College students came out of the mountains and swore confidently: "I was born a mountain, not a stream."

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I was born a mountain, not a stream. I want to look down at the mediocre canyon on the summit ... A group of ordinary high school students read the oath, which is overwhelming and red-eyed. Do you know that?/You know what? Do you know that?/You know what? Everyone in this world needs self-encouragement very much. Self-encouragement can not only bring hope and strength, but also be extremely powerful. As long as it is allowed to take root and sprout, it will surely bloom gorgeous flowers.

This oath comes from Yunnan Huaping Girls' High School, a school whose principal was awarded the title of "Model of the Times" by the Propaganda Department of the CPC, and a free special school.

Zhang Guimei is a teacher in a mountainous area. Over the years, she has witnessed the tragedy that girls here can't go to school because of poverty, so they have to get married and have children early, and then continue to suffer. In particular, there is a girl of 13 years old, who was married with a bride price of 30 thousand at home. Zhang Guimei worked for a long time, but still failed to change the girl's parents' mind. It hit her hard and she felt guilty.

She can't change her parents' minds, because poverty has solidified their thinking; She is powerless to change the girl's plight, because there are too many people in need of help, and human resources sometimes dry up. Run a free school so that everyone can come to school and change their destiny through school. After doing what she said, Zhang Guimei ran around to raise money, and finally established the first free high school for women.

However, when she invited students to study, many families disagreed. They don't know what reading can do, and they don't believe that children can read famous books in such a poor area. If others look down on you and you look down on yourself, then your life is really over. She doesn't want to see the tragedy repeat itself.

The students entered the school gate with self-doubt. Zhang Guimei eats and lives with them every day. In addition to imparting knowledge, she also thought of Fang Er's encouragement to arouse their confidence and courage as much as possible. With Zhang Guimei's encouragement, many girls walked out of the mountains. They have become policemen, doctors and teachers ... and become role models and benchmarks for giving back to their hometown after self-reliance!

Because Zhang Guimei has repeatedly encouraged female students to stand on their own feet, helped them build up their self-confidence and convinced them that they have the ability to walk out of the mountains, this group of people forgotten by the modern world burst into great strength, and they all changed their situation by their own efforts. This shows the power of encouragement.

Even if no one has studied the theory of relativity, it does not prevent Einstein from becoming a world-famous physicist. Few people surpass his achievements in physics. But you should know that this famous master of physics was just a silly child when he was a child.

Einstein, who is about three years old, can't talk. At the age of nine, Einstein could not speak fluently, and everyone laughed at him as the silent John. The teacher asked everyone to make handmade works, and Einstein handed in a chair that was falling apart. It was rough and ugly. His grades in all courses were average, and the Greek teacher publicly cursed him for not growing up. ...

When everyone thinks that Einstein's life is like this, his mother has been patiently encouraging him and silently supporting him to do what he likes. She never said anything negative to him. On the contrary, she has been encouraging and praising him. Later, Einstein showed interest in mathematics, and his family gave him enough support to concentrate on his research.

Why do children need encouragement? Probably just give him a hand when he is confused and let him know that his future is still saved; Probably just give him a boost when he is frustrated and let him continue to stick to it; Or give him enough self-confidence to make him succeed through this self-confidence.

Encouragement is powerful, but it is not easy to use it well. If the direction is wrong, all efforts will be in vain, which will not only fail to achieve the expected results, but will also be counterproductive. As parents, how should we encourage our children effectively?

1. Expand the pattern of children and you can see the farther and higher direction.

Frogs sit at the bottom of the well, drinking nectar and enjoying the palm-sized sky above their heads. He thought it was the whole world. When the bird told the frog that he was thirsty after flying more than a hundred miles, the frog thought the bird was bragging. When it jumped out of the wellhead, it was discovered that the sky outside was so vast and grand.

When parents encourage their children, they should focus on expanding their children's pattern. Parents should rely on their own knowledge and experience to encourage their children to see higher and farther places, broaden their horizons and improve their height, rather than just seeing the square inch in front of them.

2. Think and get the middle, one must do it.

Every parent wants his child to be born in phoenix and get a hundred points in the exam. However, when you ask her if she has helped her children with their homework seriously and if she knows what shortcomings her children have, she feels that she has no energy to do these things.

She wants her children to have good popularity and strong social skills, and it is best to respond with one voice, but every time someone invites them to go out to play, she refuses, saying that people have brought her children bad;

She wants her children to be versatile, good at singing and dancing, and it is best to surprise the audience. But as soon as the child learns this, she says that the child does nothing and can't grasp the center of gravity. ...

Is it possible to gain without hard work? No way!

Parents should know that there is always a gap between what they want and what they get. What kind of purpose do you want to achieve? It's no use just thinking, but you must do it. It's no use just encouraging people to say it, but to prove it with actions.

3. Continue to encourage children to have uniform standards and not treat the same thing with double standards.

Mom playing mobile phone is a kind of relaxation after work. Can children play mobile phones after learning for a long time? Parents work and study too hard. Wait a minute. Is it a waste of parents' efforts for children not to study? What parents can't violate is that he is an adult, and what children violate is that they don't learn well from childhood?

When the same thing happens to you and your child, parents show two completely different attitudes. What do you think your children will think of what you say? So is encouragement. Parents can use encouragement education for their children, but they must have unified standards and continue to encourage their children. Never treat the same thing with double standards.

In the vast universe, we are all very small, but don't sell yourself short, even tiny gravel can eventually build a magnificent castle. Therefore, children who are still confused must believe in themselves. Anything is possible. Don't give up trying!