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How have you been recently? Have you read the last article? Do you feel anything? Without delay, let's get into today's topic: in case you mess with a woman, you have six ways to save her. I will talk about it in detail below. Remember to look at it all, not only these six methods, but also you need to know how to use it under what circumstances. First Brother: Hello! I'm thinking about your core course. It's just that I'm not sure your core courses can help people like me. So I want to ask you a question before buying. I met her online, and we had a good chat. Later, for a while, we started to communicate with each other, and she often called me. Recently, she agreed to ask me out. The first time I saw LXY, I thought she was my type! I didn't think too much at first, such as trying to chat with her. I didn't do these things, just nodded politely when we met! I keep this good feeling in my heart! Later we talked a lot about family, work, old school, and so on. I think we started talking, and then I had an impulse. So I pretended to hesitate and said, "I have a bad feeling, but I don't know how to say it ... I'll tell you later when I think about it" (actually, I wanted to give her a psychological preparation first, so that I wouldn't be too sudden when I said that sentence! I didn't hesitate when I was in the car. I looked her in the eye and said, "I'm afraid I'll like you!" " "She just smiled stupidly with her head down and didn't speak! When I said this, there was no physical contact or anything. At that time, I didn't know Brother Yi Feng, hehe) In this way, we ended our first date which I thought was not perfect! After this imperfect date, after a while, I strengthened my mind and told her, "I like you, be my girlfriend." She replied: "I have a boyfriend, let's be friends!" " "Seeing her attitude, I haven't looked for her for a long time, and neither have I.. Because I am a person with strong self-esteem, at the same time, I spent more than 1 month in suffering. In the future, she won't take the initiative to find me, find me! It's just that I care about her occasionally ... ask her out to dinner or something ... so it's been consuming ... so far ... I've never been in love before, but I have an indescribable affection for her. I think I have put her in my heart, but I don't understand her thoughts, because I have no love experience, so I feel very rigid. I don't know what I can do to make us sweeter as lovers. What should I do? Do you think I can be saved? I will give anything as long as she wants. Really! Brother billion, if this matter can be saved, you are my great benefactor! ! ! Thanks in advance, man. Poor people are rich and poor. Jxh = = = = = = = = = = My answer = = = = = = = = = = = = = = = = = = = Hello! Poor jxh is young and rich. I think this girl must be very special to you. In fact, most men have exactly the same feeling as you, when you secretly love a girl for the first time. There will be an indescribable intimacy. I had it, too. Unfortunately, however, most men's "first time" ended in failure. Because they haven't figured out what attraction is all about! ! ! So they all did the same thing, they pursued women and confessed to them. Always tell a woman how she feels about her. Then they were rejected by women ... and then they stopped texting. Send something. Please eat. Go downstairs and wait for her. Suddenly appeared in front of her and wanted to surprise her. Insist on caring for her every day … and then be rejected by women … have you ever asked the women around you what kind of men they like? If you have ever asked or heard women talk about the men they like, they are similar to "confident, opinionated, manly men …" or even "men with feelings". And what I said above has nothing to do with what women really want. It's a pity that most men don't have such consciousness all their lives, so they stumble over the same stone again and again. If you want to completely change this problem, you should immediately start studying female psychology and how to attract people. Otherwise, you will experience this kind of pain again and again for the rest of your life (of course, if you enjoy it, I have nothing to say. ) attraction is an emotion. As I always say, it is the same as happiness, sadness and sadness. Once you learn how to arouse this emotion, it is as simple as angering your father. And in the past 10 years, I have sorted out a set of the most effective methods to arouse women's interest and build attraction. I think this is the only shortcut that you can achieve the fastest effect so far. So, if you find the answer to the question and are willing to make efforts to change yourself, then before reading, click the following link to download my IP tutorial: OK, let's continue. I don't miss you, but I have to say that your situation is already very bad. I think you should have realized that if you don't change your method, the result will be worse. So if you still want to turn Gan Kun around, then these things I give you below are your last "life-saving straw". 1, don't always take the initiative to find her, if you have been calling her recently. Don't stick to her all the time. Now try to keep your distance from her, or even give her a cold shoulder for a while. Stop any of your initiatives! 2. Get to know other women at once, or if you already have some playmates to develop, get close to them at once. Now! Right now! Especially for women you don't "love" so much, women who are usually not nervous immediately start dating. The most important thing here is that you must let the woman you "fall in love with" know this and let her know that you have an "ambiguous" relationship with these women. The best and best result is that you never took the initiative during the time when you snubbed her. Then, she came to you through other channels, or heard about it, or saw photos of you having fun with other women on your space or Kaixin.com ... At that time, it will be a turning point in your relationship! Yes, you can see that when I say "let her know" here, I don't mean that you tell her directly, but through indirect channels. For example, Kaixin.com, Renren.com, or photos of you playing with other women, or just a simple sentence or two. For example, if she happens to see you with another woman, you must look very happy. Even if she refuses, you are still happy. You must not be discovered by her that you are depressed all day because of losing her love, and you must not be known by her that you miss her all day. Once she knows and finds out, there is basically no possibility for you and her to recover. The real world is different from what you see in romantic dramas! 3, but when she really comes to you, if she asks who those women are. Then, at this time, you will face a major test. If you can pass this test, you will have the hope of redemption with her. But if you fail her test, she will leave you and you will lose her. There is basically no possibility of recovery. Then what should you answer her? The person who makes a mistake first will lose her answer: "You must forgive me. I am single-minded to you ... "Say so, you are finished! This is to please a woman and seek her approval. Then she will say to you, "We are not on the same side. Let's be friends. " Apologize and ask for forgiveness. This answer is always wrong in the stage of pursuing a woman! It will only prevent women from being attracted to you forever. Your correct answer: "You are so cute when you are jealous. I like it! " Do you feel the feeling and inner strength of this sentence? 4, put it to death and be born later. Yes! You have to accept that if you and she can only be ordinary friends forever, you have to accept this fact in order to reverse it. Yes, the facts can be reversed. _ If you accept it, you may be reborn; If you don't accept it, you can only cry alone in the face of cruel and irreparable reality. Don't tell a woman how much you love and care about her. Don't pour out your feelings for her. At least, don't talk until you have sex in bed. (Don't talk immediately even after the physical/physical relationship, it will only flow slowly) 6. Now, don't try to make any confession, or hold hands and kiss. Finally, I reiterate that the facts have told you that what you are doing now and what you have done to her before are invalid. If you don't change your ways, you will give up her and lose her from now on. And if you do as I said above, your chances of saving her will increase by at least 10 times. Then, what you need to do next is to learn a series of methods and skills I taught you in the IP tutorial, how to arouse a woman's interest in you, establish attraction with her, make her like you, and then how to consolidate the attraction, and then you can start over with her. Brother, in fact, what worries me most about you is that you are stubborn, and you keep talking to her and trying to please her. If you stick to your wrong path and keep going, then picking his fairy won't save you. So, to answer your last question: Yes, you can still be saved. However, the only person who can save you is yourself. Only you are determined to understand what women think now. Understand how the "attraction" of women to men is established. And how to learn how to make women like themselves and how to make women feel heartache for you? Only when you have the courage to find and correct the mistakes you are making (mistakes that most men often make) can you completely solve your problems. So, say after me in your heart: I have made up my mind to change myself! I have made up my mind to face my present problem bravely! Never give up! Thank you very much for reading your previous email, and you have made great progress! Now I am very distressed. I fell in love with a girl who has a boyfriend. We used to be in the same place. I succeeded in attracting her, but now I have left my previous job and gone to a far-away city. Before I left, she and I had reached the stage of kissing, and she wanted to be with me. But when I left, I tried to take her away without success. The reason is that I can't find a reason to break up with my current boyfriend too suddenly and too hastily, and asked me to give her some time. At that time, there was nothing I could do. I finally signed a letter of commitment with her and agreed to give her two months to break up with her boyfriend and come with me. The contents of the undertaking include that I will give her all my property within two years and so on. Then I went to my present city, far away from her. I went to see her twice during this period, and the relationship between men and women was very successful. But now it's very close to our appointed day. I asked him if he had any plans to break up with her boyfriend now. She kept saying that time was too short and she was hot-headed, so she agreed in such a short time. I am very upset now. Also, it has been agreed in the commitment letter that if she can't do it within two months, I will use my method to force them to break up. I told her that I had a handwritten commitment letter and records, and I would take them all out. But now she keeps saying that I won't be so cruel, and if I do, she won't want either. But the problem is that the commitment letter has agreed that I can do this, and she won't blame me. I understand that women are very emotional. I urged her from time to time, and told her today that I had her boyfriend's code. Actually, I don't want to do it either I just want them to break up peacefully. Brother Yi, I successfully found true love with your core course, and I really don't want to let go. But now I don't know what to do, please help me! Thank you very much Andy = = = = = = = = = My answer = = = = = = = = = Hello! Andy, first of all, I want to say that most of the things you have done before are very good. You may have a problem, but you are already with her. According to the whole attraction process, you have reached the last step, which is when a woman has a boyfriend. And obviously, this woman has been deeply attracted by you! But why do I still say "most things are done well"? Instead of just saying you did a good job? Maybe it's really because my requirements are higher. It can be seen from some details in your letter that you haven't fully understood what attracting women is. To be honest, it makes me a little angry: 1, you made an agreement with a woman, or promised, "I managed to sign a letter of commitment with her and give her two months to let her and her boyfriend come with me." You tried to force them to break up in your way. Think about why there is a promise. You promised her again and again, let her promise you again and again, and let her write a letter of commitment. Because of fear of losing, because of insecurity, because of insurance, because I feel that there is no way to keep a woman around forever without commitment. You are trying to bind a woman with a promise, instead of thinking about how to keep attractive to her. Didn't she and her boyfriend make a promise? Yes! There must be. We men all like this. So should she make a promise with you or her boyfriend? Didn't this push her into a contradictory dilemma? What do you want her to choose? So you have to "force" her in your way. How will women feel if you really do this? She will think: 1, you don't understand her difficulties at all. You don't love her, or you won't get her into trouble. You lack self-confidence, so you always "threaten" her by promises, agreements and coercion. You are no longer the person who can bring her happiness in her imagination, because you always try to make her uncomfortable. And all you have to do is: 1, be tolerant and continue to attract her. Imagine if you have two women. One stares at you every day and tells you to break up with the other every day. The other doesn't care about anything except being happy with you every day. Which one do you choose? Don't be the man who stares at her every day. If you want to destroy each other, you must be more attractive than each other. Charm includes tolerance, openness and indifference. You can continue to date other women, which is not contradictory. But when you are with her, you don't say a word about her boyfriend, as if this person doesn't exist. She will naturally make a choice, and if you do, her choice will naturally be you. 2. Forget your so-called promise or agreement, completely forget it. If you still want to be with her and don't plan to change your goal recently, please use the method I told you in the IP tutorial. These methods can teach you how to attract her, how to keep attractive to her, and how to make her miss you even when she is with her boyfriend, thus completely "destroying" her boyfriend. If you haven't seen my IP tutorial, please go to our: (the entrance is in the popular space), which details how to have my IP tutorial. Your buddy's popularity = = = = = = = = = = = Case 2 = = = = = = = = = = = = = = = = = = = = = = = = = = = = = = = = = = = = = = = = = = = = Billionaire: Hello! First of all, I want to thank you. I used the method written in your IP tutorial to make me ambiguous with a woman I like because of chatting up. I remember I met him in the street 1 1.02. We are colleagues, so we took her to the station. On the way, I knew that we were just chatting online on the last day of 2008, but yesterday she told me that she was going to meet someone at the airport. I forgot to mention that I work at the airport. She used to be a stewardess. ) So I was asked to stay with her. I thought she picked up her friend and left. Who knew that she 1 arrived at the airport and said that her friend would arrive at night 19. I didn't know until I heard it that she really came to play with me. I made her happy by half. We did a lot of things that only children can do, and there was a lot of physical contact in the middle, but she just wouldn't let me kiss her mouth. I tried to kiss her on the mouth five times, but it didn't work. Now let's talk about the problem: I know she came to me the day before because she was depressed, because she signed it and wrote "I want to die" I think she came to me yesterday because she just fell in love and was very unhappy. So she came to me yesterday purely to accommodate, not from the heart, at least not from the original intention. Thirty = = = = = = = = = = = = My answer = = = = = = = = = = = = = = = = = = = = = = = = Hello! Thirty. I don't know how you do it, but obviously you are good at hitting on women. She came to see you specially and stayed with you for more than six hours. Next time you have the opportunity, you can share the experience of hitting on people. Okay, let's get down to business. In fact, your problem is whether you know much about how to upgrade your limbs. Obviously, this girl likes you, she comes to see you, and she lets you touch it (listening to her nonsense that she wants to indulge and is in a bad mood). What you have to believe is that she is standing with you now. She came here six hours early, hoping to be happy with you. So your physical contact, kissing and kissing are all too common. Skipping the steps will cause women's disgust. Physical intimacy like this needs to be upgraded step by step according to certain steps. As long as you follow such established steps step by step, there will be no problem. I have specific "kissing" skills in the core courses. Now you can go back to my core course and review it right away. Here, I emphasize again that this is not a novel, but a reference book similar to a dictionary. So unless you are familiar with the methods and skills and have a good grasp of how to use them, you can completely give it up. Otherwise, every time I encounter a problem, I should return to my core tutorial as soon as possible and review the chapters that encounter specific problems. Your buddy's popularity = = = = = = = = = = = Case 3 = = = = = = = = = = = = = = = = = = = = = = = = = = = = = = = = = = = = = = Big Brother: Hello! I am a reader of your book. Your book is a timely rain! It's really timely, because I'm chasing a classmate these days. (I am a college student, grade three) Although it was timely rain, I was just wet. I know your hard work has not been digested and absorbed. So my brother wrote to you specially, hoping you could help me. So, the thing is, eight people went to sing K last night, and when I paid the bill, it was slower than her. And the situation at that time was difficult to grasp, and it was aa system. I thought someone had to take the lead, so it was slow. Today, however, she said that I let her down. I didn't act like a boy because I didn't pay in advance! She also said that she attached great importance to etiquette. WBF = = = = = = = = = = = answer = = = = = = = = = = = Hello! Wbf. That woman is testing you. But then again, since it's a test, it means she's still interested in you. If she doesn't consider you, she won't even test you, or even say "disappointed again" to you later. However, you must not fall into her frame. Her frame is that she is picking on you. So, there she is, judging you and finding fault with you. You should turn this frame around in subtle communication, let her pursue you, and you are choosing her. For example, she sent: "You are rude and let me down again!" "You use the deliberate misinterpretation taught in the tutorial to answer," Yes, I don't understand. What makes you so fascinated by this ungrateful man? "Do you understand? I don't understand. Let's go back to my core course "deliberately misinterpreting women" and look at this framework. Keep asking me questions. Your buddy Billionaire = = = = = = = = = = Situation 4 = = = = = = = = = = = = = = = = = = = = = = = = = = = = = = = = = = = = = = Billionaire Brother: Hello! Read a lot of your articles. I met a very distressing thing recently. I hope you can help me. She and I were introduced by friends. We talked a lot after meeting, but a few days later she told me that she had a boyfriend, a college student, and talked for four years. The blind date the other day was because I had a long fight with my boyfriend. Moreover, her boyfriend is studying in other places, far away from her, has not graduated, and the conditions at home are not good. Her family is very opposed to their association. She met me in a daze. She works in the city next door where I met by car for 40 minutes. She said that she felt very happy with me, just like with her brother. We could talk more, but she didn't look like a boyfriend to me. She visited me many times in two months. On several occasions, people who live here were dressed when they just went to sleep and were not allowed to go near them. It got better after several times, but because I wanted to talk to her, I didn't have the heart to TD (push her down). When she is with me, she often calls her boyfriend and tells me not to make any noise. After spending some time with her, that day she said that she had found that she liked me. She said that she had an impulse to live with me, and said that we should not do this again (when she lived with me, I was very kind to her, took care of her in every possible way, and of course I often beat her and joked with her). What she means is: I'm better-looking than her boyfriend, my family conditions are good, and I care about her. If she had chosen from the beginning, she would have chosen me. But she has a boyfriend, and she can't bear it, because they talked for four years. If her boyfriend loses her, he has nothing. A few days ago, when she went back, she sent a message saying that she had fallen in love with me. She can't do this. She stopped before things got bad, and then she deleted me. We don't have it these days. I called her that day and answered, just like a friend. She is going to break up with her boyfriend. On the one hand, she is reluctant to part with it. After all, after four years of talking, my boyfriend can't live without her. On the other hand, she doesn't want to break up with her boyfriend because she is in love with me. She doesn't think this is what a good girl should do. I really like her and I don't know what to do now. I hope you can give me some advice. Thank you and look forward to your advice! Forever = = = = = = = = = = = My answer = = = = = = = = = = = = Hello! Forever. I guess, you might think, if she doesn't have a boyfriend now, then you may have become boyfriends now. You might think that her fucking man stopped you from getting her. You may be thinking, it would be great if there is any way to make her boyfriend resign and disappear. You may be thinking, if only I could persuade a girl to give up her man. ..... I understand what you think. In fact, it may be hard for you to believe now, but it's true. I've been in a situation very similar to yours, and more than once. So, I understand what you might do now: 1, trying to persuade her to give up her boyfriend and stay with you. 2. Mentioned her boyfriend intentionally or unintentionally, and even spoke ill of her boyfriend by innuendo. It is best for her to pay more attention to her and even please her. If you want her to give up on you completely and go back to her boyfriend, then you should follow the above three rules one by one. If you still want her to be deeply attracted to you, then forget the above and do it according to the method I gave you. What I'm going to tell you may surprise you, so you should be prepared to accept what I say. Let's take three deep breaths together. I'm not kidding. Let's do it together ... inhale, exhale, inhale, exhale, exhale ... OK, ready, have you ever thought that her boyfriend is actually helping you attract her? It's incredible, but it's true. I think to some extent, in fact, you already know that you have aroused girls' emotions, which we call "attraction". Then let's start from the beginning. Why did she come to see you (you were introduced by a friend)? Why did she promise your friend to come to see you? Bored? No, she's disappointed in her boyfriend ... her boyfriend is not so attractive to her, and she needs to find another man who can attract her to fill her emotional deficiency. So, you have a chance to meet, and you have a chance to attract her. And she sends you a message telling you that she has fallen in love with you. You know, it is very unacceptable for a woman to do such a thing, and it is also very unacceptable for a woman to "confess" to you. I repeat, it's difficult. Of course, maybe you used some of the attraction techniques I mentioned. But in this result, there is another hero, and that is her boyfriend. If he didn't do something, of course we don't know what it was. Anyway, those stupid behaviors made this woman jealous and longed for a man more attractive than him, and you just had the chance to meet you. You are doing very well. So, what should you do now? If you follow the above three aspects that we refuse, the attraction you have established for women will soon disappear. Women will start to think that you are annoying and that you are not the man she imagined to attract her. In the end, a woman will give up on you and go back to the "stupid" man who has been with her for four years ... because this is a misunderstanding that many of our buddies will encounter. I estimate that the man she talked about for four years could make her feel attracted at first, but then she didn't pay attention to it and found you without establishing a solid attraction with her. But if you start treating her like her boyfriend of four years, the attraction between you and her will disappear. At this time, in her eyes, she will continue to choose her boyfriend for four years. Because you are just like him, but he has more memories, feelings and running-in than you for four years, so even if a woman says how much she loves you, if her behavior still leaves you, this is a problem that you should think deeply. Because I have to admit, when she tells you this, it's hard for you to persist with her, because your persistence will become unreasonable, which is a better way to say goodbye from a woman's point of view. I suggest you try this, which is very good for you to improve your attractiveness, deepen your impression and let you know what behaviors can attract women and what behaviors can be destroyed. However, if you take her seriously, don't try. What you need to do now is very simple: 1. Don't mention her boyfriend at first. Completely ignore him. If she mentions that man, you can say frankly, "It seems that he is very kind to you and you are very happy." Then immediately change the subject and say something interesting to change her mood. For example, you can say, "You know, I met a very interesting person today. His name is Mao Rongrong (homophonic "Mao Mao"). When she says "I like you very much, but I feel guilty about him every time I am with you", you should say "I know" calmly at this time. Then look at her and say, "You are a good girl." Because a woman's social thinking will tell her that her behavior is not a "good girl's behavior", you should tell her in particular that you think she is a good girl. ) Pay attention to your eyes, and then continue to say, "Being with you makes me very happy …" Ok, stop and pause for a few seconds. Then change the subject. At this time, women can't control their attraction to you. More importantly, when she comes back to her boyfriend (if her boyfriend knows you exist, he will make trouble, but it doesn't matter if he doesn't know), what she will do, and she will miss you more, because she knows that you are the man she wants. So, so she will gradually cool a man, then leave him and come to you step by step. See my vip tutorial for more solutions. Of course, there is also a shortcut, that is, you can take our online courses and implement online communication guidance. In the process of your study, I can guide you in real time how to do every step and how to implement it in place. Let's solve this problem together.