33-year-old leftover woman blind date: ask the man to buy a house in full with 600 thousand bride price. what do you think?

I saw a female netizen say: actually, my marriage requirements are not high. As long as the other party buys a house in full and gives a bride price of 600 thousand, I am willing to marry!

She also gave herself reasons, if it is a loan to buy a house, the quality of life after marriage will definitely decrease!

Later, some netizens calculated an account:

Buying a house in full, even in third-and fourth-tier cities, will cost at least 600,000 yuan, not including decoration and furniture. If you add 600 thousand bride price, it is conservatively estimated that it will cost at least 654.38+0.5 million to marry this woman!

Some netizens also said:

Want the man to buy a house in full, with a bride price of 600 thousand? This is destined to be a dream, and waking up may be the next life!

When you have more contact with those leftover women, you will gradually find that they have a characteristic: they regard themselves as "princesses" and expect to live in their own "daydreams" all their lives.

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At home, your parents can treat you as a princess, but out of society, almost no one will treat you as a "princess"!

I estimate that many leftover women are "leftover women fighters" who have been blind date n times. Rejecting other people's demands before was nothing more than a "poor man" who didn't meet my marriage conditions. That is to say, if a man can't buy a house in full and the bride price is not enough for 600,000, I will definitely not marry!

Women in China have a problem, that is, before marriage, in terms of buying a house and bride price, even if the man is beyond his power, the woman will not reach out to help him.

Instead, you have to put on a bad face: you can't even afford a 600,000 bride price. Do you think I'm not worth the money? You don't even have the value of buying a house Do you want me to live in a rental house after marriage?

When they question men, they often don't put down their posture and consider a question: the person I am embarrassed about now is my husband. Do I have to embarrass a man who loves me?

Only love in this world can't be measured by money. If a woman insists on forcing you to spend money to prove that you love her, it means that this woman doesn't understand love at all!

Love means hand in hand whether you are poor or rich! This is what the bride and groom should swear when they get married!

These women, however, challenged the bottom line again and again before getting married, making it difficult for a man who loves himself!

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As a leftover woman, especially a leftover woman for more than 30 years, you should understand one thing: instead of forcing a man to lend you money as a bride price, it is better to find a way to get the other person through this difficulty!

If the bride price of 200,000 yuan is paid by her family and the man can't afford it, then we can't discuss with her family to reduce the bride price, or give part first and then give part after marriage?

If you offer to buy a house, if the man really can't afford it, have you ever thought about the two families making a half down payment? Instead of her family ignoring everything and forcing the man to buy a house, she won't get married!

Excuse me, in this marriage, as the hostess, what responsibility have you undertaken?

Didn't we agree on equality between men and women? Didn't we agree to run this family well? Why do waitresses automatically hide when it comes to donating money?

Therefore, those so-called "golden leftover women" all have a "selfish" mentality. No wonder some netizens said: I'd rather marry a woman with a second marriage than a "golden leftover woman" in her thirties!