What gift should I bring when I get married and pick up the bride?

What gift should I bring when I get married and pick up the bride? I think when you get married and pick up the bride, you should bring a flower first, and then four boxes, such as mirror, 15 Jin, cassava, cute head red and so on. I think, if you don't take these items when you get married and pick up the bride, you will be reluctant to part with them. You must take these gifts to pick up the bride in order to pick up the bride smoothly. I think this is ancient. Now many families still use this when they get married. This custom is still used to pick up the bride.