Father's message to his newborn son

Years don't live, but the four seasons flow.

Suddenly having you, I seem to have some preparations, but I don't seem to have them. It feels like someone is tickling you, but the place where he tickles is not your itchy meat. This should be regarded as a kind of happiness, but for my age, it seems very quiet. To sum up, there is no wave in my heart, and I even want to laugh a little. The best embodiment is that your grandfather is more happy for your coming than your father and me.

Although you can't refute me, I want to talk to you, but I don't know where to start. Write wherever you want.

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About learning

Watching you grow up slowly, your eyes change from scattered to divine light, and then you can make a giggle. I said to your mother: when you were three years old, you could almost understand everything we said, but I haven't learned English well for more than ten years, so you are several orders of magnitude better than me now. When you go to school in the future, I hope you understand that the so-called learning stems from your distrust of the wisdom of the students next to you. This is very important. I think it is almost the essence of my whole study career, so I wrote it from the beginning.

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Generally speaking, we have two views on all problems, one is the wrong view and the other is our view. The older you get, the stronger this statement becomes. I didn't know much about it once, but now I know a little. I hope you can think about it when you grow up.

Long overdue.

Time is at your fingertips and fleeting. I realized this feeling when I looked up at the sky in the morning and evening, watching the shade of trees stretched repeatedly by the sun and the moonlight swaying on the eaves. Therefore, I am also afraid of getting old, but I can't help it. I am afraid that I will get nothing by sleeping in eternal time, so I sometimes pretend to cherish time. After having you, I feel that time is gradually accelerating. Everyone is only for a limited period of time. I think the most important thing is the time from birth to the end of his life. Enjoying this journey is the most important thing. I think it's beside the point.

Time goes by, do it and cherish it.

Therefore, be a good boy when you are young. I won't criticize your ignorance. Grow up slowly, and then understand for yourself. I hope that even if you are in a hurry when you walk in the future, I hope you can watch the birds in the trees, the grass in the street, the people in a hurry and the clouds in the sky, step on every step of the road and enjoy the scenery on the roadside that is not a scenery, because it was never seen again in the past. This is a sign of cherishing time.

Feng Tang said that this is a bloated era. Later, I learned that we were swollen at this age, but we felt nothing interesting. Later, it stopped swelling and I found everything interesting. Later years tell us that we can only pick something interesting in those boring years to make up for the lost youth. It turns out that the puffy youth is the most interesting time. I think the youth here can be replaced by any word in the past, such as your coming childhood.

About the style of being a man

I summed up the way your grandfather educated me, which can be summarized into eight words: strong self and pure heart. Put it on my head and push it to you. Gao said: May you be warm and virtuous all your life, and never abandon love and freedom. I think it's quite good, similar to ours, but we are not as good as others, and it seems that we work harder than others. As for naming you, my idea is that the simpler the better. I wanted to call you "two", but some of them were not very good. It is estimated that your grandparents, grandparents and your mother will not agree, so I named you "Yunzheng". "Yunzheng" symbolizes loftiness. I hope you can look up at the starry sky and overlook the earth in the future. "Zheng Zheng" means to maintain stability and strength. I didn't say why, but they agreed, and it felt good.

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There is a saying that true warriors dare to face the bleak life and face the dripping blood; People with true temperament know reincarnation, stand as loose as the wind, don't envy others to build tall buildings, don't stare at neon lights, slogans and billboards in the street, close their eyes slightly and listen like the sea; People who have never experienced difficulties are likely to be defeated when they encounter difficulties, and those who have not cried for too long are not enough to talk about life. This sincerity can build heaven and earth without contradiction.

It's okay if you can't do it, it's okay if you don't care, and it's okay if your clothes are full of flames, but it's important to understand these and yourself.

About life

My understanding of life is to do what I like, support myself and support my family. Life is not climbing mountains or digging trenches. It just sleeps out of your body in a standard bed. There are thousands of kinds of favors and countless kinds of hearts in the world, which makes me lucky, but not unfortunate. I only know one thing, that is, if you go out in a hurry, zip up your pants. These are all said by Han Han.

I don't want to talk about lifestyle here. I think that as long as your favorite lifestyle is right, you have the right and freedom to choose, including career, hobbies, beliefs, girls and various choices. May your life be interesting, even if it is boring, as long as you find it interesting and time goes by, don't be empty and lonely.

"You have to ask yourself what you really want and how you want to spend your life. You must ask yourself this fundamental question. " This is Nietzsche's ultimate torture of all people.

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Lev tolstoy has a novel The Death of Ivan ilych. Ivan Ili is a judge. He lived step by step, got married and had children, became an excellent civil servant, worked conscientiously and retired happily. But when he died, he felt that he was wrong. He found that his life style was like a car driving in the wrong direction. At that moment, he was very, very scared, but he didn't know what to do.

"In fact, everyone knows that as a unique thing, he only exists once in the world, and there will be no such coincidence for the second time. He can put such complex elements together to form an individual like him now. " Nietzsche said that there are two reasons why people dare not "be themselves": one is because of cowardice; The second is laziness. Zhou explained it this way: "Because you really want to be yourself, you have to work hard, you have to resist the pressure of public opinion and all kinds of accusations, and you will be subjected to all kinds of pressures if you want to be independent. So, forget it and live like everyone else. The second reason is timidity and fear. Why are you afraid? Most people are lazy. If a few people are independent, they are doomed to be lonely. "

John Mill once asked, "Do you want to be a happy pig all the time, or a sad Socrates?" "Even if it is a pig, it is good to be happy." So the answer is "can people really live like pigs in this life?" "It is very likely that the essence of life is a trip that you want to be a pig but can't do."

This sentence is written here in the hope that you will know some philosophy in the future. For example, when you finish reading, your expression is suspicious and uncertain. This thoughtful and rewarding feeling is the feeling of philosophical thinking.

At this point, I have a lot to write to you after summing up. I wish you a good life. When you grow up, let your mother eat less snacks. Thank you very much.

This paper is based on senior Teng Teng.