What words do you use to comfort yourself in the most difficult time?

No one's life will be smooth sailing, just like the sea, sometimes stormy, sometimes calm, like a good boy; Cheer up, calm as a mirror, melancholy and lovely; When you turn your face, you are like a wounded lion, cruel, fierce and heartless. None of us has the ability to guarantee a safe life, and there are no ups and downs. But we can control our emotions and have a good attitude, which is enough to deal with anything unpredictable and should not happen. When we feel that life is hard, how should we comfort ourselves? My personal real experience is shared with you.

1. The difficulties of life can be divided into several aspects. Let's talk about the most common difficulty in making money! I am an ordinary enterprise employee with low salary, but God is hungry! 15 years, I got bilateral femoral head necrosis, which made my poor family worse! Plus a second child. As a result, the quality of life has declined in all aspects. Every time my girl says, Dad, my mobile phone is broken and I need to change it. Dad, what should our school hand in? Dad, our classmates are going to have a birthday! There will be a party. Can you give me some money? Dad, I want to travel this holiday, okay? After hearing this, my heart will be broken, and I thought, isn't that girl my father doesn't want to give you money? But dad really has no money! Dad loves you more than anyone else in the world! As a man's inner pain! Really outsiders can't understand! I don't want to live long, I can't get through this! Middle-aged men can't live without money! Every time I go to the mall, my son sees beautiful toys, and I can see my son's eyes shining with golden light and running over. Holding my arm feels like there are 654.38+00000 steel needles stuck in my heart! It's killing me Every holiday. It is also the saddest time for me that my son is crying and shouting to go to the playground. I think I owe my daughter and son a lot, but I really have no choice! I have no ability to make more money! I can't even deliver delivery or take-out outside. Damn legs, damn me, a miserable middle-aged man! Some people like holidays very much, but I, on the contrary, hate holidays very much! When I heard my mother chanting: the daughter of Lao Chen, a family member, bought this for her mother? Where did you buy it? The son of Lao Zhangtou, a family member, took his father to Sanya, Hainan for the New Year! And I only have alas! A deep sigh. Dad, it's not that I don't want to honor you, but that my son really has no money. When your life. How to comfort yourself when encountering these problems? I will bear it silently and make no noise. I will silently tell myself that it is useless to complain and hate myself! Since you have no direct way to solve this problem, you must choose to endure, endure! Use time to dilute the harm caused by these problems, and you must have a strong heart to comfort yourself. Because you can't fall down at this time, if you fall down, this family will be even more difficult. And these problems are all on you, and you need a place to vent. I choose not to be idle! Do what you can, do what you are interested in, and distract yourself. Mentally, I choose to write out my thoughts and feelings, which will greatly alleviate my pain. For example, some time ago, I chose the headline travel creator. It's not that easy to be a headline writer. You must pass a level on the left and a level on the right! This undoubtedly aroused my passionate feelings of getting back on my feet. When I passed the efforts of 12 days and passed the creator of the headline author's interest field, my self-confidence and hope for the future were greatly improved. From that day on, my heart was full, because I felt that I was doing something interesting and useful. I feel that the headlines have brought me a second hope in life! As long as I work hard and produce excellent works, I will be recognized by the headlines. There will also be economic returns after the harvest. This is my way to divert my attention and comfort myself.

2. Physical difficulties. I am a strong person in all aspects, and I am confident. I don't think I'm inferior to others. However, due to the disease of femoral head necrosis, it is commonly known as "immortal cancer" in the medical field. You can imagine how cruel this disease is! A good man suddenly became disabled. I think many people can't bear this psychological gap! How many people can bear this blow? There is no way! That's the truth, whether you can carry it or not, you must carry it! You are the pillar of the family! What should the family of five do if they fall down? So I have reached the point where it is difficult to ride a tiger. Riding a tiger is difficult, and I feel particularly scared! Then jump down, it will be the tiger's dinner. What should you do at this time? How to comfort yourself? I first adjust my life orientation. I am not a normal person, but a disabled person with a certificate. Don't pay attention to the surprised eyes of others. You live for yourself, for your family and for the people you support! So it's better to feel great than to feel inferior. Hehe, it's a bit like Lao Wang selling melons to brag! Then it will be inconvenient for me to move, but can't it be solved? Although, I don't have the money for femoral head replacement at present. But travel still needs to be solved. I bought a fully enclosed electric tricycle, which solved my travel problem. No matter winter or summer, I have no worries! Are you home? I have a sliding computer chair at home, which solves the problem of inconvenient movement at home. The problem of action has been solved, the mentality has been adjusted, and there is a spiritual sustenance for writing. So my life is very difficult, and unconsciously, because the problem has been solved. Do I still need it to comfort myself?

So let me sum up, when you encounter difficulties in life, how should you comfort yourself? Don't do useless thoughts every day! Do what you can realistically! Have a serious and practical attitude! Find something that interests you and stick to it.