For my birthday, I bought a cake in the dormitory and treated it to my roommates. Then no one gave a gift, and no one mentioned that a gift should be given. 1***3 roommates, only

Girl, I just had the same experience as you. I just went to college in September this year. It was my first time to live on campus. I didn’t understand my roommates and what the accommodation was like. Moreover, my birthday falls on the same day every year. School has just started, so I just celebrated my birthday two days ago. If it is a normal birthday, it is not a big birthday. The key is that this year I am 18 years old, which is quite important to ordinary people. I didn’t tell my roommates, so I bought a cake myself, just to treat them to a meal. I could also receive blessings and share the joy, so I didn’t tell them in advance. You said I didn’t want anything, so I didn’t. They didn't prepare it, and didn't tell them. I just wanted to celebrate myself. I bought a big cake specially! After I came back, everyone was talking and so on. Only one person really said happy birthday to me. Even the girl I usually ate and played with didn't say a word. I even told her in advance, what did she say? Didn't say anything. . I invited them to eat cake and asked them several times when I asked them when we would eat it, but they were procrastinating and it was really embarrassing in the end. When the cakes were divided, they were divided one by one. No one ate less. On the contrary, I ate very little. It was really annoying. But I just wanted to get a blessing. They didn’t need to buy anything. I treated them. Now everyone is so sincere. It's hard to predict. We are all too kind. People like us are ruined by our emotions. We attach too much importance to emotions and neglect ourselves. We expect too much from others, but we are disappointed. We care too much about getting approval from others and care too much about others. Dear, cherish yourself more in the future. No one is worthy of your sincerity. Be considerate and considerate. You would rather not win people's hearts than wrong yourself for forcing others! I think this is the first lesson I learned when I came to university!