Between family members 1.2

Between family members: small things are indisputable, and big things are not strange.

When something happens, we should bear it together, but we can't turn it over.

Learn to compromise and tolerate in the name of love.

1, family is the best shelter in life, and the warmth of family often determines the happiness of a person's life. Only by understanding each other can we live a harmonious and beautiful life; Only with the concerted efforts of Qi Xin can Qixin cope with the ups and downs of life.

The best way for a family to get along with each other is: don't argue about small things, don't blame each other when big things go wrong, and don't turn things around. As the saying goes, teeth and tongue will bump into each other, and it is inevitable to quarrel when living together. Everything must be contested, and any small matter may cause some contradictions and disputes.

A happy family is not without contradictions, but without competitive wisdom. There is a good saying: the so-called good relationship comes from one person's tolerance and accommodation, and another person's moderation. Always remember that in a family, relatives are more important than truth, tolerance is more important than transformation, and affection is more important than care. Facing the little things in life, knowing how to take a step back and broaden the horizon can make life better.

When things happen, you can't solve the problem calmly, you can only blame each other. This way of communication is called "alienation communication method" in psychology. When a person's mood is at its peak, deep worries are likely to turn into blurted blame. What is the correct solution?

Someone once said: "In the most helpless and weak time, in the most depressed and down-and-out time, your family holds your chin and supports your back, ordering you to be strong, stay with you and share your destiny." . At that time, in addition to love, the feelings between you also had sincere loyalty and a tacit understanding of never leaving, which was unforgettable.

Unforgettable kindness. "Life is doomed to be bumpy, and the reaction in front of the problem is the touchstone of a relationship. When a mistake has occurred and caused consequences, it is not only irreparable, but also easy to intensify contradictions and make the other party even more annoyed. Ten thousand sentences of "It's all your fault" are not as good as one sentence of "I'll accompany you". The most rational choice is to embrace each other with open arms, warm each other and encourage each other to get out of trouble. You know, there is never the most correct reason in this world, only the truest feelings.

A writer once said, "Home is a small boat, which will carry us through such a long time." There are always unexpected accidents in life. The meaning of home is to build a safe haven for us when the storm comes. Cheer each other up together, hold a group to keep warm, share weal and woe, no matter how big the difficulty is, it will become less difficult, and no matter how difficult the desperate situation is, there will be a turn for the better.

3, old scores, like "criminal record", are mentioned from time to time, just like sprinkling salt on the wound again and again. No matter how good the feelings are, they can't stand such an "attack". No matter how gentle a lover is, he will become ferocious after bringing up the old things again and again.

In fact, the trick for two people to stay together for a long time is not to turn over old scores. What can I do if I turn it over? Only one is sadder and the other is angrier. Turning over old scores won't solve any problems. On the contrary, every time I turn over old scores, there will be more cracks in my feelings.

Sometimes, we always leave politeness to outsiders, bring our temper to our families, share our kindness with others, and put all the responsibilities on our lovers. You know, family is not a battlefield, and family is not an enemy. May we learn to compromise and tolerate in the name of love.

Don't care about small things, don't complain about big things, carry difficult things together, and put them down when things are over.

Only in this way can the family be managed warmly and prosperously.

Home is a place of love, not a place of reason. May we learn to compromise and tolerate in the name of love.