Civilized manners accompany me.

Firstly, the historical and cultural background of civilized etiquette is written, and then the significance of civilized etiquette accompanying our bank is expounded from two aspects: first, from the social visual point; Second, start with the moral civilization of citizens; Once again, I will give examples to illustrate my pleasure in the company of civilized manners, and the reaction and attitude of others (comparison of praise and criticism), appropriately list some methods and measures, talk about some personal experiences and suggestions, and finally proudly look forward to the blueprint of China's future civilized manners, and make some concluding remarks, such as mobilizing the whole society to move towards a better future together ...!

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If you lose today, you are not a loser, because you will come back tomorrow.

If you lose money, you are not a loser, because the value of life is not in the purse.

If you lose civilization, you are a complete failure, because you have lost the true meaning of being a man.

Civilization covers the relationship between people, people and society, and people and nature. Its main functions are: first, to pursue the perfection of personal morality; Second, safeguard public interests and public order.

Speaking of politeness, I think of a story. On one occasion, Comrade Lenin went downstairs, and in the narrow corridor of the stairs, he met a female worker carrying a basin of water upstairs. As soon as the women workers see Lenin, they will step back and make way. Lenin stopped her and said, "Don't do this. You're halfway done, and I'm empty-handed. Please go first! " He said the word "please" loudly and kindly. Then he leaned against the wall and told the girl to go upstairs, and then he went downstairs. Isn't this also a sign of politeness?

I don't want to give too many examples of great men here, because it's easy to give people an illusion: if we think that politeness is only for great men and celebrities, then we don't have to feel guilty for our more or less uncivilized words and deeds; Or think that even if you practice the requirements of civilization, you can't become a great man or a celebrity. We need not only moral figures, but also a group of moral people.

The civilization degree of a society can reflect the civilization degree of a society and a country. A person's failure to observe social civilization will have a small impact on his own image and a big impact on the national reputation. During the Qing Dynasty, Minister Li Hongzhang went to Russia. In public, he had a bad habit of spitting everywhere, which was greatly exaggerated and ridiculed by foreign journalists and humiliated China people. This is a historical lesson of not obeying social civilization.

Public civilization is the embodiment of social consciousness, and public civilization is based on the level of personal moral cultivation. Imagine, if a person does not pay attention to his own civilization, will he have a good civilization? Don't! Personal civilization etiquette is the root and foundation. If people want to have a good civilization, they must start from themselves and start from the side. Therefore, Mr. Lu Xun said: "If China wants to survive and compete in the world, its first thing is to establish people, and then people will do everything." "Educating people" means improving people's thinking and civilization. Man's civilization is not innate, but constantly improved the day after tomorrow. To improve one's self-cultivation, one must first concentrate on studying and improve one's cognitive level; When cognition reaches a certain level, there is the ability to distinguish right from wrong; With the ability to distinguish right from wrong, good and evil, we must correct our mentality, not violate our conscience, and strive to make our words and deeds conform to moral standards, so that our self-cultivation will be improved. This is what the ancients said: being realistic, knowledgeable, sincere, upright and self-cultivation. Only by perfecting personal moral cultivation can there be a basis for promoting social civilization.

The civilized atmosphere of a society also has a great influence on its people. Why do you say that? I believe that some students have been to Europe or Japan and have personal experience. Not to mention the big ones, I have seen such a small thing as the road. As long as the red light is on, foreigners will never cross the road even if there are no cars on the road. They think this is a public civilization that must be observed. Excuse me, in such an atmosphere, who will run a red light unscrupulously? This is the power of social atmosphere. But think again, if we don't start from ourselves, where does this social atmosphere come from?

A reporter interviewed a scientist who won the Nobel Prize. "Professor, where did you learn the most important thing in life?" , "in kindergarten. There, I learned things that will benefit me for life, such as having good things to share with friends, being modest, and washing hands before eating ... "The same is true for us to improve our civilization. We don't necessarily have any big measures, but start with these small things: washing our hands when eating around us. Cultivate the habit of civilization, let the concept of civilization enter the unconscious level from the conscious level, and let civilization run through our every move.

We have been educated in civilized manners since childhood, and many students can talk about civilized manners at length. However, seeing lunch boxes and beverage bottles discarded everywhere on campus and hearing some students' swearing words, how can we not teach people grief! Are we all "giants of language and dwarfs of action"? Wang Shouren, a great scholar in the Ming Dynasty, said: "Knowing is the idea of doing, and doing is the kung fu of knowing; Knowing is the beginning of doing, and doing is the achievement of knowing; Knowing and doing is noumenon and kung fu. Knowing and not doing it is just unknown. " We receive the education of civilization and etiquette, but we are stingy with it or even do the opposite, which is different from never receiving social education! Therefore, if we want to practice social civilization, we must work hard from this "unity of knowing and doing", work hard from our own words, and bid farewell to uncivilized behavior.

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We don't have to complain that the civilization of this society is not high; Don't complain that your strength is too thin and has little impact on society. Imagine, isn't there very little yeast in bread? However, isn't this yeast alone the initiator of bread? Each of our classmates should be the yeast of this era, and let their own enzymes play their due role in this society.

Students, let's take action, "new century, new era, new country and new civilization", don't let civilization just appear on paper, let it be active among us, let civilization be everywhere, let us be the masters of civilization and let civilization walk with me!

We need a civilized life.

Wang Bingxiang in the sixth grade

As the saying goes, "parents are the best teachers for children." However, I became a teacher for my mother and influenced the whole family with practical actions. In my mother's words, by changing my mother, I changed not only my mother, but also the people around her, including her colleagues.

It goes back to the winter of the year before last, when it was already very cold. It's very cold in winter in Beijing, so my family drove out to see a movie. Because Olympic officials come to visit Beijing, there are all kinds of plastic flowers everywhere in Beijing, which makes people feel a little warm in winter. We eat snacks and listen to music in the car, which is very comfortable. When I arrived in Dongzhimen, my mother threw the garbage bag filled with garbage outside along the window. It was too late for me to stop it. I asked my father to drive the car back to pick up garbage, and my mother said that the car could not be returned. Besides, there are so many cars on the road. What if I go back and collapse? Mom even said it would be nice to change it next time. But I was determined not to do it, and finally my dad brought the car back. Mother found the rubbish she had thrown away. Although it took a lot of time, the whole family thought I was right. On the way home, many garbage bags of different colors were hung on the trees on both sides of the airport expressway, and the whole family deeply reflected.

Since then, our whole family has become ambassadors of "stressing civilization and protecting the environment" with practical actions. Last week, my family climbed Xiangshan, enjoyed the red leaves and took a lot of food to have a picnic. After the picnic, everyone will collect the garbage separately, carry it down the mountain and throw it where there are trash cans. Such a thing will be done consciously in our family without my supervision. My mother touched me with practical actions. She often picks up the rubbish on the ground in public places and throws it into the trash can.

To be civilized and polite, everyone needs to start from me and start from small things. As small masters of the country, we have the obligation to help those who have not received a good education to learn and practice civilization. Because we are rich in material life today, we need to build a high level of spiritual civilization. Only in this way can our country become a strong and highly civilized country, and civilization can be admired by more people.

Once, I saw on TV that Germany, an ancient European civilization, called on the people of the whole country to be civilized and polite, and to find back the ancient etiquette of the Germanic nation. At the same time, for example, an old woman passed by this road. Although she was the only one on the road, she waited for the red light to turn green. The old woman replied, "I'm afraid the children upstairs will think they can pass when they see the red light." I sent this story to all my grandfathers, grandmothers, fathers and mothers. How important your words and deeds are to us. When you have uncivilized behavior, think about your children! Thought we were an ancient civilization!

I want to use this little experience to tell my classmates that our words and deeds can also influence and change adults! Try it if you don't believe me! Let's all be polite middle school students! In this way, our life can be better and our country can be stronger.

Civilized manners accompany me.

Eighth grade gong

Our country is a country of etiquette and has always been polite. Confucius believes that "you can't stand without learning etiquette"; Jia Yi in Han Dynasty regarded politeness as the difference between man and beast. In modern civilized society, being civilized and polite should be strongly advocated, because it is of great significance to "form a good social atmosphere of pursuing nobleness and inspiring advanced" and "promote the continuous improvement of the quality of the whole nation". Therefore, we citizens should conform to the requirements of the times, consciously abide by them and be polite and civilized citizens. However, it is a pity that in real life, uncivilized and impolite phenomena often appear.

For example, picking your ears, nose and even feet in front of the public; When listening to others, look around and disdain; Grab, fight for seats and even fight as soon as you get on the bus; Spitting in public places, littering and urinating on the roadside. On June 6, 2004, Beijing Radio and TV News reported that the roadside to the east of Muxidi Science and Technology Museum has become an open-air toilet for taxi drivers, so that it can be smelled every few hundred meters, and residents have great opinions. Residents can't have small opinions. In broad daylight, in broad daylight, it is convenient to say it is convenient on the side of the road without fences. It's really uncivilized It is convenient for people to urinate, but it is not convenient for passers-by. Not only is it inconvenient for pedestrians, but foreigners will not laugh at the low quality of our whole Chinese nation when they see it, because your convenience has discriminated against and implicated the whole nation. What a scandal! Be worthy of raising your motherland?

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John Locke, a famous British educator, said: "Politeness is a habit that children and young people should pay special attention to." We should learn from Premier Zhou, and American President Nixon commented on this in his book Leaders. Nixon said: "Zhou Enlai's agility and wit far exceed that of any other world leader I know. This is China's unique and special character, and it is also the essence of various China civilizations developed over the centuries. He is very modest, but calm and firm. " Zhou Enlai's civilized speech, polite manners, convincing temperament and demeanor are vivid manifestations of his noble character, broad mind, extraordinary wisdom and beautiful and noble mind.

It seems that manners are very important. So, what should we do? First of all, pay attention to cultivate your beautiful and noble mind. On the surface, politeness is external, but in fact, the external form contains internal thoughts and feelings. A truly civilized and polite person is a person with a beautiful heart, and beautiful language comes from a beautiful heart. This is what people often say: "what you say is what you do" and "what you say is what you do". Secondly, we should regulate our words and deeds with the requirements of civilized and polite moral standards in practice. Politeness is very important in performance. It mainly includes four points: ① Modesty and courtesy; 2 civilized speech; 3 dignified behavior; ④ Pay attention to hygiene. I think, if you can do the above four points, you are worthy of being a member of the "state of etiquette".

Goethe, a famous German writer, famously said, "A man's politeness is a mirror, which reflects his portrait." Indeed, people always judge you by your behavior. Because politeness is the golden key for human beings to live in harmony, and only with it can we be happy and happy.

Civilization is a quality that everyone must possess.

Deng Wenxue, Senior One (1)

The wind of etiquette has been passed down for thousands of years, and China is known as "an ancient civilization" and "a country of etiquette". In today's society, from the exchange of visits between heads of state to the communication between ordinary people, from the smile of political masters to the handshake of business masters, the brilliance of civilization and etiquette shines.

When we contact a person, we often give him some comments: "This person is of high quality and personable"; "This man is educated and speaks politely"; "This man is so bad that he can't even say a good word"; "This man is vulgar and foul-mouthed"; "This man is so sloppy that his clothes are wrinkled and his face has not been wiped clean" ... A high-quality and educated person must have good manners. Such people will be respected and welcomed.

Civilized etiquette should pay attention to peacetime, cultivate from childhood and develop good habits. There is an old saying: "Less becomes nature, and habit becomes nature." The story of "Liu Bei's three visits to the cottage" shows that only by respecting others can you gain their respect and trust and succeed in your career. Zhou Enlai devoted his whole life to the cause of the Party and the people, but every time he went out to inspect the work, he always shook hands with waiters, chefs, guards and medical staff to express his gratitude. Premier Zhou is a model of respecting others and an example for young people to learn. Some people think that freedom is not important in modern society, as long as you study hard, work hard and have real skills. Modern society does respect individual choices and has greater freedom. However, it needs more civilized manners, because civilized manners are an important symbol of the degree of social civilization. There are more and more "elegant halls" in modern society, and no one wants to be a person who is difficult to board "elegant halls".

Japanese family education attaches great importance to the education of children. The mother cooked the meal without telling the child to eat it. Children can't eat by themselves first. Children must say "you're welcome" before eating. Children have a set of etiquette rules every time they leave home or go home. Children should say "I'm leaving" to their parents every time they go out, and "I'm back" every time they go home and enter the door. The civilized behavior of Japanese children has become their habit.

Japan has strict customs, not to mention our ancient country with a culture of 5,000 years.

Now, our country pays more and more attention to civilized manners, such as advocating civilized manners; Publication of "Popular Reader of Civilized Etiquette"; Carry out a variety of activities such as the "Capital Citizen Civilization and Etiquette Competition". Once I was in the street, I saw four eight or nine-year-old children moving their bicycles away from the blind road. Sweat trickled down their foreheads one after another, but they didn't care. Seeing this scene, I think anyone will be moved by them. This incident is enough to prove the achievements of China's civilized etiquette education.

Civilized manners and behaviors, together with quiet, elegant and comfortable environment and rich cultural atmosphere, will stimulate students to explore and seek knowledge. Good manners and customs can affect your study, your life and even your later life. Why not? Only with deep background, elegant speech and proper manners can we be called real connotative beauty.

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