What feelings did you have after watching the TV series "Agarwood Like Chips"?

My thoughts after watching this are:

What attracts me most about this TV series is not the sadomasochistic love between Yan Dan and Ying Yuan, but the supporting characters like Zhi Xi The step-by-step process of darkening, as well as the life courses of various characters in the play, etc., because you can see human nature in this and enrich your life experience.

1. Only by accepting your own ordinaryness can you be happy

Zhixi, she and Yan Dan were originally twins transformed from the four-leaf lotus of an ancient relic. One is destined to be strong and the other is weak. When Zhi Xi thought she was the stronger one, she and Yan Dan had a close relationship as sisters and supported each other. But when Yan Dan received more and more attention and Zhi Xi realized that she might be the weak one, all the good things Yan Dan had before turned out to have ulterior motives. In order to get the grace to go down to earth for her sister and endure the calamity, she carefully wrote "The Legend of the Heroes of Creation" just for the limelight. In order to protect her sister, Yan Dan was struck by lightning and her life was hanging by a thread. Zhixi no longer came to save her. When Yu Mo saved others After that, she said so calmly that Yan Dan always had someone to save her, but she was always alone. She turned around and pretended to be Yan Dan as the emperor's savior with peace of mind, enjoying praise in the heaven.

That's it. What's abominable is that in order to drive Yan Dan out of Yanxu Palace, he even cooperated with the boss of Yingdeng who has been bullying him, and every time he told Yan Dan that it was for her. What a high-sounding reason.

Yan Dan chose to forgive again and again. Each time she tried to explain or choose reasons to believe, until she was sent to prison by her sister's silence.

From this pair of sisters, we can clearly feel that if people cannot accept their own ordinaryness and ordinaryness, it will be the beginning of the tragedy of life.

Why is it that when Yan Dan thinks that she is the weak one, she can live happily, aiming at her sister's goals wholeheartedly, and only thinks about letting her sister be her supporter in the future, and starts to lie down? Life. But what about the sister who can't accept that she is weak?

So, when you and I return to reality, are we Yan Dan or Zhi Xi?

Accepting your own ordinaryness and ordinaryness, doing things within your capabilities, and striving to live a fulfilling life is also a successful life.

Second, you must become your own backer. This is the most determined thing

Let’s talk about the matter of backing.

Yan Dan has always been a pure and simple person. She has always thought that her sister is strong, and all good things should belong to her, so she has always wanted to help her sister achieve her goals, and then use her big heart to help her achieve her goals. Enjoy the shade under the trees.

Even though she later came under the protection of Ying Yuan, she never forgot to fulfill her sister's wish and find her sister to be her backer.

But in fact, the only person who can truly become her backer is herself.

In the battle between immortals and demons, Ying Yuan was poisoned by the Wuwu Fire, and the person who silently protected her also fell. My sister is not strong enough to protect herself, and the person who has always protected her now needs to be protected by herself. My good friend Yu Mo cannot show up during the day, and the high-level immortals and gods I have dealt with before have also perished in the war.

The supporter she hoped for became the person who pushed her into prison. She was so deeply in love that she turned against him, just in a thought.

The person who became her backer also had responsibilities that he could not give up. Whether it was before the battle between immortals and demons or after he fell in love with her, she was not his first choice, and he always thought of her in the name of her good. Push her away until she jumps off the No Bridge.

Exactly as the saying goes, the mountain will fall if you rely on it. Rely on people, people run, you can only rely on yourself.

So, sisters, we still have to put our own growth first!

No one can be your lifelong supporter. Only with your own perseverance can you not be afraid of the ups and downs of mountains and seas, and you must be self-reliant and self-reliant like the earth no matter where you are.

3. There are thousands of models of love, just choose the one that suits you

Finally, let’s talk about love, let alone the love between the male and female protagonists. I won’t be holding my cell phone every day waiting to feed the dog food.

I still like to pay attention to the little people, the stories of people hidden in small corners. Because a good TV series will not only work hard on the male and female protagonists, but also be unique in the supporting roles.

The first commandment in heaven is that there is no room for emotion.

So Manager Yingdeng succeeded in reporting Si Xuan. In order to warn Ying Yuan, Tianzun asked him to kill Si Xuan himself.

When she was dying, Si Xuan said that she would rather die with a loving heart than live with a heartless person.

This is persistence in love. Life was precious, but love was even more valuable!

Yu Mo said that she was chirping, laughing and making trouble around me. At the time, she thought it was normal, but when she did this to others, she felt uncomfortable.

Lu Ming told him the word lovesickness. The so-called lovesickness means wishing to be with her all the time. If she smiles, you will not be very happy. If she cries, you will feel like your insides are burning. , if she laughs and laughs for others, you will be in pain as if your soul is about to leave.

This means that only if you don’t miss lovesickness in your life, you will miss lovesickness, which will harm lovesickness.

Yan Dan can’t love her, and she doesn’t want to drink the love-forgetting water and forget that person. Jumping off the Wuqiao and wandering around the Wangye River, it was obvious that it was just because of him.

This is a love that no one else can do as long as that person appears. It is weak and can only be your love.

Yan Dan said that Ying Yuan came to protect the people, and she came to protect him. She will wait for her sweetheart!

There are many kinds of love. Some people choose to guard silently as long as the other person is happy. Some people can wait infatuatedly without results. Some people can afford it and let it go. It doesn’t matter whether it’s right or wrong. It’s just a matter of love. Just a choice. Choose the one that suits you, that's right.

If you study this TV series more carefully, there are many things worth pondering, such as the choice Zhixi made when he knew that Yan Dan had been wandering Wangye River for more than 800 years and was about to be wiped out. The Emperor tolerated Ying Yuan's crimes again and again. Tian Tiao's concessions, etc. Human nature is complex and people's hearts are fickle, good and bad, because bad people will become good and good people will become bad. Whether it is bad or good can only be this moment and that moment.