Do doctors who perform B-ultrasounds on pregnant women feel panicked when they know the gender of the fetus but don’t reveal it?

My B-ultrasound colleagues, acquaintances or first-born babies, will give symbolic reminders, such as they look like my father or mother, and how good they are at playing the piano, or they will point to the interface and say, pink. It's nice, isn't it? But the medical records show that there is a second child, no matter whether they know each other or not, they won't say anything, and they won't even say it to death [face covering], especially those who really want to know the answer, and the adults will see that they are accompanied by their mother-in-law. I kept asking whether there was a handle or not, so just pretend to be deaf and dumb, what, the doctor can’t understand the dialect series, hahaha...

When I went there by myself, my colleague reminded me Several times, I said that she looked like my husband, and he would be good at playing the piano after his fingers were long, but I didn't even react. Finally, she said, "You can prepare for a second child," and I didn't react until she said that there is no throne in the family. If I want to inherit, why should I have a second child? Now I have a baby girl, and the whole family is doting on me. She said she didn’t expect that I would actually keep my word [laughing and crying]

Most of the time, B-ultrasound is very busy and I don’t have time. Chatting, especially in big hospitals, there are so many people queuing outside, you may not even have time to go to the toilet, and then whether the baby in your belly is a boy or a girl, and it is not your own baby, a boy or a girl, it is not interesting, but the obstetrics department will bet on it when operating. Men and women play, and the loser buys milk tea... Haha

You really know how to do it. Sometimes you can clearly see that pregnant women and their family members are also very interested in the gender of the fetus, and they always deliberately lie to us. Sometimes when they get in the way, I unconsciously let something slip. When I think about it afterwards, I always regret that I was not strict with my words. But it’s more about the fear of the system and professional ethics!

There is a doctor in our department who is a great person. She was very sensitive to gender after she became pregnant. Her husband’s family wanted a son. The key is that she herself was obsessed with having a son. She is from a mountainous area. She is the second eldest child in a family of 5. The youngest is the eldest son of her parents. Her sisters are Zhaodi, Yindi, Pandi and Laidi. Her names are all entrusted to her parents. Dedication to his son. Okay, let’s get back to the subject. After she became pregnant, she had a prenatal check-up in our hospital. During the NT B-ultrasound, the sex of the fetus was actually clearly visible. I was a clerk in the B-ultrasound room at the time, and I was the doctor who recorded the B-ultrasound next to the computer. inspection report. The B-ultrasound doctor and I had a tacit understanding of each other. When she was not busy at noon, she would lie on the examination bed and face the display screen to herself, and she would do the B-ultrasound by herself. When her posture was not smooth, she would ask me to help her. The girl who was pregnant with her second child had not yet been released that year. After she found out the gender, she felt extremely regretful, but she said she would definitely be reluctant to have the surgery. Anyway, she was always sighing during that time.

Because she is a pregnant woman herself, every time she gives prenatal check-ups to other pregnant women, as long as she is not very busy, she will chat with them, and she will have a good time chatting with pregnant women she meets. But whenever family members or herself talked about the gender of the fetus, she would say that men and women were the same, and that they would basically all be girls at that time. If she didn’t have any expressions, she would put the “Severely crack down on illegal fetal gender identification” posted in the examination room. Show the slogan to pregnant women and it will be a boy.

Others may be a little confused, but I know it all. So sometimes when I see pregnant women and their families struggling, I especially want to tell them the result directly. It’s okay if I guess right, but I panic if I guess wrong.

There are also some who use roundabout tactics. They stand guard at the door and induce me to say, "Sister nurse, do you think our baby looks better in a skirt or pants?", "Is our family looking for investment or is it better? CCB!", or "We have a brother, it would be great if we had a sister"....

For those who already have a brother, if the second child is indeed a girl, I They will also hint congratulations to you, and smart people will know that their wishes have come true.

For this doctor, he does so many examinations every day, and these patients are just passers-by, so what is there to be curious about? It doesn't matter to him whether your child is a boy or a girl, so he doesn't hold back or not, he only has thoughts about people and things that interest him.

Hello, for Dr. Bicheng, it is his normal job to perform B-ultrasound examinations on patients, including prenatal examinations for pregnant women. It is also one of his daily tasks.

Various auxiliary examinations in clinical practice, including blood tests, B-ultrasound, CT, MRI, etc. It is just an auxiliary examination, and ultimately it is necessary to go to the doctor for a comprehensive evaluation to make an accurate diagnosis.

A B-ultrasound doctor has to perform prenatal check-ups on many pregnant mothers every day, and they will not deliberately check the gender of the fetus. Their duty is to check whether the fetus is developing normally and whether there are any abnormalities. As for boys and girls, pregnant women and their families may be interested in knowing, but this is not the scope that doctors should be concerned about.

Even if the doctor accidentally sees the gender, he will not be interested, because to the doctor, boys and girls are the same. They will only be responsible for their own responsibilities, and will not think too much, let alone panic.

As a doctor, you must have this psychological quality, and the key is to have professional ethics.

When I was pregnant with my baby, I asked the doctor and she didn’t tell me, saying that I couldn’t disclose it.

I said that when I gave birth to my first baby, I was curious about what color clothes I should prepare. She said that in the first three months, both men and women can wear any color.

When I was pregnant with my second child, the doctor asked me whether it was my first child or my second child. I said second child.

She asked again if it was a boy or a girl, and I said boy.

She said it was great.

I understood that this baby was a daughter.

I feel that they are not focusing on male and female, but mainly on all aspects of fetal development. When I did a small abnormality, they mainly checked the fetal heart, and she watched it for a long time.

I asked again if all the organs could be seen clearly? She said of course.

Because I didn’t know about my second child in the early stage and took the medicine, I was worried that it would be deformed. I asked if the baby’s lips, eyes, nose, and ears were normal. She said yes.

At the end of the procedure, I specifically targeted the baby’s mouth and said it wasn’t a harelip, which was pretty good.

I feel that doctors have to check so many things every day, but they really don’t care about this. What they care about is whether the fetus is developing normally in all aspects. This is what they care about most.

Probably not. Gender is only part of the examination process. They focus more on whether the baby's development is healthy. In addition, the hospital requires that the gender is not allowed to be disclosed for non-health reasons, so a professional doctor will not think so. I didn't know the gender and was still panicking.

What do you think? The state clearly stipulates that B-ultrasound doctors prohibit gender identification unless there are medical reasons.

Do you think she will tell you? Some people will hint at it, and some people will just look at it silently, but they won’t say anything. You will definitely not be overwhelmed.

There are so many people doing B-ultrasound every day. Most doctors don’t have time to take care of this. They just do it one after another and replace it with the next one. So it’s really not possible to feel panicked, and when you’re busy, you’ll feel particularly annoyed if you have to ask questions.

For B-ultrasound doctors, the focus is not the gender of the fetus at all, let alone doing so many tests every day. Who cares about this? I think too much

I think I might be panicking at first. , but after a lot of experience, you should be used to it, and the professional ethics are there. If you are caught, you will lose your job, so I won’t talk about it.

I didn’t check the gender of my two babies, but to be honest, sometimes my intuition as a mother is pretty accurate. I just think it’s a girl, and it’s really a girl.