What did the father do when he found out that his third daughter was in love with him?

A father recently became popular on the Internet.

When he learned of his daughter's puppy love, he skillfully led her to the right path, which was really admirable!

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When my daughter was in the third year of high school, what I was most worried about happened-my daughter secretly fell in love with the monitor of her class, a handsome and passionate schoolmaster.

According to my experience, such a boy should be not only the "god" of his daughter, but also the "god" in the hearts of many girls. I inquired about the profile in the class group, and sure enough, many girls adored him, but my daughter paid a heavier price for this secret love, and her monthly exam results were terrible.

I was in Shanghai on business the day I learned my grades. I got a call from my wife and came back overnight. Along the way, I was anxious to know why.

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My daughter has been psychologically trained by me since she was a child. Ordinary setbacks can't shake her at all, and her weakness that worries me most is attaching importance to feelings. TV series, movies, or touching details in books can make her cry. Isn't it puppy love?

In a coffee shop next to my daughter's school, I asked her out and treated her to coffee like a friend. After she was completely alert, I asked bluntly, "Come on, who is the person who fascinated you and fell from the heavy line to the specialist line?"

My daughter was stunned at first. In my burning eyes, she lowered her head in frustration and said with distress, "It's our monitor, but dad, he doesn't like me at all." My heart jumped when my daughter said this. My first reaction was, what's the difference between my daughter and him?

After I took a closer look at my daughter, I understood. I said, "Do you want your father to analyze why your monitor looks down on you from a man's point of view?" My daughter's eyes lit up and she nodded shyly in anticipation.

To tell the truth, at such an urgent time, I still waste my energy to analyze her emotional problems here, and my heart is really as uncomfortable as a cat scratching, but I know that a little reprimand and accusation at this time may affect my daughter's future. I can't risk it. No matter how anxious I am, I will peel the cocoon bit by bit.

I told my daughter that from a man's point of view, you are by no means the object that most men can fall in love with at first sight. Especially your monitor has eyes on his head. He can't like a tall and fat girl like you, so you should change your appearance first.

You see, after you entered high school, you overeated and loved cola so much that you drank 130 kg. Although your height is 1.68 meters, this weight is only a member of the chubby world, but it is an indisputable fact that most men like innocent girls. Therefore, from now on, if you want to catch up with the monitor, you have to get up every morning for morning running, exercise, lose weight, and cultivate one's morality.

The daughter looked down at her figure and nodded silently.

Seeing that my daughter didn't refute, I then put the second trick: "If a girl wants to attract the attention of boys, besides appearance, the most important thing is her inner temperament. You don't lack this. I trained you to read classical poetry, taught you to play guzheng and learn to draw. In recent years, you have basically lost for the exam. Now, you can pick it up. Isn't there one last performance in your school? Go up and show them your little hands. Your Mountain Flowing Water can definitely be a blockbuster.

My daughter blushed with excitement when I said this.

After reading it, I used my killer: "You have to remember that men are a complex of contradictions. They may only look at looks when they fall in love, but they are realistic in their choice of marriage partners. One depends on your family background and the other on your ability. Don't believe any man who says he will support your story. The only person who can truly support you without regrets is your own father. Therefore, if you want a man to fall in love with you, you must have outstanding ability and let him admire you first. A woman who loves herself will have a chance to be loved. Look at you now, your grades are so far behind that of your monitor, not to mention love, even friendship is extravagant.

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After some training, my daughter finally figured it out: "Dad, I want to change my face. Can you help me? " I patted my chest: At this time, who will help you if I don't help you? Dad can also assure you that this is a secret between you and me, and I won't even let your mother know.

My daughter paused and rushed over to give me a big hug. I burst into tears in an instant. After my daughter went to junior high school, she has never been so intimate with me again. I have mixed feelings when I see that I am taller than my daughter.

I persuaded my wife to rent a house next to my daughter's school on the grounds that my daughter was going to take the college entrance examination soon, and changed her daughter from living on campus to day school. Then my wife and I divide the work. She is in charge of her daughter's diet and I am in charge of her health. Every morning, I accompany my daughter to get up early and jog. In fact, I will observe her thoughts and have a heart-to-heart talk with her, because she will tell me her sweetness and troubles during this short 30-minute run: "Today, I asked the monitor a question and he told me for a long time."

I know that for girls in unrequited love, every word and every action of the other party may unconsciously make them feel bigger than the sky. So I pretended to be happy and congratulated her: "Come on, you are not ugly. When you are as thin as lightning, your monitor may not just tell you a question. " My daughter squinted at my words.

Soon, I moved my daughter's guzheng out of the house. If you are tired of studying, let her play. Now girls know less about this thing. My daughter has been studying guzheng for 7 years. Although she hasn't moved for a long time, she can still bluff when playing. My wife thinks it is a waste of time for my daughter to play with this thing. I said, what do you know? This thing is now an artifact to kill all kinds of eyeballs on campus.

At the end of the presentation performance that year, my daughter took the stage to perform the episode of the TV series A Dream of Red Mansions, which shocked the audience. When I got home, she hugged me excitedly and shouted "Long live Dad!" It turned out that my daughter not only won the first prize in the class, but also was named "classical goddess" by all the boys in the school.

I looked at my daughter with a smile. In only half a year, she insisted on running and quit non-nutritious foods such as cola and KFC. Coupled with his wife's daily diet adjustment, she really lost 30 pounds. In addition, the daughter is white and gentle, and really has the taste of classical beauty.

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After New Year's Day, my daughter said to me, "Dad, some boys in our class wrote me love letters. What should I do? " I said, "This is a good thing. My fair lady, my fair lady, is normal. You see, you used to be so fat that your studies declined. Which boy will like you? It's different now. You have many choices, but now we are not in a hurry. Let's set the goal of the university first. "

The daughter nodded obediently. Recently, her self-confidence has been fully mobilized, and she seldom mentions the monitor in front of me. On the contrary, I always use this monitor to stimulate her: "He is a real' male god', and Tsinghua's little seed has face. I can't catch up if I want to. If you have the ability, you should turn to the customer and let him catch up with you. "

Soon, the monitor really walked into Tsinghua. On the day when the news came down, the monitor specially bought a nice commemorative book, and the whole class passed on the news. When the album reached my daughter, she called me quietly: "Dad, I feel a little sick." I know that for more than half a year, the monitor has always been the goal pursued by my daughter. Now that this goal has come to his end, his daughter is still hanging, not to mention that she still has an unfinished dream in her heart.

I thought about it and said to her, "Just write him three words:' See you in Beijing'. First, you can tell him implicitly: your destination is also Beijing, and there will be opportunities to meet in the future; Secondly, it can also be used as an incentive for yourself. " The daughter did so. That day, she came back and told me that after writing these three words, she saw an expectation and approval in the eyes of the monitor.

The rest of the time, is the sprint. My daughter's learning foundation is not bad, but she fell down because of unrequited love. After I adjusted my daughter's mentality, I invited famous teachers from various schools to give her one-on-one counseling. My slogan to my daughter is: "Victory is waving to you, and the monitor is in front." My daughter smiled and in turn commented that I was the most immoral father in history.

In this way, I, the most unprincipled father, dragged my daughter on the road to the college entrance examination. 20 16 at the beginning of June, when I sent my daughter to the college entrance examination battlefield, I said to her, "Don't think about anything now, remember, answer every question calmly and you will win." The daughter nodded, walked to the classroom, and ran back halfway. She leaned over my ear and said, "Dad, no matter what the result is, I thank you." I quickly turned around, afraid to let her see my tears.

At the end of June, my daughter scored 639 points, far exceeding my evaluation of her. I smiled and said to her, "Let's sign up for a school near Tsinghua." She looked at me with a wry smile and smiled shyly.

Now, my daughter is a sophomore in China Communication University. When I came back this summer vacation, I asked her about her personal feelings. She boasted that her suitor was outside the Fifth Ring Road. I laughed loudly and didn't ask if there was a monitor here.

For a father, it is enough for his daughter to learn to choose when she grows up, keep the bottom line and turn passivity into initiative.

My daughter's high school is the best school in Wuhan, and her class is the envy of many parents. When my daughter was admitted to this school, she won many envious eyes.

At the beginning of school, my daughter and I had a little argument about whether to live on campus or not. I offered to rent a house with her mother, but my daughter strongly objected: "I'm not a prisoner, so I don't need your watch." Finally, I compromised, and my daughter has strong self-control. I have great confidence in this. I don't care much about her junior high school study. Everything is in her charge.

After my daughter lived in school, her grades have been 65,438+000 before grade. There is basically no problem in repeating this grade. I am more open-minded in this respect. I have never forced her to take the Tsinghua Peking University exam, as long as she takes the major she likes in her favorite city.

But I didn't expect my daughter's stable grades to fall directly to the point where even the last name was wobbly!

I envy having such a father! I've always wanted to tell all parents that puppy love is not terrible, but the way you handle it.