What is the standard of bride price money everywhere?

Because of the different customs and economic development in different regions, the standards for bride price are different. friend

First, the bride price in our hometown is generally around 6.5438+10,000 yuan.

Let's talk about the bride price in our hometown first, because our hometown is in a small city with no internet access, so the bride price is also very low. In our country, if the relationship between men and women has been established, you need to get engaged first. When they are engaged, the man needs to bring gifts, food, wine and savings to the woman's house. The general deposit will be between 20,000 yuan and 30,000 yuan. The most I have seen is 26,666 yuan or 28,888 yuan, which is a good sign. Then, on the eve of the wedding, I will go to the woman's house again to send the bride price money, but the bride price money also includes the money previously set, so the sum of the two money is about 65,438+10,000 yuan.

Second, the bride price in Jiangxi is very high.

In fact, I think the bride price in our region is still very low. In our marriage, men generally have little pressure, but if you are a cousin in Jiangxi, then getting married is a headache. Jiangxi's bride price money ranks very high in the country. I have a friend who is from Jiangxi. When he got married, he only gave his girlfriend a bride price of 280 thousand. Then I had to buy a car and a house. At that time, the woman's request was still to donate money, which was not enough to pay the down payment. Getting married is really like peeling a layer of skin.

Third, there is no need to entangle the bride price too much.

In fact, I don't think both boys and girls and parents need to be too entangled in bride price. Some boys think that you shouldn't give a bride price when you get married, which is different from selling your daughter, but I think this idea is also wrong, because your wife is raised by others. Do you know how much it costs to raise a child? Moreover, bride price money is an old custom for many years and cannot be changed casually! Then the woman should not ask the man to give too many colorful gifts. They are all young people. Where there is so much money, can the amount of bride price money represent how much they love you? Secondly, both parents, when giving the bride price money, the man's parents must understand the righteousness, don't dig their brains to find it, and the woman's parents should not ask too much and don't put too much pressure on the man.