As the saying goes, "a plum is not crowned, but a melon is not tied with shoes." Why do you say that?

As the saying goes, Li Xia has no crown and no shoes on the melon ground, which is the same as what we often say in Gua Tian, probably to avoid suspicion.

Li refers to the plum tree, and Gua Tian needs no explanation. This may mean trying not to do things that make others misunderstand. Plum is a plant with ripe fruit hanging on branches, so when you walk under someone else's plum tree, don't fiddle with your hat, or others will think you want to steal their plums.

The melons in Gua Tian grow on the ground. If you pass a Gua Tian, you should try not to bend down to tie your shoelaces, because when you bend down, others may think you are trying to steal their melons. Although you don't think so in your heart, at least you have this possibility in your behavior, and others will doubt you with guilty eyes.

There are too many such things in real life. Let me give an example to illustrate. When shopping in the supermarket, my heart is particularly empty, so when I walk to the settlement exit, I will have a feeling of wanting to prove it. I hope others don't look at me in another way. I'm afraid they will think I'm a thief.

So I pretended to be calm, deliberately looked straight ahead, and naturally walked out easily, but in fact my heart was a little uneasy. From this example, we can see that one should know how to avoid suspicion, and we all care about other people's eyes.

Whether you do it or not is one thing, but you can't stop others from thinking. You know, three men make up a tiger. Of course, you can say that you are really not afraid of crooked feet, but you can't stop those gossips from slandering you, so you must avoid suspicion as much as possible.

It can be seen that in daily life, we should try not to create trouble for ourselves, not to do things that make others misunderstand, and stay away from wrong places and misunderstandings. This is a kind of wisdom to be a human being.