When bringing food: "Sons, daddy is back!" What is the difference in friendship between boys?

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Some people say that the most important things in a person's life are good health, surviving parents, a happy family, good friends, and a healthy life.

This should be the state that many people long for.

Today, I want to talk about the topic of friends, because I just heard a good friend tell the story of her father and her best friend. After listening to it, I felt a lot of emotion.

To be honest, I have heard a lot about the "plastic flower" friendship between girls, so when I heard this story, I felt a little incredible.

Her father was a soldier when he was young, and this friend of his was also a comrade in arms at that time. The two of them have always regarded themselves as brothers. Her grandfather gave birth to a son from her father, so she didn't have uncles.

But her father often told her that Uncle Ming was her biological uncle. Uncle Ming was her father's good friend. Because his name contained the word "Ming", her father asked her to call him that.

Her family only communicates with Uncle Ming during the New Year and holidays. Because the two places are far apart, they usually only make phone calls. She didn't understand her father and his friendship, so many years ago, when Uncle Ming said he wanted to buy a house, she couldn't understand the fact that her father lent out all the family's savings.

Her father always said that the two had a fateful friendship. "From now on, you are my half-brother!" This is what the two said when they parted. Money is the smallest thing before these things.

But her mother had deep objections to this. The family's conditions were average. After saving for so many years, she finally borrowed a sum of money from others without even writing an IOU. The two even had a divorce because of this.

Her father is a bit stubborn in doing things, especially in this matter, he accepts death and refuses to compromise no matter what. So in the end, it was her mother who compromised first and let him borrow the money. Of course, the money will be repaid in three years.

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Until last year, many things happened to her family one after another. In her words, the family was particularly unlucky that year. Many people got sick. Her father had a car accident and lost a lot of money. The family was almost bankrupt.

In desperation, her father called Uncle Ming. After explaining the situation, Uncle Ming rushed over immediately and helped her with the work for several months, even taking care of her in the hospital. She talked about the sick old man at home, her grandmother.

Uncle Ming contributed both his own efforts and money, and lent all the money to her family. All the savings he had made over the years were withdrawn without a penny left. Her father expressed his gratitude, but Uncle Ming just said lightly: "We have been brothers for so many years, it is too foreign to say this."

Only then did she understand what her father meant by brothers? She said that she was not a person who believed in friendship in the past, because her friends who played well with her were always far away from each other in the end. She said that she suddenly felt envious of the friendship between her father and Uncle Ming.

In the end, she attributed this to the difference in friendship between boys and girls. I don’t know if that’s the case, but as a girl, I also want to know, what’s the difference between friendships between boys?

So, I interviewed four boys like this and wanted to know what they think of brothers?

A Liang: When bringing food, I always shout "Sons, daddy is back!"

I have graduated many years ago, and I still miss my "sons" very much. , I remember when I was in college, I always brought them food. When I went back, I started shouting at the door, "Sons, daddy is back!"

They all shouted the same. Only at this time did everyone Will silently acknowledge that person's "dad" status.

Now we usually have very little contact with each other, but when I need to see them for something, everyone is still there.

One of the blessings in life is probably having a group of good friends who share the same goals. I am very happy that I am the lucky person. But I won't let them know this, otherwise my status as "father" will be lost.

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Mosquitoes: They came all the way here just to "sleep" with me!

After graduating from college, among a group of good friends, I was the only one who went abroad. When I finally came back, they all took leave and came from all over the country.

Euphemistically called: To "sleep" me! It's just a joke. We often joke like this. Only in front of them do we feel the most relaxed, as if we are back to when we were in school.

Thinking about it, it was really a wonderful time.

Lin Zi: Only they know about all my embarrassing things

They know all my embarrassing things, but it happened a long time ago.

Sometimes they still joke with me about what happened back then, and I don’t mind. Looking at them reminds me of my past self. Those are irreplaceable years.

A Ming: They tried their best to help me when I was in trouble

I am very grateful to them. They are my two best brothers. We have known each other since junior high school. We have known each other for more than ten years now.

When I graduated from college, when I was in trouble, they tried their best to help me. I will remember this in my heart.

Although I never say it, really, these can be remembered for a lifetime, and so are brothers.

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I found a very interesting thing. When talking about interesting things about college, they almost all talked about the same funny topic. The person who brought the food was "Dad." ", and the rest is "son", so convert it.

It sounds fun and incredible. Because in the friendship between girls, such similar jokes will definitely not exist. If such a joke is made, it is likely to bury a conflict.

It seems that there is a big difference in the friendship between boys and girls. One is restrained and the other is more public.

But no matter what, if a person can have a good friend who can last a lifetime, it is a gift from fate and a great blessing.