After breaking up, my boyfriend wanted to get back together with me and then gave me a cold war. Why?

There may be many reasons for the cold war with you after getting back together. Here are some possible explanations:

1. communication problem: after getting back together, it may be difficult for your boyfriend to re-establish healthy communication methods, leading to the occurrence of the cold war. He may still be thinking about how to deal with the problems between you, so he doesn't know how to communicate with you.

2. Past problems: After getting back together, the boyfriend may recall the reasons for the previous breakup and the problems that caused you to break up. These questions may make him reluctant to communicate with you again, because he may worry that history will repeat itself.

3. Fear of losing: Your boyfriend may be afraid of losing you again after getting back together, so he chooses to use the cold war to protect himself. This behavior may be a defense mechanism to avoid being hurt again.

4. Lack of self-confidence: Your boyfriend may lack confidence in himself and is not sure whether he can establish a healthy relationship with you again. This lack of self-confidence may make him feel unable to communicate with you, so he chooses the cold war as a way to deal with the problem.

Whatever the reason, if you feel that this cold war situation has affected your emotional health and happiness, you can try to communicate frankly with your boyfriend, find out the root of the problem and try to solve it. At the same time, we should maintain our independence and self-esteem, and don't lose ourselves in the relationship.