Does it cost tens of millions to hold a funeral in the countryside? There are maotai and Chinese cigarettes, which are controversial. Should it be spent?

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Recently, a video of a rural funeral with wine and seats has quickly become popular on the Internet.

It is reported that in a village in Zizhou County, Yulin, Shaanxi Province, a large number of guests handed cups at a funeral, which is said to have cost tens of millions.

Once this video was released, it immediately triggered a large collection.

Although going to Chimata is exaggerated, the grade is really not low.

According to the reporter's interview, this funeral did exist, but an old man died in a villager's home and his family held this funeral for him.

According to the people who went to pay their respects, the banquet was really ostentatious, but it was exaggerated to spend money on Chimata. However, there are indeed Maotai and Chinese cigarettes on the banquet, and the grade is definitely not low.

The old man's son is doing business outside, and he can fully afford these expenses.

Should I spend it? The controversy continues.

However, this incident has caused great controversy.

Some people think that the so-called grand exercises after death are often for the living. For the sake of appearance and face, it not only causes waste, but also tends to form an atmosphere of comparison, which is not conducive to rural development.

However, some people think that the son has made money, has the ability, and is willing to give his father a beautiful funeral, without stealing or robbing. Why not? Moreover, it is human nature for a son to express his affection at the funeral when his parents die.

So, that's it, you argue word for word.

Is it a bad habit to arrange weddings?

China is a country of etiquette. No matter in which dynasty, weddings and funerals are important events in life, and there are often grand ceremonies.

Especially in rural areas, it is no exception, but later, these customs gradually began to evolve and evolved into comparing with each other. Whether you have money or not, you should show off this prestige.

Therefore, there is a saying that "three years of mourning, one marriage is poor for ten years."

The sky-high bride price events emerge one after another. In order to compare each other and see who has the highest bride price, some families want one thousand and two thousand. A family wants 1 10000, and B family wants 20000. Therefore, the price of bride price is not only rising, but also clearly marked in some places.

Many rural families have spent all their money to marry their sons and daughters-in-law, and they are also burdened with huge debts.

People used to say that they had spent all their money on hospital treatment. Nowadays, many people have saved money all their lives, and almost all of it has been spent on marrying their sons and daughters-in-law.

On the other hand, in addition to the comparison of marriage, funerals also began to compare with each other. In order to compare with "filial piety", the funeral was very big, and some even had a thick burial.

"Suona ring, covered with white cloth, served by relatives and friends" has become a typical funeral form in many rural areas, and has long lost the original appearance of traditional customs and etiquette.

These behaviors are undoubtedly bad habits when the meaning of a thing has gone far beyond the matter itself.

How to govern? Have an idea

These habits not only increase the living burden of the villagers, but also have a bad influence on the atmosphere.

In fact, high-priced bride price, big-scale weddings and funerals and other stereotypes and bad habits. In rural areas, it is actually "everyone hates it", but "everyone can't get rid of it", thus forming an "infinite cycle".

But this is a bad culture, and it is difficult to get rid of it by one family.

For these, the state actually began to pay attention to them very early, and many measures were implemented before, and with the promotion of rural revitalization reform, the constraints in this regard are also strengthening.

For example, in the Rural Revitalization Promotion Law, it is proposed to play the role of "village rules and regulations", go deep into the countryside to promote the action of changing customs and habits, and get rid of stereotypes, extravagance and waste.

The second is to strengthen publicity and education, and intensify the management of bad atmosphere.

For example, in some villages, this trend has been circulating for many years and it is difficult to change. At this time, effective measures will be taken to strengthen the control of such unhealthy practices as high-priced bride price, human comparison, heavy burial, extravagance and waste, feudal superstition and so on.

On the other hand, it is necessary to strengthen the role of publicity and education, establish correct concepts, and popularize wedding funerals.

In recent years, under the rectification, weddings and funerals have been obviously improved, but there is still a long way to go.

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