My girlfriend wants to break up with me, and I want to leave a message in her space every day.

Hello, I don't think what you're doing makes any sense. Your way of stalking will only make her dislike you more. I recommend several ways to get your girlfriend back

First, find out the reasons for breaking up. First of all, you have to find out the reason for breaking up. This is the first step. There may be many reasons for breaking up, but what is the main reason? This is often a deep-seated problem, so you must find out the deepest reason.

Many couples who break up break up on the grounds of personality incompatibility, bad temper, frequent quarrels and ignorance of women. In fact, these reasons are often superficial, and the deeper reasons may be deeply buried. Therefore, we must work hard in this regard.

If some couples often quarrel, quarreling is not the reason for breaking up, but why quarreling is the reason. Only after finding this reason can we talk about redemption.

second, the possibility of recovery assessment. After finding the reason, it is necessary to evaluate the possibility of recovery, which is a necessary step. If the other person is married, or the other person has gone abroad and can't be contacted, it means that there is no possibility of recovery. If you want to force yourself to recover, it means that you have lost your mind, or that there is a psychological problem. It is no longer a matter of recovery, but how to see a psychologist.

If the other person is not married, even has a certain connection with you, and has not given up on you, then you should evaluate the possibility of redemption.

In addition, evaluate how changeable you are. For example, the main reason for breaking up is that you often drink and hit people, and the woman suffers greatly from it. Then, you should evaluate the possibility of changing the drinking and hitting people. If you still go your own way, there is no possibility of change, so there is no possibility of recovery. If you give up drinking completely and your personality becomes docile, then it is feasible to save it.

third, let her see what she wants. On the basis of the first two steps, you should try to change and improve yourself and let her see what she wants. At this time, the motivation to attract her back has begun. This power to attract her should be constantly strengthened, and it is the best way to save her by doing more things that she cares about and saying more things that she cares about.

For example, in the past, you were poor and couldn't afford to buy a car or a house, but she was more vain. Then the way and strategy to save her is to earn money, meet her needs in this respect and create more efforts to attract her, thus paving the way to save her.

fourth, let her get to know you again. There is a reason for breaking up, and it is also a fantasy to make her feel for you again, or to subvert her previous understanding of you and make her look at you with new eyes. Then it is an early thing to make up for it, but two things should be done:

First, let her know that you are changing. How much you have changed, let her know through channels, such as posting your achievements in the circle of friends, what major event you have done recently, etc., and let her have channels to pay attention to you.

the second is to let her know that you are working hard for her. You try to change something to let her know that it's all for her, which is a stepping stone to open her heart and also a process to influence her.

Finally, take redemption as a growth of life. When she comes back, she should cherish love and friendship more.