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A fake single mother is a family phenomenon in which a spouse exists, but her husband is away from home for a long time, or there is a great lack of communication with her family, which leads to the mother and children living alone and estranged from her husband.

In today's society, it is a common phenomenon that more and more mothers are at the forefront of the family. The father does not abandon, but makes his wife "widowed" or abandoned, but makes his children "stay behind".

Let's not talk about the state of our fathers left in reflection for the time being, but we have to trace back to the source. What does it feel like to support a mother? What does the formation of their present situation mean to a family?

State 1: Dad is not at home and has gone to work.

This situation generally exists in the southwest of China. People often go out to work in Guangzhou, Shenzhen and other places, often accompanied by women. This has created many famous "left-behind villages", left-behind children. Of course, among the people who take care of children, women are the majority.

Mothers must support their husbands to go out to work without regrets to make a living, even if they are tired. Such a father is respectable, and so is the mother.

State 2: Dad is not at home and has nothing to do.

There are many heartless people in today's society. They abandon their families and businesses, gamble or go whoring, or go crazy or have epilepsy. They play the fool and live a carefree life, completely ignoring their wives who work alone at home and shifting the responsibility of taking care of the children to their wives.

Such a person is shameful. Originally, the premise of family harmony must be shared by two people, not only to fulfill the responsibility of raising, but also to appreciate each other.

State 3: Dad is not at home, doing business.

Entrepreneurship is the trend of today's society. Most promising young people want to fight hard in their own lush years. There is a phenomenon that some entrepreneurs have children, but later their careers are so prosperous that they regret having children so early.

So, what to do, sacrifice your wife, let her be a housewife, take care of the children at home, and be busy with your career outside every day.

This is reasonable from a man's point of view, but don't forget that it is unfair to sacrifice your other half's right to pursue a career.

How to solve this situation and let the husband be reflective is a very serious problem facing today's society.

First of all, building a harmonious family relationship depends not on compromise, but on tolerance. Don't let one party compromise every time there is disagreement, which is not good for the family and children, nor can it solve the fundamental problem.

When two people live together, it is very important to tolerate each other, no matter the advantages or disadvantages.

Secondly, the improvement of women's status depends on their own efforts. In fact, you are great, but for the sake of your family, you seem weak and deceptive. So, it's not just your family, marriage and even happiness that leave. Try to be active in the main position of the family stage, be a good wife and help her husband's heart.

The most important thing is to think of two people rowing in the bow, because they will not be too tired to see the scenery, and the child's sight is very comprehensive and he is very happy. To do this, you need a little wisdom and a little effort.