"Don't let my mother-in-law come into our room at night, she is worried about me." What should I do if I encounter a mother-in-law like this?

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As a parent, the first thing you need to know is that the process of our children growing up day by day is actually the process of leaving us day by day. Whether it is psychologically or physically, our parents should slowly cut off the relationship with their children.

Especially for mothers, only when you really let go can our children be truly independent. It may be difficult for many mothers to accept emotionally that their sons no longer need their care, but this is reality and this is the future.

As a parent, the best way to give your children growth is to watch them slowly move away, and the person who can accompany them until they grow old and grow old with them is the most important person in their lives. .

But in real life, many parents do not know this truth, and their excessive desire to control their children often disrupts their children's lives. Especially dictating children's marriage will only add to the chaos.

Chen Xing has been very distressed recently. She has been married for two years. Originally, her relationship with her husband was very stable, but not long ago, she thought of divorce for the first time.

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It’s not that her husband Liu Chao treats her badly, Liu Chao has always been very good to her. He doesn't smoke or drink. He comes home on time after get off work every day. The most important thing is that he cooks well. I think when they first got married, Chen Xing was extremely happy. Her sisters all said that she was lucky. Such a good man!

The only day that Chen Xing found intolerable was when Liu Chao's mother moved into this home.

On the first day her mother-in-law moved in, she gave Chen Xing a slap in the face. Originally, when Liu Chao took her home from the train station, he washed his hands and was busy cooking in the kitchen. However, as soon as his mother-in-law saw her son cooking, she immediately stopped him. He said to him: "Why is it that cooking is done by men? Why did you marry a wife? Are you going to offer it to a Bodhisattva?"

The words were so unpleasant that Chen Xing not only wrinkled frown. But out of politeness, he said to Liu Chao: "Husband, please stay with mom first. I will cook today."

But when Chen Xing finished dinner, he was going to ask her husband to wash the dishes. At that time, the mother-in-law pointed directly at Chen Xing and shouted: "What's wrong with you? How can you instruct your husband to wash the dishes? Women should do the housework!"

Hearing this, Chen Xing Xing was stunned. She thought about what age this was, how could she still have such a feudal mother-in-law. But when she saw her husband winking at her, she could only silently put away the bowls and go to the kitchen.

This is just the beginning.

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Since her mother-in-law moved in, Chen Xing’s life has become more and more uncomfortable. The mother-in-law not only asked her son not to cook or do housework, but also asked Chen Xing to serve them.

My mother-in-law yelled at home all day: "When a woman gets married, she has to serve a man." Chen Xing was particularly disgusted after hearing this. She complained to Liu Chao many times, but Liu Chao every time They all begged her not to be like her mother. Liu Chao also said that he was raised by his mother and asked Chen Xing to be more considerate.

Chen Xing had no choice but to endure her mother-in-law’s deliberate attempts to make things difficult for her every day.

However, her patience and tolerance did not make her mother-in-law restrain herself, but instead intensified her behavior. As soon as Liu Chao came home from get off work, his mother-in-law quickly handed him watermelon, tea, and put on the slippers that had been prepared for him. As soon as Chen Xing returned home, he ordered her to do this and that.

Sometimes he said that the range hood was not wiped clean, and another time he said that the clothes on the balcony were not dried properly, there was always a reason to find fault with Chen Xing.

Chen Xing couldn't bear it anymore, so she asked Liu Chao for help, but Liu Chao just told her to endure it some more, and nothing happened after that. Chen Xing's feelings for Liu Chao also gradually changed.

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The last straw that broke the camel's back was when Chen Xing discovered to her horror that every night when she was sleeping, her mother-in-law would sneak into their room to give Liu Super cover quilt.

That night, Chen Xing did not sleep well. She vaguely felt like someone was moving around her. She opened her eyes and saw the frightened side. Her mother-in-law was bending over to cover Liu Chao with a quilt. Chen Xing was so frightened that he screamed, waking everyone up.

After that, Chen Xing learned that her mother-in-law would sneak into their room every night to cover Liu Chao.

Chen Xing was shocked and angry. She told her mother-in-law directly that this is her room. Can you respect our privacy?

But the mother-in-law didn’t think it was wrong and said that he was my son. What privacy did he have?

Chen Xing collapsed, so he found Liu Chao and told him about the matter: "Husband, don't let my mother-in-law enter our room at night again!"

But Liu Chao did She looked as if she should take it for granted: "My mother is just worried about me, what's wrong?"

Chen Xing completely collapsed, as if she had met Liu Chao for the first time. She never noticed before that Liu Chao turned out to be a "mama's boy". Not only that, but her mother-in-law's various weird behaviors also made her feel like she was stuck in her throat.

For the first time, she had doubts about this marriage, and she was considering whether to divorce.