What is the mentality of a woman who never takes the initiative but never refuses you?

Falling in love is a very special thing. Many women are self-taught and proficient in the training and development procedures for men and women.

Generally speaking, in the face of romance, women will appear a little reserved and arrogant at first, and give the rights they seek to men. This will increase their value and preciousness, and also satisfy men's desire to conquer, which is beneficial to both sides and to the development of a reliable and long-term relationship.

However, some women's attitudes towards men's pursuit are not very common. If you meet such a woman, men have to find out each other's purpose before deciding whether to persist or give up, otherwise they may be used.

Those women who never refuse you, but never take the initiative, cannot escape the following two kinds of psychology, male friends, I don't know!

Think of you as a spare tire

Sun Yiqian has liked a girl for almost two years. He never tries to hide the meaning of his thoughts. He showed a high-profile strong affection for each other, and he made it clear that he would pursue each other.

This girl is also very interesting. In fact, she already understood each other's ideas, but for such a long time, she neither refused nor took the initiative.

If Sun Yiqian comes to see her, invite her to dinner, watch a concert, give her a gift, and go to the aquarium and Disney together, she will also be happy to go.

But beyond that, there is no emotional interaction with him, and she doesn't allow Sun Yiqian to declare that she is his girlfriend, just saying that she will seriously consider it.

After considering it for two years, there is no result. Sun Yiqian couldn't get in, but he didn't want to retreat. After all, he also made a lot of efforts. He doesn't understand what the girl thinks.

In fact, it is obvious that the other party is using him as a spare tire.

Generally speaking, there is a limit to girls' reserve. They won't say that studying a boy for two years can't determine whether he is suitable to be his boyfriend.

In fact, this long time? Hesitation? That's a rejection in itself, but she's superficial? Do not refuse? On the contrary, it is intriguing.

This usually means that although you are not her type, you are OK in other aspects. Keeping you around can get her company and benefits, and it's quite appropriate to be a spare tire, that's all.

I have an idea about you, but I won't take the initiative.

Jiang Zhongqi recently took a fancy to a girl and pursued her for about two months.

He is still quite direct and obvious, but what is the attitude of the other party? Even when he went to see her, she would promise to go out with him for dating, shopping, eating and so on, but she never took the initiative to ask him out.

In this regard, he is a little uneasy and has no bottom, and he doesn't know what the other party thinks.

He said that when he came out to play with him, the other party was also very shy and happy. In a word, there is an indescribable brilliance on his face.

Intuitively, he said, he still thought that the other party did not reject contact and communication with him, and even showed a little joy from time to time.

Although she sometimes seems reserved, if he says something funny, she will laugh and look at his eyes full of praise and appreciation.

In fact, after listening to his narrative, everyone will find that this girl may still have a good impression on this man.

If I'm not mistaken, because after all, the two people haven't been together for a long time. Although she has ideas about this man, she still doesn't want to show her reserve and figure too actively, and wants to enjoy each other's pursuit for a longer time, so as to strive to stay in the wind after this relationship is open and normalized. This is too passive.

Conclusion:

Love or not, in fact, can not deceive people. In the process of communication between men and women, we can see each other's eyes, each other's demeanor, each other's tone, each other's reaction, each other's practices and so on.

Generally speaking, women who only passively accept men's pursuits and gifts, never give back, and do not show their attitude, will not show the slightest love in their eyes and last for a long time, and 100% regard each other as a spare tire.

It is suggested that men should not be suckers, but should appropriately alienate each other and stay with each other. I'm afraid they can only be her playmates when she is bored, help when she needs it, substitutes for emotional emptiness, and regular channels for money to be easily obtained materially.

As for those women who haven't known each other for a long time, are very excited about your invitation, are radiant in the process of getting along, have a cheerful personality and are a little shy from time to time. They will send you small gifts from time to time to thank you for your hospitality, but they will not take the initiative to invite you on a date. It is more likely that they have a good impression on you, but they haven't finally made up their mind whether to formally associate with you.