I am for everyone and for my public relations spirit.

the privacy of human nature cannot be avoided. It's not advisable to cover one's ears, and it's even more impossible to let it drift. We should create an atmosphere of "I am for everyone and everyone is for me". This world needs selfless dedication. But in fact, many things in life can't get good results because of methods. If we talk about selflessness from a different angle and from the perspective of human nature, maybe another world will appear. Please see the revelation of the following story:

An American psychologist made an interesting experiment in an open-air swimming pool, deliberately arranged for different people to drown, and then observed the response of rescuers who jumped into the water.

the result is intriguing. In the year-long experiment, when the white-haired old man slipped into the water, a total of 2 people rescued him. When the child slipped into the water, a total of 32 people were rescued. When the young woman slipped into the water, the number of rescuers rose to 5.

psychologists say that this experiment can prove that there is a selfish tendency in human nature. Although they also saved lives, I knew what they were thinking at the moment they jumped into the water. I can tell those beautiful girls that their drowning is much safer than other people.

This experiment reminds people of a story that happened around them. An employee is very stingy at ordinary times, and he will pay at most one yuan for fundraising in the company, even if he raises money for employees of the company.

But strangely, recently he and a poor student in the mountainous area of northern Zhejiang formed a pair of students, and he took out 1 yuan money at one time.

It is not his usual style to donate nearly a month's salary to students. However, if we understand it from another angle, it is similar to the phenomenon that there are many rescue workers in the swimming pool when young women fall into the water. What works is that everyone has a subconscious tendency of "based on their own interests". To put it bluntly, many people donate one person and one person at the same time. Of course, the latter has a greater sense of accomplishment and the possibility of expecting returns.

People are selfish animals, which is not a shameful thing. What's important is how to recognize and make use of selfishness, instead of going against "sex" and doing something in vain with too high a posture.

There is a reservoir in the suburb of a city, which attracts a large number of swimmers to swim every summer. Reservoir is an important water source for urban waterworks. In order to keep the water source clean and hygienic, the waterworks put up many "No Swimming" signs in the reservoir area. But the effect is not ideal, and people follow suit.

Later, the waterworks changed all the prohibited slogans, and the bulletin board said, "Your household water comes from here, please keep it clean." As a result, swimmers in the reservoir area are rare.

Enlightenment: This is not so much the success of propaganda language as the success of conforming to and respecting human nature. Because the water in the reservoir has a close interest relationship with swimmers.

I'm for everyone, and everyone is for me

Comics start with a small contradiction in life and end with people solving the contradiction reasonably and properly, which is thought-provoking and enlightening.

The cartoon depicts three families living under the same roof. One family in the middle set up a rain shelter under the roof, and the rain flowed to the front of two neighbors. Not to be outdone, the left and right neighbors set up two rain shelters under the middle portal, and as a result, the rain dripping from the eaves of the left and right families all flowed to the front of the middle portal; Later, three families connected three raindrops into a line, and from then on, three families no longer had to suffer from dripping rain.

Comics highlight the theme of positive, unity and cooperation through concise outlines. It embodies the formation process of the correct ideology of the three families from individual interests to collective interests. It inspires people to take care of the overall situation and not just personal interests. Only when everyone cares about others can we create a harmonious and beautiful living environment, which is beneficial to both people and themselves. Just think, if the three families do not start from others' point of view in the end, they still only care about their own interests, then they will not only suffer from the rain, but also have endless quarrels. It can be seen that the correct attitude should be to proceed from the overall situation and consider personal interests on the premise of not interfering with the interests of others. Here, we also learned how to solve contradictions. When the contradiction appeared, the three families correctly analyzed the causes of the contradiction and found a commendable solution. We all know the story of three monks carrying water to eat. Because all three monks only consider their own interests, no one wants to suffer, resulting in no water to drink. This is that they did not find a reasonable solution after the contradiction appeared, and finally they could only look at the river and sigh, which made people laugh. The practice of the three families is a perfect ending for the story of three monks carrying water to eat.

Small frictions and contradictions in life can be seen everywhere. As long as we have the right attitude, the contradiction will be solved naturally. As long as we treat people and things in life sincerely, they will eventually return our sincerity.