What psychology is it to hate others to learn from themselves?

It can be preliminarily considered that it is caused by a strong sense of self-centeredness, which is mainly because your growth experience has made you feel strongly self-centeredness.

When you get along with the people around you, it is easy to have a strong sense of superiority in your heart, so that you feel that others are always learning from yourself, which leads to narcissism, which also makes you easy to become narrow-minded and anxious when things happen in your heart.

First, alienation and resistance

In life, we all have the idea that in the face of people we hate but have to meet, we usually show a kind of inner alienation.

For example, those classmates and colleagues we hate, if we can't completely disconnect from them, we can only stay distant and try to avoid any form of communication.

Second, don't care about your feelings.

Under normal circumstances, in the communication and interaction between people, we will put ourselves in the other's shoes and care about each other's feelings.

Only in the face of those people we don't care about at all, or even hate very much, will we do what we think unscrupulously, and even deliberately do behaviors that make you hate.

Third, everything should be on your opposite side.

Have you ever encountered this situation in your life or work? For a certain behavior of you, or when you express your opinion on something, someone immediately jumps out to stand on your opposite side and opposes you.

Fourth, the way of speaking is strange.

The communication between people is gentle and sincere, but if a person starts to hate you, his speaking style will become strange. You gave an opinion, and he agreed with it several times without smiling. Anyway, no matter what you do or say, you can't feel any truth and sincerity from his words.