Tell me about the iou.

My brother-in-law borrowed 65,438+million from me when he bought a car. I asked him to write an iou temporarily. Unexpectedly, this IOU made me live a hard life-that afternoon, my wife, who was away on business, called me and said that Kun (her brother) needed to buy a car to run business in the new company and called me to borrow some money. You are going to prepare 6544 in these two days.

I was silent on the phone and didn't answer it. My wife begged me to say that Kun was my own brother. If you can help him, give him a hand. He has already worked, and the money he borrowed must be returned! After what my wife said, I had to agree.

To tell the truth, as soon as my brother-in-law borrowed money, I felt a little big. My parents-in-law prefer boys to girls, so that Akun spends money like water, and his wife gives everything to his younger brother. Five years after graduating from Akun University, he changed six jobs. When he was unhappy, he resigned. If he can't find a job, he will "eat the old" at home. He got married last year, the house was provided by his parents, and the decoration, furniture and wedding were arranged by his family. My wife and I have also paid and contributed, reducing a lot of burdens for my parents-in-law.

After Kun got married, the problem of spending money indiscriminately not only failed to converge, but even intensified. What worries the family more is that Akun's daughter-in-law is also a master who doesn't care about spending money. The couple got their salary and spent it in less than half a month. Usually Kun and his daughter-in-law don't even cook, but eat out all day. Usually Kun has no money, and my wife gave him no less than 3.5 thousand behind my back, which I know very well.

I once told my wife that your brother is married and we can't help him for no reason. Kun is a man. Only by making him understand the hardships of life can he have a sense of responsibility for his family. His wife has repeatedly called him. Unexpectedly, Kun wants to borrow money again, and one mouth is 654.38+ 10,000, which makes me a little unacceptable. Although my wife and I have a good salary and have saved some money in recent years, these are our hard-earned money!

Although I am unhappy, I have to borrow money. Otherwise, the wife can't explain, and her parents-in-law will be dissatisfied when they know.

After I received the money, I asked Kun to come and get it. He came quickly and entered the door. He shouted "brother-in-law" and sat on the sofa, waiting for me to give him the money. It pains me to see Kun like this. Think of his luxury. When I went to the bedroom to get the money, my hands shook a little.

I put the plastic bag with money on the coffee table and looked at Kun, who was staring at the money. I suddenly had an idea and said to Kun, Kun! Before you got married, the money your sister and I gave you was sponsored by you. Now that you have a family, you should return the money to us in the future. You are a man, you should be responsible for doing things in the future!

Kun was startled at my words, and his expression was very complicated. But he still took the paper and pen I handed him, brushed and wrote me an "IOU", then picked up the plastic bag with money, left without saying goodbye, and opened the door with a tiger face.

Kun's rudeness makes me angry, but he is my brother-in-law and my wife's own brother. what can I do? !

Unexpectedly, that IOU made me a target of public criticism.

I thought it was a trivial matter to ask Kun to write an IOU, but what happened afterwards embarrassed me. On the second day of lending money to Kun, my mother-in-law called me and found out the old scores, saying that your father and I helped you so much when you married Xiaojing. Did I ask you to write an IOU? Tell me, what will this relative do in the future?

My mother-in-law's barrage left me speechless, and I realized what consequences this IOU would bring. I want to explain to my parents-in-law, but I'm afraid it will make the two old people more angry. No explanation, but I'm afraid their grievances will accumulate.

After work the next afternoon, I stopped by my mother-in-law's house. Usually, my parents-in-law greet me with smiles and are busy serving tea and water. This time, when my mother-in-law saw me, she just nodded, even if she said hello, and then went to work in the kitchen, while my father-in-law was reading the newspaper without even looking up.

This cold atmosphere embarrassed me. I put a bag of fruit I bought on the table and said goodbye to the two old people. As usual, my wife is away on a business trip, my mother-in-law will definitely keep me for dinner, and my father-in-law will also let me accompany him for two drinks. This time, the old couple didn't leave me, but my mother-in-law picked up the bag of fruit on the table and insisted that I take it away, saying that your father and I still have a pension, and the fruit can still be bought. Take it home to eat!

I was hurt by my mother-in-law's behavior, but I don't want to defend myself. I pushed her hand to pass the fruit and turned away.

This matter makes me very depressed. Three days later, my wife came back from a business trip. Seeing that I was a little depressed and that she didn't have the joy of "getting married is better than leaving", she was surprised to ask me what happened.

Under my wife's repeated questioning, I told him that I had asked Kun to write an IOU that day. My wife knew I was in a bad mood and didn't complain about me directly. Instead, she sighed and said there was nothing wrong with making an iou. It's just that my parents are both traditional old people. They feel that their family members are embarrassed to write IOUs and look down on their sons. It'll be all right in a minute!

I told my wife that I wanted Kun to write an IOU because I wanted him to feel a little pressure and take on the responsibility of a man. Who knew the old couple reacted so fiercely!

The next day, my wife went back to her family. My mother-in-law is still worried about my asking Kun to write an iou, and she still regrets that her son-in-law is an outsider and unreliable! When my wife saw my mother surfing the Internet, she told her my original intention of asking Kun to write an iou, but my mother still couldn't turn this corner.

Kun has a bigger problem with me. He went directly to his sister and never contacted me directly. 2011July 17, at the family dinner for my father-in-law's 70th birthday, Kun sarcastically said, brother-in-law, I am now in the top ten in the company. When I get the commission at the end of the year, I'll pay you back, and you can have a good sleep!

At this time, my father-in-law also took over and said that Kun has made progress, and men should live up to expectations, otherwise no one will respect you. Do a good job for everyone to see!

My father-in-law and son echoed each other and made my face red with anger. However, I have already figured this out. The 654.38+ten thousand yuan lent to Kun is the property of husband and wife, and I am half. Lending between relatives must be honest, and A Kun should not be encouraged to rely on others. After a long time, he may understand what I did.

Let bygones be bygones. My "grown-up" brother-in-law thanked me.

People are doomed to misfortune. 20 1 1 year 1 1 month, my mother-in-law died of a sudden cerebral hemorrhage, and my father-in-law couldn't bear the death of his wife, so he became stupid and couldn't be taken care of by others.

The warm and complete home in the past no longer exists, and my wife is very sad. Without the protection of his parents, Kun became sensible overnight, psychologically closer to his sister, and his attitude towards me was much better. Kun volunteered to take turns taking care of his father with us, which made his wife very pleased.

Once, Kun came to replace his sister. Seeing him in a trance, his wife asked him with concern what had happened. Kun was silent for a while, and then said faintly, Xiaoli and I had a quarrel. I want her to take care of my father. She is very unhappy and plays wildly outside every day. I am very annoyed! Mom is gone, and dad is like this again. I feel empty, sister. I will do more responsibility in the future.

Hearing this, my wife burst into tears. Wiping away tears, she said, Xiao Kun, my sister is glad that you can understand these truths. Your parents love you the most, and your sister loves you the most. You can stand on your own feet and achieve something in the future, which is the greatest reward for my parents!

During the chat, my wife told my brother about the IOUs, and she explained to him the real intention of giving him IOUs, so that he could understand his brother-in-law's painstaking efforts. Kun was silent for a few minutes and said sincerely, in fact, I don't hate my brother-in-law for a long time, and my own brother knows how to settle accounts. Why bother my brother-in-law with his kindness to me? Only blame me for not being sensible!

These words were told to me by my wife later, and I was very moved. I have always believed that the best education for Kun is to let him undergo tempering. That iou can have an effect, and it's nothing for me to endure a temporary grievance.

One night two weeks later, my wife came home and told me one thing with a gloomy expression: Kun and his daughter-in-law divorced, as if Xiaoli was having an affair, and it seemed inevitable to break up!

I have a hunch about it. In my eyes, Xiaoli is vain, enterprising and playful. She is not the kind of woman who lives in a down-to-earth way. It is not surprising that she is having an affair.

Kun was the first to file for divorce. Because of disagreement over the division of property, the two went to court. Kun called me that day and asked me to find out the loan he lent us to buy a car. Let me testify in court and show me the IOU, because Xiaoli has to bear half of the loan!

Put the phone down, I rummaged through the closet and finally found the iou. With this evidence, Xiaoli must bear the loan with Kun, indirectly winning him an extra 50 thousand yuan!

After Kun's divorce, under the care of my wife and I, he quickly passed through the emotional pain period and was full of confidence in his work.

June 8, 20 12 is the anniversary of my wife's marriage 10. Kun invited us to dinner. At the dinner table, A Kun toasted me and said emotionally, Brother-in-law, I still have to thank you for that iou, which not only made me understand my independence, but also made me get back the benefits I deserved. Just like my sister, you are my closest relative!

Say that finish, Kun Yang neck, drank the wine in the cup, I also drink off. Looking at the two closest men around me, my wife wiped her tears happily. (Editor/Shi Kun)