After 9, firefighters were unexpectedly paraplegic, and after 7 years, they became psychological counselors?

Today, Zhu Mingjun, a 29-year-old Shandong guy, still remembers all the details of the accident seven and a half years ago:

On July 9, 213, in an instructor's military training activity on campus, Zhu Mingjun, a 22-year-old firefighter, accidentally fell off the horizontal bar and landed on his neck when he was doing a demonstration action because of loose equipment. A few minutes later, Zhu Mingjun was taken to the hospital by his teammates, and he didn't know what happened afterwards. It was four days after I woke up.

Later, the doctor opened a hole in his neck, put a plastic tube on it, and the other end of the tube was inserted into a ventilator. "I survived, but I was unconscious from the head down, and I couldn't leave the ventilator for 24 hours." Zhu Mingjun couldn't accept this kind of "living". He tried to bite the tongue or bite his lip, but found it useless and "still hurts".

the turning point appeared in 216. He met a psychological counselor on the Internet, gradually walked out of the gloom of life, took the qualification examination by himself and became a psychological counselor.

On the 13th, Zhu Mingjun's story gained the attention of netizens in Weibo. By the time of publication, nearly 5, articles had been forwarded and more than 3, people liked it. On the 14th, the Red Star News Educational Teacher had a deep dialogue with Zhu Mingjun.

Zhu Mingjun is doing psychological counseling at home

A video of bilibili UP has gained 3 million views, and he operates the computer with his lips

On the evening of 14th, he just finished an interview with the Red Star News Educational Administration teacher during the day, but at a little bit, Zhu Mingjun still turned on his computer, logged in bilibili and broadcast live.

it's an accident to be the upmaster. On January 15th, this year, Zhu Mingjun uploaded his own recorded video "A firefighter who has been paraplegic for seven and a half years" in bilibili. The video reviewed his injury experience and introduced his identity as a psychological counselor.

He recalled that he was very depressed that day. When he woke up, he found that there was no one around him who could talk to him. He tried to record what he wanted to say and send it online. "Unexpectedly, such a move has changed my life dramatically. I have received a lot of concern and encouragement from netizens, just as the loneliness and loneliness of the previous seven and a half years have all disappeared. "

As of 15th, this video has received nearly 3 million views, which makes him an amateur UP master, uploading a video every two or three days and broadcasting it live every night.

Compared with other UP owners, Zhu Mingjun's live broadcast content is "lacking"-he usually chats with netizens casually, sometimes talks about psychology and then plays games.

The live broadcast began at 7 pm, and fans kept pouring into the live broadcast room. By 8 pm, more than 6, people had watched the live broadcast room, and the barrage almost never stopped. Many netizens will send some greetings, and he will read each one out loud, and thank you one by one. There are also many problems related to psychology. Perhaps out of professional relations, when answering these questions, he will say a lot and use a lot of professional knowledge.

Zhu Mingjun's computer is specially made, and it was bought from abroad by someone. Besides the host and display screen, there is also a joystick controlled by his mouth, which is hung in front of the display screen to control the computer by blowing, inhaling and touching his lips. Playing games with such a device takes more effort than typing. For example, he said, for example, to play the QWER key, which is mainly used in League of Legends, it is necessary to realize keyboard operation by blowing and inhaling. It took him six months to get used to it before he learned to operate it.

During the fierce battle in the game, Zhu Mingjun's mouth quickly shook or blew on several plastic pipes, and his face flushed. Despite his best efforts, he still doesn't play very well. Sometimes I meet the "Water Friends Bureau"-the fans in the live broadcast room play with him. In order to let Zhu Mingjun win, the enemy fans give him "water" and the friendly fans actively cooperate.

sometimes there are some bad comments. Some people commented or wrote privately that he had obtained the "wealth password" and "sold badly", and he didn't care about these comments. "I think truth is very important, and I also want to send positive energy to netizens."

Two and a half hours of live broadcast every day is Zhu Mingjun's happiest time. "Although I have been tired of talking all the time, I enjoy it. Just like a dream, I am afraid it will be fleeting. "

at 9: 3 pm, there were nearly 1, online people in the live broadcast room.

Zhu Mingjun before the injury

The psychological counselor "is like saving the same kind"

During the interview, Zhu Mingjun repeatedly emphasized to the educational administration teacher that he was a psychological counselor.

It is also an accident to become a psychological counselor. In 216, Zhu Mingjun read a book called The Bucket List, which mentioned "psychology". "I am curious, will psychology really change a person's mentality?" At that time, he had not been able to accept the fact that he was paraplegic, and he was unwilling to communicate with others and didn't want to talk. He was "desperate".

Since then, he has planted a seed of psychology in his heart. Later, he met his current psychological teacher in the paraplegia post bar, who helped him through the most difficult time online.

In p>218, Zhu Mingjun obtained the certificate of psychological counselor and started to operate at home. When consulting, he is always used to "face-to-face" communication with clients by lying on his side. Face-to-face communication is the most effective way of psychological consultation, "which is more responsible for visitors." He said. Although it will cause physical discomfort to him.

during his nearly three years' practice, he realized that this might be the most suitable job for him. "My experience makes it easy for me to fall in love with customers." He has also provided consulting services for dozens of clients. Adults charge 299 yuan each time, while minors and students are free. He also thought about giving this job "Amway" to other patients, but the effect was not good. "Either it was too difficult or he didn't have the heart to learn."

In the summer when he was admitted as a psychological counselor, Zhu Mingjun went to the local square to give a public welfare speech for the first time. "At that time, I really wanted to escape. I could only bite the bullet and I didn't know what I said a few times ago." Later, communication with others and applause from strangers gave him strength, and he also had a bond with the outside world.

"I have experienced collapse, pain and despair. I never thought that one day I would help my friends with mental disorders as a psychological counselor, just like saving my peers and pulling them from the darkness to the bright world." He described his occupation like this.

My mother never gave up on him

"I'm waiting for the day when he stands up"

"Social networking has increased my courage to resist death." He said that social networking made him feel happy and less painful or lonely in reality.

Zhu Mingjun's control over his body is limited to his head. He can't breathe, eat, bathe or urinate on his own, and he once had the idea of suicide. Before this special computer, Zhu Mingjun used an iPad. He held it in front of him with a flat bracket, biting a capacitance pen and poking at the screen. At that time, he joined two post bars-"paraplegia bar" and "terminally ill bar", and spent most of his time on these two post bars every day.

But now, Zhu Mingjun wants to live, and he still has something he really wants to do. He told the educational administration teacher that this year he set up his own offline psychological counseling studio, "I should make more real friends, not just online."

Zhu Mingjun at the time of live broadcast

Zhu Mingjun has also been in love. There is a the Monkey King doll on the top of his computer stand. When you look up, you can see that it is a gift from your ex-girlfriend. The two talked for a year and a half. "Because of physical reasons, I still have to accept some things."

When his ex-girlfriend gave him a the Monkey King doll, she said that he, like this the Monkey King, was only temporarily pinned down by Wuzhishan and would be rescued by the Tang Priest one day.

In p>213, doctors diagnosed Zhu Mingjun: Zhu Mingjun could still live for 15 years without medical breakthrough. Now, in that diagnosis, he only has seven years left.

"If that day comes, my family is the last thing I want. I just want to have a good time for the rest of my life, and I don't have much regret when I leave. " He said.

Zhu Mu never gave up on her son. "I'm waiting for the day when he stands up, and I firmly believe that one day will come."

(Source: Red Star News)

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