There are many things in front of the widow's door. Why are there so many things in front of her door?

There are many things in front of the widow's door. There is less smoke on the widower's roof and more things in front of the widow's door. This is a complete statement.

A widower is a man whose wife died. A family, only men, no women, lonely, no one to take care of, no one to care about. One person is full and the whole family is not hungry. Of course, cooking is rare. Cooking will produce less smoke.

But it's just a sentence describing the living conditions of widowed men. Why is it rarely mentioned? Widows have a lot to do in front of their doors and are often talked about.

? Widow, a woman with a dead husband, why is there so much right and wrong in front of the door?

A dead daughter-in-law and a dead husband should both be in the same boat, but they are treated differently.

In Shan Nong's view, this still stems from women's status and prejudice against women. In the hearts of the older generation. Women are weak, and their hands are powerless. Then a woman without a man can't do anything. If a woman wants to live and live well, she still has to rely on men. Where did the widow's man come from? In the eyes of the older generation, that is misconduct.

Over time, the widow's view of right and wrong is deeply rooted in the hearts of the people. Who cares how much smoke there is on the widower's roof?

In the 1950s, there were a couple of widows and widowers in our village. According to the current words, both of them are single. If you love me, being together should be a happy thing. But people in those days were too conservative, thinking that women married people, life was a man's home, and death was a man's ghost. Even without a husband, she will keep the chastity archway. Men are different, but they can have mistresses. So when the two of them were known, the woman was poked and scolded by the whole village, and everything was ugly. Men just sigh and regret, and their eyes are not good. How can they put up with such people? Therefore, two loves that are not accepted by the world can only be strangled. Later, both men and women lived a lonely life.

Shan Nong was very sad when he learned about it. As a woman, I can't accept some worldly eyes. They are also brought up by their parents, who have worked hard for their families all their lives, having children and supporting their in-laws. Why should women be treated unfairly?

But Shan Nong is also very lucky to live in the new century of 2 1. Women should strive for self-improvement, and we can do what men can do.

Self-reliant woman, where are you?

Wang Sister-in-law's husband died in a car accident in the hospital. The old mother sighed, "What's wrong with the widow's door? .

I have heard this sentence from time to time. Today, I study the origin carefully. It turns out that the whole sentence is "there is little smoke on the widower's roof (guān), and there are many things in front of the widow's door?" .

Literally, an old man who loses his wife is called a widower, and an old woman who loses her husband is called a widow.

"The widower's roof smoke less? It means that men are always dependent on women for cooking shortcomings. Once you are widowed, eating is a problem. They eat the last meal without the next meal, or cook for several days at a time. Sometimes, cold rice is neither too hot nor too hot, and they swallow it at once. Naturally, I seldom drink cigarettes on the roof.

Are there many things in front of widows? It means that after a woman loses her husband, hooligans, loafers and old bachelors will brazenly come to harass her, and they will follow suit, and gossip will naturally continue.

The whole sentence vividly describes the hardships of their lives after losing their husbands and wives.

There is a book gentleman who loves to get to the bottom of it. Today, he revealed: "There is little smoke on the widower's roof, but there are many things in front of the widow's door? Why is the first half rarely mentioned?

First, the unfortunate widower and widow are afraid of criticism from others and dare not say anything.

After the death of Master Wang's wife, I accidentally read this sentence from a book. I was sad for a while and remembered it firmly.

Once, neighbors got together to chat, and Master Wang said, "There is little smoke on the roof of a widower's house, but there are many things in front of a widow's house? It caused everyone to burst into laughter.

Someone laughed: "Master Wang, do you also want to find a wife to cook for you and warm your bed?" ? Master Wang blushed and dared not respond.

If others say so, it is sympathy for widows and widowers who live alone, and kind people will try their best to make them beautiful.

But most people are selfish, each sweeping his own snow and leaving others to first frost? Will not consider the hardships of others' lives, or even understand the meaning of this sentence.

If a widower utters the whole sentence continuously, others will think that he is old and not serious and cannot live without his wife; If the widow keeps saying the whole sentence, others will think that she is like a man and shameless.

It doesn't matter if you press people under your tongue, but introverted people will be upset and sad. Therefore, sometimes jokes can't be played at will.

Second, the feudal thought that men are superior to women makes people disdain to mention one sentence, but they make a big fuss about the next one.

"The widower's roof smoke less? If there is less smoke on the roof of a widower, others will think that he is lazy and unworthy of eating. When I meet a kind mother and a kind brother and sister, I will take care of his diet. As time passed, no one spoke half a sentence earlier.

A very attractive rural woman, after her husband died, the old bachelor around her often harassed her.

My mother-in-law often scolds her when she listens to gossip.

She said indignantly, "don't you know there are many things in front of the widow's door?" ? Mother-in-law flew into a rage: "Flies don't bite seamless eggs. Why don't you loafers find someone else to come to you? Do you look like a fairy? ? As a result, the woman had to hang herself to prove her innocence.

Are there many things in front of widows? In rural China, women have always been embarrassed by women. If a man comes to the house, they will be jealous and say, "There are many things in front of the widow's door? Accuse women of indecency, seduce men and cause trouble.

Third, the feminist thought that women can hold up half the sky in the new era is not worth mentioning.

After her husband died, Ms. Wang, 50, was introduced by enthusiastic people.

She can't stand it. The salary can support himself, and the son is old. I don't have to care. I live a very chic life. Why bother to find a burden for me to serve him? ?

In the era of equality between men and women, women are dragging their feet, and women can do what men can do.

It is normal for a woman with an economic foundation to be confident in her life and earn her own income. There is no need for others to make irresponsible remarks about finding a man.

I don't care what others say even if I just fall in love and don't get married.

Women who are self-respecting, self-loving, self-reliant and self-reliant in the new era live beside the word "cool"? .

To sum up, unfortunate widowers and widows are afraid of other people's criticism, and the feudal thought that men are superior to women is specifically aimed at women, so that no one speaks half a sentence in advance; Women hold up half the sky's feminist thought, that is, "There are many things in front of the widow's door?" Will also be extinct.

Natural and man-made disasters have made people widowed, so why put a heavy yoke on her? People should be kind.

China writing is meaningful, okay? , a man and a woman, this is better.

The man who lost a woman is Kun. According to ancient records, a big fish of Kun is also a kind of wealth. I think Kun is more like a fish steak that has lost its flesh and blood, leaving only a big mouth and a few bone spurs.

A woman who has lost a man is said to be a widow, and there are few fingers in Shuo Wen Jie Zi. In my opinion, the word widowhood is: even sitting at home, there will be countless pairs of eyes staring at her like knives, making her always vigilant and careful step by step.

When men create characters, they really try their best to educate women to remember three obedience and four virtues and maintain good female virtues.

Widowers and widows have now been thrown into the rubbish heap of history.

When single aristocrats no longer worry about eating, there are hotels, restaurants and takeout, when single queens don't have to worry about other people's gossip, go their own way and let idle people eat radishes and fuck their own hearts!

Remember that the next sentence is about women and the last sentence is about men, so I won't mention it, for fear that others will say that men are lazy. With the concept of old China and the unequal society in which men are superior to women, people gradually only know to scold women and forget the last sentence about men. You remember.

The widower's roof has less smoke,

Next sentence: there are many things in front of the widow's door.

That is to say, a bachelor is lazy to cook, and he wants to go to a widow's house to make a living, so that poets with half a bottle of ink can't eat grapes, so he wrote such a proverb.

In ancient times, women were pitiful, and women had to bear all the mistakes made by men, such as a femme fatale. At that time, women were not treated as adults, such as the one who didn't know the truth (Liu An killed his wife and fed Liu Bei) and Liu Bei's famous saying that women are like clothes. There are too many examples. This has also led to the phenomenon of son preference in many parts of our rural areas before, and now there are still such bad habits in many rural areas. There are many things in front of the widow's door. Personally, I feel that apart from stating this phenomenon, I am also warning widows that there are many things in front of your house, so you should pay attention to your identity and influence.

Two: Although women are as worthless as clothes, those rich people also like to wear good clothes at home. Otherwise, there would be no such thing as three wives and four concubines. Although some poor people are not so capable, who doesn't like more clothes? Those who have a little spare money can go to brothels, while those who don't look at the widow think that she is lonely and may need his company. Men are mostly animals with lower body thinking. Everyone likes to talk about things like this. According to the current words, this is a (self-contained, topical thing).

The widow's previous sentence called, (There is little smoke on the widower's roof), which has nothing to say. A widower can also be said to be a man with a dead wife or a single bachelor, but in either case, such a person has nothing to say. At that time, an old gentleman made a fire at home, so there was no point in discussing it. Naturally, no one wants to mention this sentence (nobody pays attention to it in single dog).

To sum up, in ancient times, although women's status was not high, they were sometimes regarded as playthings of the rich, just like thin horses in Yangzhou. However, the topic of gender and women has touched men's nerves since ancient times, so these related words will easily spread and make people remember. For example, the widower in the first half of the sentence, let alone whether I have heard of it, is a word that many people don't know, and some people think it is a mule driver who keeps mules. what do you have to say?

It's true, there are many things in front of the widow's door? This proverb has been remembered by the world for many years, but the last sentence has indeed been forgotten. The fundamental reason is that men are superior to women left over from feudal times? The product of! In the past, the old habit of preferring sons to daughters was serious, and women had no status and were bullied everywhere. The widower's roof smokes less? Refers to men, is a strong group! There is only the last sentence, which means discrimination against women. Then the gun? Words are difficult to write, which is why the previous sentence is gradually discarded.