teachers not being able to control their children. Last year, Teacher Yang from Wulian County, Rizhao, Shandong Province was unfairly punished for physically punishing his students. I believe this is still fresh in everyone’s memory. And around us, for example, students do not hand in homework, play with mobile phones in class, and teachers call their parents to inform them to come. Some parents are unhappy because they feel that it is the teacher's responsibility to educate their children in school, and they ask them to take leave to come to school. I feel like the teacher is looking for trouble with them. When some students were disciplined by the teacher, they became angry with the teacher. Teachers are doing their duty but are being hurt. Do they still dare to take care of their students? This is also one of the reasons why students become more and more perfunctory in their studies.

4. Parents over-indulge their children and are reluctant to let their children endure hardships, causing their children to become increasingly afraid of hardship. As the difficulty of learning increases, children must work harder if they want to get better grades. For children who are spoiled by their parents, they are like flowers in a greenhouse, praying to grow into towering trees. It's impossible. Only by allowing children to have extensive exposure to life, letting them taste the ups and downs of life, and letting them understand that life is not easy, will they not study perfunctorily.

5. Children do not have clear learning goals and do not understand the meaning of learning. When they encounter difficulties in learning, they will escape, find fun through other channels, and avoid learning more and more. As a result, children may completely lose their confidence in learning, leave school early, and go into society with bad thoughts. I believe that all parents and teachers do not want to see this.

I really hope that there will be fewer and fewer students who study half-heartedly, and the spring breeze of education can spread all over the country.