What if I hate my husband more and more?

I wrote in my heart that this is the state I am in now. I hate my husband very much in life, for example, 1. He doesn't eat any greasy food. To pick out a little, I can only buy lean meat to make braised pork. 2, I always like to eat leftovers. 3, I blow my hair five or six times a day, saying that I don't like my hair lying on my scalp. 4. Dislike your eyebrows, and thrush them every day. I don't eat breakfast, so I have to go out to buy it. 6, heavy taste, eating vegetables with heavy oil and salt, leading to bad breath. 7. A jar of goat milk powder 500 yuan for regulating the stomach. He can drink it for half a year by opening a can. Why do you want me to make something to regulate the spleen and stomach? 8. He didn't take a nap after work at noon and watched a movie with his mobile phone. He used to work as a computer, and his eyes never rested all day. 9, go to bed at night 12. 10, children play with him and he always stares at his mobile phone to watch movies. Too much talk. It may sound trivial to everyone, but every day I face such people, I become more and more disgusting and irritable. So when I saw him like that, I played with him. I don't know if it's my problem or his. I hate my present life.

I also hate my husband's disgust. I married him, and there is no reason to live. Not long after giving birth, I opened my own stall with my children. I'm not afraid of work. I'm not afraid of being tired. I'm afraid he will start to feel unhappy as soon as he comes back, that's all. Later, I found out that he often does this. I dare not say anything. The worst thing is that he scolds me there every time he gets drunk. I scolded him, too. Then he beat me up. I'm starting to feel terrible. Slowly, after a long time, getting drunk, swearing, and hitting people have become commonplace. I won't go home as long as he drinks now. I'm afraid to tell my family. I'm going to finish the road I chose on my knees, and I didn't want to be green at that time. But now, as long as he scolds me, I don't want to talk. Because my heart is so cold that it doesn't matter

Women hate their husbands for the following reasons:

First, women are scum, who love the new and hate the old. At least they were having an affair.

Women regret marrying anyone! For this kind of woman, I can only wish her happiness forever!

Another situation is the problem of men. Men eat, drink, go whoring, gamble and steal, and they all have five poisons. It is also a woman's misfortune to meet such a man. The sooner they leave, the better!

There is another reason: it may be that women's expectations of men are too high, and they like to compare with others, which leads to a psychological gap. However, the more they look at their men, the less pleasing they are. Men are actually working hard, but due to subjective and objective reasons, they will never reach the height they want!

In this case, I still hope that women will think twice before acting: if you are not disgusted, but try to help your man and let his man realize the value of life, you will definitely not be disgusted!

For example, now that business is getting worse, you may not make money or even lose money. At this time, more understanding and less disgust. Men are really not easy sometimes!

I'm looking for, and I'm doing, discovering the great love in the world and looking for the most beautiful feelings! If you think I don't hate it, you pay attention to me and make the society full of positive energy!

Women hate their husbands for several reasons:

First, the man is full of five poisons and falls lazily. Women hate iron not to produce steel, and their hearts are strong and their lives are not strong. This is an unsatisfied woman who pursues happiness!

Second, life is rich and small, and women are bored to enter the social circle and pursue a life of both material and spiritual harvest. This is an artificial woman!

Third, the man's career is frustrated, his family is unstable, his life is not improving, his mentality is unstable, he goes against the times, and his husband and wife are troubled. This is a fickle woman!

Fourth, both husband and wife are very strong and have different ideas. strange bedfellows only cares about internal friction. This is a stupid woman!

Fourth, men are too honest to cheat, let alone fool people, and their IQ and EQ are different. This is a woman who is not satisfied with the pursuit of interests!

Fifth, men are congenitally deficient, and their sexual life cannot satisfy women, especially middle-aged people. This is a woman who pursues desire!

The above five situations, communication, care and understanding, are all very important.

When you meet a lazy person, you need to be guided, increase his sense of responsibility, change a good environment and promote his transformation with love. Otherwise, you can only divorce!

If you meet a pretentious woman, leave her. You asked for it. There is no regret medicine in the world. Women don't have to expect it!

When men's career setbacks affect family harmony, women take the initiative to care, not to stimulate and blame, * * * has difficulties, * * * marriage!

Meet couples with strong emotional intelligence, see what other women do, and take a step back!

When you meet a man who is too honest, you should see his preciousness and see that once you get it, you will please a woman's terrible face!

When you meet a man with congenital deficiency, try to treat him and encourage self-confidence. Even if you divorce, you have to pay. There is no free lunch in this world!

If you are ruthless and have a low IQ, but you think you are smart, you are narcissistic, but your heart is not strong and you are unhappy all day. If you cheat, it will hurt your husband, your children and your family. Water under the bridge, pull back from the cliff, get lost, it's too late!

Finally, send a few words of encouragement:

Man's greatest enemy is himself! Endless desire is a sharp knife! No one is perfect, jade is flawed! Absolute ideals never exist, but others don't say it!

What if I hate my husband more and more?

One person can be appreciated by another, including personality, appearance, talent and ability. ......

However, the "disgust" and "love" between husband and wife are sometimes unreasonable.

You don't like a person, he can't even breathe.

Like a person, he doesn't even fart with style.

When watching "Wife's Romantic Travel", Bao Wenjing said to Bao Beier with a happy face: "I think you are very handsome, really handsome."

Bao Beier is not a handsome guy in traditional aesthetics. He has few hairs.

Loving someone may really have nothing to do with his face value. It doesn't matter what he looks like in others' eyes, but he is a shining man in others' eyes, whether he is bald, fat or ugly.

If you hate your husband more and more, it may not be because he is getting worse, but because you don't love him more and more.

"If life is just like the first time," the man in front of you was originally chosen by himself, and the person who will be born together in the future must have something that attracts you. Look at his merits.

After a long time, there is no freshness. What is left in love is habit. After getting along for a long time, you will find more and more shortcomings of the other party, so you will become more and more annoying. If you want to change, you must constantly add some emotional appeal and ritual to love.

Valentine's day, birthday, etc. every year. You should prepare gifts or surprises for each other and make the holiday a romantic memory of love. In the long run, you will always look forward to each other, so that you will not always stare at his shortcomings and make your relationship more harmonious.

You hate him because you think he is not the perfect image in your mind, so you hate him more and more. You expect him to get rid of his bad habits and make progress every day. Two people will work together. Whoever falls behind has to keep up with the rhythm. Two people must keep abreast of each other in order for love to last.

As the saying goes, the more boring we are together every day, the easier it is to be bored in the long run, and the feelings will lack flavor. Everything is in each other's eyes. Two people don't have their own lives, and looking at each other will be boring. It is better to find your own hobbies, do your own thing, and don't take each other as the whole of life.

From the perspective of marriage, to a great extent, you are dissatisfied with his work and life, including your attitude, which leads to your disgust.

Since ancient times, marriage has always been a science. If you face a husband you hate for a long time, there will inevitably be some bad results. If it can be saved now, I hope you can talk it over, and don't let this love end quietly like this. If you still can't face his disgusting face, it's better to get together and have a walk, because it's really not worth a lifetime. Entering the palace of marriage is not about superficial life, but more about whether you can get each other's understanding, respect, tolerance and appreciation. Many divorced people are not because of money, but more because of their hearts.

Whether I am right or not, I hope you respect your marriage and don't be hasty. After all, marriage brings you happiness!

Such questions are often difficult to answer.

Because affirmative answers may be beneficial to participants, but for most viewers or readers, they will feel that such answers are transmitting negative energy.

In fact, this is all caused by China's feudal concept of marriage.

We might as well answer another topic first:

The vast sea of people, so many men and women, can you be happy just by pinching a pair together?

The answer is no, because the modern society is different from the past. Men and women are refreshed when they leave home and enter the society, and the requirements and conditions for choosing a spouse are different. It is not that their requirements and conditions are high and materialistic, but that they will respect their own hearts and pursue their own happiness, so they are not so casual.

Since there is this choice, it shows that not every man is happy with any woman. or vice versa, Dallas to the auditorium

Because, if you want a man and a woman to be together for life and be happy forever, the basic conditions are congenial personality and harmonious temper. Only by doing this can we tolerate each other. With this basic condition, let's talk about other occupations, economy, three views, children's education and so on. Otherwise, it will form the form of "one mountain and two tigers". What will the couple do except quarrel every day because of their different ideas?

Then, why do many people not find each other's shortcomings before marriage, but regret it after marriage? That's because love before marriage often has a certain distance from the reality after marriage. Only after marriage will everyone's hidden shortcomings be constantly exposed. If your personalities are compatible, your shortcomings will be accepted by each other. So that couples can naturally fall in love with each other. However, if one party's shortcomings are exactly what the other party can't tolerate, then conflicts will often break out between husband and wife.

Having said that, let's go back to the subject's question: what if I hate my husband more and more?

First of all, you should learn to be tolerant. Because everyone has shortcomings, so does he. There are no perfect people in this world. Unless you don't get married all your life, there must be shortcomings in finding a man. Only by tolerating him can we not hate him.

Secondly, look at each other's advantages. Just as everyone has shortcomings, everyone has advantages. When you see his many advantages, you will ignore his shortcomings.

Third, can you tolerate his shortcomings? If you can't do the above two points, it depends on your tolerance for his shortcomings. If you can't solve it yourself, and his shortcomings will cause great mental harm to you, then you can only stop here.

Finally, can he tolerate your shortcomings? Before doing the above "once again", you should look at yourself first to see if there are any similar shortcomings hurting him. If so, you should also reflect on yourself. If not, then make a decision.

As for the subject, my understanding is that married couples are like two people climbing stairs together.

At first, everyone started climbing from the first floor, but the speed was different. You climbed to the seventh floor, and your husband climbed to the third floor, even standing still in the 1 building.

At this time, if you look down, at least you can see him. But if you climb to the 20th floor, and he still stands still, and you can't see him anymore, then you meet another person on the 20th floor, and you may climb up with this person.

But there is one exception, that is, you love your husband very much, and your disgust is only temporary. You are willing to pull him up or retreat to his floor.

So, what is your choice? Get used to him now and go back to his floor? Do you expect him to turn himself into what you like? Or leave?

In short, you must think clearly about what you want and whether you can bear the worst result before making a decision.

A woman's greatest revenge on a man is to make him green. ...

If you hate your husband more and more, don't turn him green.

The best way is to have a big fight, vent it, let him know all your emotions, and let him know what kind of state you are.

Most of the time, men and women find the problem after quarreling, and then they know it. ...

So don't blindly tolerate and yield, which will only make your bad emotions accumulate infinitely and will break out one day.

Many times quarreling is also a very effective communication skill.

But if the gentleman says no, you must ensure that neither side will fight, especially your husband, who was born a woman. If you can resist not doing it, don't do it. Even if you do, you should stay at home without outsiders present. After all, any man loves face. ...

Finally, no matter what, don't be impulsive, Green Husband. ...