How to stop the uncivilized behavior of others?

How to stop the uncivilized behavior of others? 0 1, if you encounter this phenomenon, you can go directly to convince the other party. In fact, I think as a young man, if you encounter these uncivilized phenomena in public, you can directly persuade the other party to stop this behavior immediately. First of all, it is also good for each other. Secondly, this is the responsibility or obligation of each of us young people, because public places must be maintained by each of us. Many people may feel a little embarrassed to go directly to persuade each other, or some will embarrass each other. In fact, this idea is very wrong. If our persuasion can leave a very deep impression on the other party, it is also a good thing for the other party, and he will not dare to continue doing these uncivilized things in public places next time. 02, you can let the relevant departments paste some slogans in public places. In fact, now we can post some slogans in many public places, such as no smoking or talking loudly. In general, we can remind people not to have some uncivilized behaviors in public places through these slogans. Of course, the effect of this method is not necessarily particularly good. After all, some people with low quality will not pay attention even if they see the slogan. 03. A fine system can be implemented. In fact, I personally think this method should be more effective. Even if some people with no quality come forward to persuade them, they will ignore you, and maybe they will make a scene with you. Then at this time, a fine system can be formulated so that people from relevant departments can supervise in public places. Once someone is found to have some uncivilized phenomena, fine measures can be taken immediately to impress the other party. Of course, fine is not the ultimate goal. We just want to achieve the goal of building civilization by this means.

We all look forward to a harmonious and friendly social atmosphere, but there will always be some disharmony.

Walking in the street, some people simply don't look at the traffic lights and walk through the crowded vehicles;

When eating in a restaurant, some people pick up cigarettes and smoke regardless of whether there are children around;

Walking in the scenic park, I found that the ground was full of shit;

When traveling, you will also see tourists climbing over the guardrail, stepping on the lawn and taking pictures on the sculptures of great men;

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Such things are too numerous to mention.

I really can't help but go forward to discourage, and I will often be criticized for meddling. Even relatives around me will comment, "I am too stupid to be a man." Such a thing seems to many people to be just an uncivilized trivial matter, and there is nothing to make a fuss about. But in the eyes, it is always so disharmonious, such as in the throat.

Even if you listen to your friends' advice and don't pay attention to these things, Murphy's law is so magical. The more you worry about something, the more it will happen. How should we treat such a thing, and how can we make ourselves feel at ease, so as not to become a "fool" in the eyes of relatives, but also to avoid causing physical harm to ourselves?

In this case, you can have the following five strategies:

1. No matter how uncomfortable you are, tell yourself it's none of your business and avoid causing yourself any trouble;

There is no way to point out the wrong behavior of the other party face to face. According to the subconscious feedback of ordinary people, please have a heated debate between the two sides. If the situation is serious, you may verbally invite the "elders at home" to help;

3. If you are unfortunate enough to meet a master who likes to do things and never says anything, you should be prepared for the activity;

4. After thinking about it in my mind, I found that the first three situations are not what we want, so I plan to be a smart person and encourage him to behave uncivilized, in order to let him encounter hard stubble and fall down in the future;

Treat this matter as a gentleman, dare to point out and correct uncivilized behavior, ignore possible counterattacks, and never belittle yourself to fight uncivilized behavior.

In fact, no matter which strategy looks so beautiful, either the moral standard is too high and it is not so easy to achieve, or the moral standard is too low, which makes you a "barbarian". But the good news is that we all know what is right in our hearts. Human nature is unwilling to accept the opinions output by others, so if we can all restrain ourselves with higher moral standards, the world will definitely get better step by step.