What if I speak without logic?

Although we talk every day, it is common for most people to talk long, fail to grasp the key points and have no logic.

For example, at a company meeting, the boss suddenly asked you to summarize your recent work. You talked for a long time, without any preparation or focus. No matter how strong your ability is, the leader can't see it.

Communicate with the customer, the other party suddenly asks you a question, you prevaricate for a long time, and you can't answer, and the customer's impression of you is greatly reduced in an instant.

Every time a colleague asks you a question, you can't answer the point, which makes people feel impatient and even thinks you are wasting your time.

Long-winded, unable to grasp the point, illogical? Change your expression pattern in five directions.

You often end your speech one minute ago and want to take it back the next.

You think that because you are born dumb, you can only bury yourself in more work.

Your ability is not bad, and you work hard. Every time an opportunity comes, you often fail to grasp it because of lack of expressiveness.

In the workplace, what you can do is not as good as what you can say-

People with outstanding project reports and bright spots are more likely to be reused by leaders;

People with smooth communication and clear thinking are more likely to win appreciation and get attention;

And those who are eloquent are always more likely to make good friends.

Nine times out of ten, the troubles of life are in interpersonal relationships; Nine times out of ten, the trouble of interpersonal relationship is due to the problem of expression.

Your inexplicable "bad luck" and "no talent" are actually defeated by your inability to speak and express.

The main reasons why the speech didn't get to the point are as follows:

Long-winded, unable to grasp the point, illogical? Change your expression pattern in five directions.

1, too few openings.

Usually he is silent and doesn't like to express himself. When it comes to the important moment of expression, he naturally can't say clearly. Just like a machine, if it doesn't run for a long time, it can't reach the original accuracy standard.

Countermeasures: output a lot first, don't care about right or wrong, just like pouring beans, say everything you can think of first, don't care about logic, words and so on.

Only by speaking out first can we have a chance to sum up our progress. This is the first step.

Long-winded, unable to grasp the point, illogical? Change your expression pattern in five directions.

2. Bad expression habits.

Speech never pays attention to structure, and often says what comes to mind. I don't have the habit of pondering and polishing my own language, and my thinking is confused, so I naturally can't grasp the key points.

Long-winded, unable to grasp the point, illogical? Change your expression pattern in five directions.

3, it will not be refined.

I don't know how to organize what I want to say, and I don't know how to organize and refine my ideas, which leads to the lack of focus in expression.

To learn speech eloquence, we must learn how to refine the main points, not gorgeous, but concise and clear.

Long-winded, unable to grasp the point, illogical? Change your expression pattern in five directions.

4. Thinking is too divergent.

As soon as I talked about one topic, I immediately jumped to another topic, which was beside the point. The result is that people don't know what you are talking about for a long time. If you have this problem, you must focus on training "accurate expression", refining opinions, sorting out ideas, and constantly sharing a topic.

Through deliberate practice, let yourself out of the comfort zone and improve your expression ability.

Long-winded, unable to grasp the point, illogical? Change your expression pattern in five directions.

5. Lack of systematic practice.

There are no people with poor expression skills, only untrained people. It's not that we can't express ourselves well, but because we don't study systematically, which makes us nervous, illogical, self-confident and unable to let go. All problems can be changed through deliberate practice.

Change is painful, but after change, you will bring unexpected results, double your confidence and influence. Change yourself, from now on!