After the ladies' toilet, the girls' locker room was occupied by boys, and sure enough, the giant baby was cultivated from an early age.

I wonder if you have found a strange phenomenon. In public places such as swimming pools and bathing places, you can always see some mothers taking their sons to the women's locker room, but you can rarely see fathers taking their daughters to the men's locker room.

One of the reasons behind this is embarrassing, that is, in taking care of children, the role of father is often absent in many families, and widowed parenting is indeed the status quo faced by many mothers.

But is that all?

Every time those teenage boys commit heinous "sexual" violations in society, everyone is filled with indignation. Why are children so precocious nowadays? But when you think about it, aren't those incompetent parents who push their children to the road of precocity like this?

In order to make children obedient, many parents are used to using mobile phones to observe silence. You think he is watching cartoons, but in fact he has learned to watch "love action movies". You think he is addicted to online classes, but in fact he is addicted to the game world and gets carried away.

How many parents always use the excuse that "my child is too young to be necessary" because of the lack of sex education from childhood, but the bad guys never think your child is too young.

Children's gender concept should be cultivated from an early age, regardless of age. Because there are some things that you don't teach, and children have no time to understand.

I got a normal news today, and the content was extremely uncomfortable.

A netizen said:

Seeing this, I can feel offended through the screen. I really can't help but say: Are teenage boys still young? Do you know that some little girls have menarche in their teens? By the same token, boys of this age should know what they shouldn't know, right?

Physiologically speaking, teenage boys and girls are qualified to be parents as long as they are in normal health. Some people even think they are children! Sure enough, the giant baby was cultivated from an early age!

In fact, it is really common for a mother to take her son to a woman's place, and sometimes it is understandable. For example, some boys have been taken care of by their mothers since childhood. It is inconvenient to go out to the toilet. If you are really young, it is understandable to be taken to the ladies' room. After all, the bathroom is a private place, and it doesn't have much impact.

Boys aged three or four can accept taking them into the ladies' room. Are all people under the age of ten without hands or feet? Or did the mother hurt her son's life, and his son couldn't take care of himself, so he had to take it into the ladies' room and watch his baby son urinate?

Besides, the dressing room is different, not a private space. Not to mention the age of the boy brought in, do you understand the difference between men and women? Just because everyone has to change clothes when they go in, they shouldn't bring boys in.

You know, three or four-year-old children have already begun to remember. Do you still think it doesn't matter if your teenage daughter is taken to the men's locker room by her father? Or those mothers think that their son is more expensive than others, but they will look at it anyway, and it is not her son who suffers.

I don't know why in the eyes of many mothers, my son is always a spoiled baby. It seems that as long as I live, my son will always be a little baby. No wonder so many men have been spoiled since childhood.

If you keep rolling like this, you will become a middle-aged greasy giant baby! And those who don't know their mother's rhetoric of protecting calves don't know where they get the confidence and courage, and they don't know whether to love their sons or push them into abnormal thoughts step by step.

There are so many wonderful things. A mother who doesn't care probably doesn't know what her son is thinking when he looks at a group of opposite sex.

The boy who was taken by his mother to "see the world" in women's public places since childhood is not a case. ...

A said: I used to go swimming. Two teenage boys stared at my chest and whispered to each other. One of the boys said loudly, "Look at this big bag." I felt speechless at that time. I am so angry that I want to cry. I really wanted to go up and slap him ... but I put up with it because his mother was nearby and looked at me viciously.

B said: I went to try on clothes that day. When I first arrived at the fitting room, I saw two teenage boys lying under the door and looking in ... I was speechless ... saying that children can't do this ... He also pointed at me and smiled ... His mother came over and said, I didn't look at you!

C said: Before, my mother and I went to the bathhouse to take a bath, and a mother took her 5-or 6-year-old son into the women's bathhouse. My mother said a few words and brought her son to the women's bathhouse at such an age. Go straight to his mother: You Jingui, why are you Jingui still taking a bath in the bathhouse? My mother quarreled with others directly, absolutely!

D said: Last summer, when I went swimming, an old woman came in with her son who was almost as tall as her. She didn't change clothes, just sat in a chair and shook her legs. I wanted to wait for them to go out, but I didn't move. Then I took out my cell phone and started recording. The woman asked me what I was doing, and I said I was making a video. Why did a man sneak into the women's locker room? The woman said that her son was only ten years old. You are disgusting! Let me put it this way, why don't you take him to the men's locker room to change? Her son pushed me, too As soon as I pushed him into the chair, I said don't touch me. At that time, I suddenly realized and said, "Do you know who this piece is and don't ask me who I am?" Then the woman stopped swimming and slipped away with the child.

Some women forget that they are women after they get married and have children. They used to be a thin-skinned girl.

Privacy is something that no one can offend. Does it have anything to do with Jingui?

When I was twelve or thirteen years old, I was already in the second grade. It seems that I have been taking a class on biological human structure since the second grade. How dare I say that children still look down upon it? What I don't understand is probably only those self-righteous princes and mothers!

It is always said that boys are too young to be sensible, so I want to ask these mothers, if your daughter is ten years old, do you agree with her father to take her to the men's bathroom to change clothes? You still say it doesn't matter if the child is young?

It is because of the self-righteousness of those mothers that there are so many "exposed" salty pig hands since childhood, and subway buses are smashed and opened in public places.

I remember seeing a news some time ago that a teenage girl was rubbed by an uncle on the bus and then said in tears, "You can be my father at any age. Why are you doing this? "

Some offenses seem to have no substantial harm, but the psychological trauma caused to people may be accompanied by life.

Someone always said, you must tell your daughter and protect yourself. Don't wear revealing clothes, but look, is it useful? How many mothers fail to educate their sons well, so many girls know how to protect themselves.

I remember reading a report before that a woman was sexually harassed by a boy in the swimming pool and then quarreled. The boy's mother also hit the lady, went to work to bite, and finally forced the lady to commit suicide.

How many tragedies are caused by an insignificant detail? While respecting others, do you not respect yourself?

This is a very controversial and discussed topic. In this case, we always think about how old children are suitable to be brought into the opposite sex bathhouse, but in fact, from the perspective of family education, no matter how old, they should be brought into the same sex bathhouse. The father takes care of the little boy and the mother takes care of the little girl, which is a good enlightenment and education for children to establish gender awareness and protection awareness from an early age.

We always complain about the lack of sex education in schools, children's lack of self-protection awareness and so on. But these bits and pieces should start from the source of the family, and parents should set an example from the most basic.

The general cognition of the public is that children's nutritional status is good now, and children under the age of 14 have accelerated their physical and mental development, matured their minds ahead of time, and greatly improved their cognitive and control abilities.

10- 14 Some minors have the ability to identify and control their own behaviors, and accordingly have certain criminal awareness and ability, which means that they have the ability to bear certain criminal responsibilities.

Remember last year, a boy of 14 years old in Liaoning was once in a state of panic and invaded his neighbor 10 year old girl? He is also regarded by his parents as a young and ignorant advocate, but his mental maturity and means must not be comparable to many adults.

Every teenager comes here when he is three or four years old. I hope those princes and mothers will stop saying that children aged four or five are too young to wear clothes for fear of being abducted. Is the swimming pool a necessary occasion for life? Do I have to go swimming? Can't we go somewhere else where we don't have to take off our clothes?

In the final analysis, it is actually a matter of education. My mother's best friend has a young but sensible son who once went to a hot spring together, fearing that he would be left unattended. His mother asked him if he wanted to go into the women's locker room together. He said, it's not appropriate. I can take care of myself.

It can be seen that the boys who entered the dressing room were either dragged in by their mothers or didn't realize such things because they didn't have relevant education at ordinary times. The most terrible thing is that they know it's inappropriate and cooperate with each other to take the initiative.

Nowadays, children are precocious, so don't underestimate the maturity of an underage child. Some children know everything and know how to avoid suspicion; There are also some who know better and know how to offend.

Today's topic: Have you ever met a boy who was taken to the locker room by his mother? what do you think?