What psychology is it to be a spare tire?

Personally, I think the spare tire is still quite good. I can attack and retreat, and the initiative is entirely in my own hands. Even if I don't want to do it, I will leave without any responsibility. Although there are many friends of the same sex and the opposite sex, I never think who is who's spare tire. Because if I like someone, I will confess directly, or I will die if I don't succeed. Thinking about the setting of the spare tire is still very emotional. So what is the psychology of being a spare tire?

First, enjoy the feeling of being with the person you love.

If you can't be with your lover as a lover, it's good to stand together as a spare tire or a friend. I can spend a very happy time with each other, but because I have not established a definite relationship, I am playing ambiguous, and sometimes I feel more. As the saying goes, wives are not as good as concubines, concubines are not as good as prostitutes, prostitutes are not as good as thieves, and thieves are not as good as thieves. What you can't get is always the best. Although you can't spare a tire, you can stay with your beloved in another way, and it is easier to gain the trust of your beloved from a certain angle.

Second, there is little hope of turning positive.

Because it is a spare tire, once it breaks down, we have to use it. For example, quarreling with your boyfriend, or breaking up with your boyfriend, is the best time for a spare tire. You can try the spare tire first. If you think I am suitable, you can continue to use me. If you think I'm not suitable, you can take me off and put me in the trunk.

A spare tire that doesn't want to turn positive is not a good spare tire. Being a calculated or ambitious spare tire, once you have the opportunity to use it, it will definitely make the other person comfortable and will not be willing to change it again.

Third, habit becomes nature.

Many spare tires don't perform well when they are used, or they want to perform well, but they are unable to do so, or they are worried about wear and tear, or they are not used to running long distances, so car owners are always used to being replaced when they meet better tires. When replacing for the first time, the owner may be in a good mood. Check the degree of wear. If the frequency of use is high, the feeling of the spare tire will be ignored, and he will get used to this neglect. He has subconsciously believed that it will always be replaced. The difference is only in the morning and evening. People with this mentality can't win the hearts of others and have no confidence in themselves. How do they win the love of others? Therefore, half of the tragedy of the spare tire is self-caused.

If I am a spare tire, I must be disposable goods. Once used, it cannot be used again unless it is recycled.

In fact, there is a person in this world who has been loving you at all costs. Is there any reason not to cherish it? I believe many people regard others as a spare tire. It is precisely because they are not confident in themselves. It is better to be a long-term partner because of love and hate than to be a lover's emotional entanglement.