How to comfort people who love but can't?

It is quite tragic that I have no friends to comfort me when I am lovelorn. The other party cheated, and I'm a girl.

If the other party has been careless with me and suddenly cheated on me, I may not be too sad.

But he really likes me and I can feel it myself.

Why do you say that? Because I like him because he is kind to me, he cares about me and likes me. I like being cared about. When we are together, trusting this person wholeheartedly can be equated with faith.

So I will be even sadder, because not only did I meet a love rat, but my faith collapsed and everything that supported me was broken. At that time, I almost collapsed, and I just couldn't get rid of the whole person jumping from the dormitory.

How did I get better later? Because many people in this world are gentle.

1. At that time, I was so sad that I had no place to vent, so I played the king and kept playing. After opening a game, I shouted: I am lovelorn, I am very sad, and I must win this game. No matter whether others treat me like a fool or not, in short, I shout at every game, hoping that the whole world will know.

Once, before I started shouting, my old enemy Li Yuanfang suddenly said that she was lovelorn, and Xiao Luban won.

That's right, I'm bad Luban, platinum man. In the last game, I saw Fiona Fang's ID card and recognized him as my teammate.

So in this game, Fiona Fang has been playing with me. She really hit me, but I always killed her.

Later, our team broke the enemy crystal under the vigorous development of vegetable chicken Xiao Luban.

After retiring, I went to look up Li Yuanfang's information. He is a king-level boy.

At that time, I couldn't help it for a moment, and I was in tears. Because I held it for so long, someone finally comforted me and found an outlet to vent.

My ex and I are in a long-distance relationship. When we parted, I didn't know where he was, except that he was in Suzhou.

Not reconciled after breaking up, I found his position for a month. So I searched his space for visitors and friends who like this space, tried to add friends, and then asked him where he was. I asked him face to face before, and that was the last time I saw him.

But I am also afraid of disturbing his friends like this, so I only ask two questions. Who are you? A friend of yours? Do you know where he is in Suzhou now? I am in a hurry to find him.

Because of this, I accidentally added a boy who is five years younger than me, a high school student. He doesn't know my predecessor, but he is very concerned about my affairs. He kept asking me what was wrong and how I felt, comforting me and chatting with me all night. Finally, qq called and simply said two words:

Hello, sister. Don't think too much.

Then when I reply to him, let me hang up and have a good sleep.

In fact, the more naive people are, the more kind and gentle they are.

What comforted me most was that I only asked him those two questions at first, but later I was able to talk for so long because he took the initiative to care about me.

Treating a stranger with such kindness and care, and I am so lucky to meet such a person, I think there is no reason to be sad anymore.

Later, I met more and more such people, and I came out of my lovelorn heart bit by bit.

If I want to answer how to comfort a person, I think I should try my best to keep her warm.