His ex-wife still calls my mother-in-law mom. How to solve this problem?

This kind of thing, we should find out what the ex-wife and mother-in-law think. In most cases, if the ex-wife still calls her ex-mother-in-law after divorce, then their relationship is still good. If the mother-in-law still refuses this title, it shows that he still has some feelings for this former daughter-in-law. As for others' acquiescence, this relationship has nothing to do with himself or his current mother-in-law. After all, his son divorced his ex-wife. As long as his mother-in-law's son disowns him as his ex-wife, it doesn't matter if his ex-wife and mother-in-law have a good relationship, and their feelings will not be affected.

Furthermore, it depends on the husband's attitude towards his ex-wife, and we should also know the reasons for the divorce between the current husband and his ex-wife, whether there is still affection between them and whether there is too much contact between them. These are all issues that need attention. If the husband still loses contact with his ex-wife, it's really time to sit down and talk it over.

If you have a good relationship with your mother-in-law, you can ask her what she thought of her ex-wife before her husband, and how she thought of the problem that her ex-wife has not changed her address. Tell her that it will also hurt her to some extent, so it is difficult to tell how many daughters-in-law she has. This kind of words must not be directly and clearly told to the mother-in-law, but must be understood indirectly in order to better understand the relationship between the mother-in-law and his ex-wife.

When you get along with your husband, you can ask him what he thinks of his ex-wife or tell her mother-in-law, which hurts her very much. After all, the son and his mother said that their mother-in-law would not have too many ideas, and there would be no bad blood between them. In a family, the way to get along is very important, so we must choose a safe way to deal with things.