The more annoying you are, the more people respect you; The kinder you are, the more people bully you.

Bullying the weak and being afraid of the hard is just human instinct, and many people are like this. In life, those who pick things up everywhere and make trouble without reason have a good life, but others respect him more and think he is a character; On the contrary, those honest people who are kind and honest, others think he is easy to bully, repeatedly pinch this soft persimmon and bully him unscrupulously.

The more you "hate", the more people respect you; The kinder you are, the more people bully you.

Many times, the more you give in, the more others push their luck, until you are finally forced to no way back, which you can't bear; Therefore, you can't be a good person in life, otherwise others will think that you have no principles and temper, and bully you as much as you want.

The more you "hate", the more people respect you; The kinder you are, the more people bully you.

Your kindness must be sharp, in order to better protect yourself. Not all people deserve your good treatment. Some people who don't know how to be grateful and bite the hand that feeds them, you don't have to be afraid to offend them, but deliberately cater to them. Even if you turn your face, it's nothing. Such people will only bring you more trouble if they get along with each other for a long time.

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Crying children have milk to eat, so they are everywhere. People who often dare to cry and make trouble are not afraid of anything, but others dare not provoke him easily. This kind of person is not afraid of offending others, falling out with others, and there is no cover for making trouble, so others are afraid of offending him and dare not easily harm his interests.

The more you "hate", the more people respect you; The kinder you are, the more people bully you.

When I first started working, two girls came together. A quiet person gives the first impression that he is obedient, sensible and introverted. The other girl is careless, unreasonable and outgoing. At first, some colleagues liked to ask quiet girls for help, but the girls were embarrassed to refuse and agreed every time.

And some people ask that extroverted girl for help, and she will push from pillar to post, hesitate, or exchange something with you before helping. After a long time, the introverted girl got into trouble. Because of her enthusiasm, colleagues ask her for help in everything, take a courier for her to take, take a takeaway for her to take, and even give her their work. What she doesn't understand is that although she was enthusiastic about helping her colleagues, they didn't even say a thank you later, and sometimes they complained when they were too busy.

The more you "hate", the more people respect you; The kinder you are, the more people bully you.

Outgoing girls are not like this. Because she has a bad temper and likes to make noise, no one dares to ask her for help. She has enough time to do some interesting things, improve her ability and significantly improve her work level.

Many times, we should not be embarrassed to refuse, and we should not be afraid of offending people. People who really care about you won't blame you for not helping him for a word or two or several times.

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If you encounter anything that infringes on your own interests, you should give a warning immediately. If he continues to violate your interests, you should immediately turn your face and dare to fight with each other. Otherwise, others will regard your modesty as weakness.

The more you "hate", the more people respect you; The kinder you are, the more people bully you.

In high school, there was a girl who had short hair and dressed herself as a boy. At that time, some girls in the class often called her a tomboy behind her back. In general, many people put up with this situation in order not to offend people. After all, we still have to meet. It's better to do more than less.

But the girl didn't choose to back down. Once she caught two girls speaking ill of her behind her back. Standing on a stool, he pointed to them and said, "Don't whisper anything behind your back. If you have the ability to speak in front of others, you are the last person to be looked down upon. " At that time, the whole class was watching the three of them, and the two girls were embarrassed and blushed.

The more you "hate", the more people respect you; The kinder you are, the more people bully you.

From then on, no one in the class dared to point fingers behind her back. Many people see her as honest and like to play with her.

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If you don't want to be bullied by others, when you feel uncomfortable, immediately point out other people's mistakes and tell them not to do so. If they continue to do this, you will fight with them completely and make a big scene.

The more you "hate", the more people respect you; The kinder you are, the more people bully you.

Don't think you can roll with the punches. In fact, many times, the more patient you are, the more others will hurt you. You might as well tell them directly that you will have to hit them in the face sooner or later. It is better to make it clear earlier, so as to save a lot of trouble in the future.

Only when you dare to speak for yourself and say no to those who infringe on your rights and interests will others respect you.