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Understanding is mutual. Only by understanding others first can you be understood by others.

First, being good at listening is very important for understanding others. In communication, listening to the other person's conversation and showing interest in his topic, content, speech posture, expression and tone are basic manners and the basis for correctly perceiving the other person. According to everyone's own situation, it can be roughly divided into an open self and a secret self.

Second, empathy. Putting yourself in others' shoes means thinking what others think, and understanding is the supreme way of thinking in dealing with interpersonal relationships. People should understand and trust each other, and learn to put themselves in others' shoes, which is the basis of interpersonal communication: mutual tolerance and understanding, and thinking from others' perspective.