Do girls have to have a job?

I think if girls insist on their own careers, they have a guarantee for their own lives. Without a career, a woman has no foundation for self-reliance. Without financial independence, she cannot have complete personal independence, and she cannot fully safeguard her dignity as a woman. Therefore, while taking care of the family, modern women are integrating into society, finding their own position, working hard on their own careers, dreaming of a double harvest in family and career, and creating the myth of having both their cake and eat it too.

One: Women cannot live without their own careers.

A woman who knows how to run a family is happy, but a woman who has a career is excellent. Women who can buy their own flowers are the most beautiful, because financial independence is the prerequisite for a woman’s freedom of behavior, the basis for a woman to win respect, and the prerequisite for a woman to maximize her own value in addition to being a wife and mother. condition. Therefore, no matter what, women want to have a career of their own to pursue and fight for. In this way, women will not be miserable because their love is far away, be devastated by a man's betrayal, or be abandoned by a man and have nothing. Although sometimes a woman will give up her career for the sake of family, for the man she loves, or for various reasons, and become a happy little woman who devotes herself to raising her husband and children at home, and helping her husband succeed, but apart from happiness, deep down in a woman's heart she will still Always hiding unwillingness, hiding regrets, and hiding the dream of having a career of my own.

Two: Career makes a woman’s life more exciting.

Career gives women a broader space outside the family. In this space, women work hard to realize their ideals, interpret knowledge and wisdom, and bear the pain of failure. , tasting the joy of success, grateful for the help of others, in the constant giving up and constant choices, in the constant wandering and constant moving forward, in the constant losses and constant gains, women become strong and brave , calm and confident, unique and flamboyant, women can do whatever they want, talk as much as they want, sing as they please, dance as they please, drink as much as they want, and get drunk as they please. Women truly become trees alongside men, possessing their own The space has its own world and its own style, rather than the suffocating vines that wrap around men and live by men. In this way, in the unremitting pursuit of career and in competing with men, women's lives become more exciting and richer.

Three: Career makes women know more about love and tolerance.

A woman who travels in the workplace can deeply understand the hardship and pressure of work, the difficulty of success and the helplessness of failure. Therefore, while seeing everything through, she also knows how to understand everything, care for everything, and be tolerant. everything. Women who have experienced ups and downs in their careers know that life is like sailing against the current. If you don't make progress, you will fall back. Only by continuous efforts, continuous efforts, and continuous progress can you gain something; women also know that efforts may not necessarily be rewarded, and the seeds you plant will not always be rewarded. Maybe everything will take root, sprout, blossom, and bear fruit. Therefore, women in career have developed the calmness of honor and disgrace, the calmness of gathering and dispersing as the situation arises. They are not ecstatic when they get something, and they are not pessimistic when they lose it. Women can always make gains and losses. Find the joy of life. While a woman in her career knows how to be kind to herself, she also knows how to understand, care for, and tolerate others. At this time, a woman no longer demands that a man be a "perfect person." She understands the fragility behind the strength of a man in her career and succeeds. The troubles behind it, the loneliness behind the scenery, the pain behind failure, and the helplessness behind mediocrity. Therefore, although women in business have insight into everything, they turn a blind eye to other people's so-called "smartness" with a tolerant heart and smile knowingly.