What kind of men just pretend to like your behavior?

On the first day of work, Feifei was targeted by a boy in the company. Being in a foreign land, Feifei is a stranger in this city, and the boys take the initiative to play the role of tour guides. He helped Feifei get familiar with the company, guided her to work, took her to see new movies and took her to eat special snacks. From work to life, boys are enthusiastic everywhere, which makes Feifei feel warm.

Feifei said on WeChat that he would take me wherever there was delicious food. Whenever there is a blockbuster, he asks me out. Remind me at work which is the boss's minefield and lock the door at night. Do you think this boy is chasing me because he cares so much about me?

I asked him a question. Did he confess?

She said no. Maybe she is shy.

There's nothing to pursue if I don't confess. If I am really shy, it will be a very good thing. I'm afraid what he really thinks is that he can't bear to leave you, but he feels lost after wanting you! So he just thinks like that, and he doesn't intend to chase it at all.

After about a week, Feifei said that he was really just chatting. It turns out that after a period of getting along, Feifei found that this boy and every girl in the company are very good. In the chat with female colleagues, Feifei heard that he is very careful, enthusiastic and considerate to every girl! What makes Feifei angry most is that on all weekends when he is not with himself, this boy must be with other girls, and when Feifei looks back at the chat record, she finds that she is dating other girls, and she sends herself a word or two of concern from time to time, caring about what she is doing and what she ate at noon! Feifei said that it is disgusting to think about it. She began to regret and complain, and even scolded one or two! I interrupted her and said, stop, stop. You have your own problems, because you think he has a good impression on you, and even he pursues you, and then puts on a gesture that you are going to chase me and I am ready. Then he's bored. Who's going to tease you?

After work, you were lying on the sofa in a daze, and it happened that he sent you a word or two of concern. You've been tossing and turning all night It's the weekend, and you are wandering in the street alone. It is a coincidence that you received his invitation. Let's go to the movies together! Let's go to dinner together! I was so excited that I almost hit a telephone pole! Yes, I understand that you are just lonely, so when you see who gives you information, you get excited, just like astronomers receive radio waves from aliens. But I want to remind you that you are flattered, please don't rush to dig out your heart, or calm down and analyze whether the other person is a person or a ghost. Walking in this colorful world, it is inevitable for everyone to encounter rotten peach blossoms. It is nothing more than some specious eyes, some ambiguous hints, and some never give up.

You think he cares about you and cares about you, but in fact you may just be self-righteous! What ordinary love fears most is your infatuation, but he is playing tricks. He just sent a blessing in response, just bored to find someone to kill time, but his boring behavior is enough to make you look forward to it. He just gave you a cheap care and showed you infinite special consideration, but made you feel that she was full of affection for you, and even decided that his affection for you was stronger than gold! It turned out that he was the first sexy, and he was the first to let go. In the end, he had an easy life, but you were stubborn. Don't be silly. His good night was just to shut you up. Believe me, it's much more comfortable to endure loneliness than love rat.

Yongyi is a famous beauty in college. All kinds of parties in the school, big and small, are the best candidates for hosting! When someone praised her as the beauty queen, she smiled and replied thank you. When someone asked her to go to the movies at the weekend and smiled all over her face, he replied fiercely to others. To those who are familiar with Yongyi, she is not only beautiful, but also knowledgeable and considerate, but to those who are not familiar with her, she looks beautiful but a little cold. There are many people chasing Yong Yi, but she hasn't been in love for four years in the whole university, and she hasn't been entangled with anyone. Her best friend said that it is a waste not to fall in love at such a beautiful age. She said with a smile, it's a waste to fall in love with someone who doesn't give her heart at such a beautiful age! When friends get together, it is inevitable to meet some strange boys, but no one can ever get her mobile phone number.

Her friend advised her to try to accept it, the conditions are not bad, and maybe there will be a long-term love. She still shook her head and said that they were just flirting with beautiful girls. What I want is reliable love. There is no common goal, no common goal, why try? I can hear her subtext that I can tell what is true love, what is invitation and what is hypocrisy! So I don't want to attend this masked ball full of routines. Yes, even if you are lonely and cold, you won't get a sincere hug. You might as well endure loneliness like you don't lack love, at least look like a bully! The most shameful thing in this world is that he approaches you with the mask of a peerless man, and then defeats your carefully constructed defense line step by step, eating away at your pretended strength a little, eating away at you like a moth to a fire.

But when you expect him to play romantic stories with you, he doesn't even have the will to treat you sincerely. The end result is often that your heart is empty and cold. He left unscathed. The most pitiful thing in this world is that you are in your heart, but he is playing tricks on the kidney! These routines are nothing more than a test for you after trying to figure you out at the beginning. When you make up your mind to be lonely, fragile and sad, he will become an extra-large warm baby. Either he will tell you affectionately that I am willing to lend you a pair of shoulders, or he will tell you affectionately that I will always be with you. Once your guard is relaxed in this warm current, exposing your deep loneliness and showing a half-hearted attitude, he will take over.

Such a boy is at best a warm man with central air conditioning, and at worst an opportunist who is ruthless and fearless. Their purpose is not to let you fall into loneliness. They are not responsible for your feelings. Their usual method is empty gloves and white wolves! If you succeed, he will suddenly move on and leave you at a loss. If you don't succeed, just pretend to smile awkwardly, and then pass by your world and leave you in the corner. In fact, the more you sharpen your ambiguity, the more afraid he is. But if you can grasp the bottom line of communication and respect yourself, he will look at the situation and shrink back, fearing that you are too naive and encounter unknown feelings. Dive into the water like a seagull, regardless of life and death. A girl asked me why some boys have changed so much that they looked terrible at first, but they gradually became cold when they wanted to go further with him, and even finally proposed to stay with me or be good friends.

I asked her why she must have thought that he liked you at first, and then she didn't. Why not? At first, he just pretended not to hate you so much, but later when he got along, he found that he really couldn't pretend. In fact, some things are not as complicated as you think. He is hot and cold to you, just taking you as a spare tire. She worries you, but she doesn't love you enough. Maybe she, like you, hasn't been in love for a long time, and happened to see you single, so she chatted casually! It may be that he was seriously injured in a relationship, and now he has just returned from injury, and he is afraid to touch his true feelings again, or he may be urged to get married by his family.

And you just happened to appear, you just happened to appear, not made in heaven, not destiny takes a hand. You just feel that you are still a good option after weighing the left and right, but it is not the most advanced, irreplaceable and priority of all his options. So don't be silly, get together and leave, just give you a less embarrassing statement! Still a good friend, but he gave me a less bloody ending, so don't dwell on the reasons. After all, you are looking for people who are indispensable to you, not dispensable people! If you ask me, you are not really sad, because you don't care so much about this person at all, you just can't accept that he suddenly doesn't love you!

If an enthusiastic boy suddenly disappears from your world, please set off a string of firecrackers immediately, because he has at least given a clear attitude, and the most terrible thing is that you think there is still hope! But the truth is, not only does he not love you, but he is too lazy to explain to you why he doesn't love you. Remember not to think that a boy who teases you is the right person when you meet him. There is no one suitable for you in this world, and even if there is, it is definitely not by fooling around! What's more, after you constantly beat the little monster, you earned it with the points you won! More precisely, after you constantly upgrade and optimize, you will meet them, so you will either be silent, step by step or make a clean break. Don't chew out those unreliable things in your mouth!

Old-fashioned, aggrieved women are the most terrible. Only when your own world is rich in products and spiritual food is enough to make you self-sufficient, will you not place so much hope on your fate or fill your hunger with cakes painted by others. Therefore, instead of pestering and chattering, it is better to say goodbye to each other and be happy. From now on, be sweet in mouth and hard in heart, stay and roll! I hope you will understand as soon as possible that the years are long, and no one has to wait except express delivery.