What should I pay attention to when dating a girl?

Whether you are in love or dating, it is the happiest thing in life, especially dating a girl you like. If this date is perfect, it can give the girl a very wonderful experience. However, when we enjoy this experience, you must have made some very low-level mistakes, some of which are harmless, but some of them are really unforgivable. Maybe even because you said something wrong or did something wrong, girls will stay away from you. Today, I will tell you about these mistakes.

? I don't know if you have ever had such an experience, that is, you finally invited a girl you like to have dinner, drink coffee, watch movies together, and so on. After a routine, you think the whole process is not bad, but the girl turned away before it was finished. Maybe another boy caught up with the girl without doing anything. If you don't know where you are wrong and don't reflect, then no matter how many times you have dated, you will always end in failure. A female friend of mine told me that many boys think from their own point of view and don't consider girls at all. They feel good about themselves, but they don't know that girls have begun to hate them. Therefore, boys should analyze and consider in many aspects, so as to show your uniqueness in dating.

Don't talk about topics that are not of interest:? How can girls be happy when they talk about topics that they are not interested in during dating? In the initial stage of chatting, try to be a very interesting boy and try to be a special person in the eyes of girls. If you often talk about these boring topics, then the girl will definitely think you are too boring, and you will not be the one who can have a further relationship with her. Therefore, we must prepare more questions at ordinary times, don't fight unprepared, do it often and be fully prepared. There will always be interesting topics when you chat with girls in the future, and she will definitely like chatting with you.

Don't show off: you are capable and rich. These girls like you, but from the side, you are different from her. Simply put, if you tell girls directly through your external image that you are rich, that you have studied in school and that you are capable, then girls will only think that you are hiding your self-distrust, so you want to seek women's approval by external things. You are a big shot. You can't show off your good grades to your parents like a child. I hope your parents praise you. Maybe girls will praise you at that time, but they may not want to date you again afterwards. This kind of personal value should be discovered and felt by women themselves, which is meaningful.

Don't try to please: many boys think that you can get girls' favor by praising them more, but this is wishful thinking. Many people around a woman say that she is beautiful and please her. Why does she like you? Besides, she knows more about herself than you know about her. She knows how she is doing, but she is obviously not doing well. You also said that she had a good life, and she would think that you were hypocritical and that women were great. She wants others to praise her, but she doesn't want others to lie to her.

Don't just talk about yourself: many boys don't know much about girls when they are dating, so they start telling their own stories. From elementary school to high school, girls may be interested at first, but if you go on nagging, people will get bored. It's good to have a glib tongue, but dating is not stand-up comedy, it's to let two people get to know each other. You should give girls a chance to express themselves. If all you say is you, then the other person may think that you are a very expressive and narcissistic person, or.

Don't be indecisive: some men always ask the girl's permission in everything, while some boys always think it is a sign of respecting the girl. However, some things are not like this, such as dating places. If you ask a girl out, you should decide where you want to date, instead of leaving the question to the woman. Girls need guidance on many things, instead of asking her politely.

Don't ask her privacy: Dating usually takes place in an elegant and quiet place. Girls don't like asking personal questions all the time. It's ok if it's a shallow chat, but they won't like to talk about some personal things, such as their salary, past love history and so on, which will make others think you are too gossipy. You can discuss your hobbies and leisure activities when dating, but remember not to exchange too deep topics.

Don't rush to determine the relationship:? Sometimes, you may feel very good about each other, but maybe because you don't have enough contact, the other person feels that he doesn't know you yet, but you are eager to determine a certain relationship, which will put a lot of pressure on girls and keep them away from you. So, don't put too much pressure on each other when dating. Women, like boys, have a desire to conquer. They will give you all kinds of hints. If you can't resist the temptation and propose a definite relationship, they will think that you are too easy to succeed and have no interest in challenges.

When dating a girl, you must have a relaxed and free mind. Don't care about some superficial things. A beautiful woman does not lack people who praise her beauty, nor does she lack your food. You should be a person who can attract girls, unlike others. The majority of male compatriots should pay attention to these problems.