Why is wine full of respect and tea full of ceremony? What are the allusions?

"The wine is full of respect and the tea is full."

There's a saying when treating people: pour wine when persuading people to drink, and don't pour wine when pouring tea. If it is full, it is driving away the guests. A further statement is: "tea seven, rice eight, wine ten."

The tea is poured to seven minutes full, just right; Eating at eight o'clock is called "touching your nose", which is disrespectful to the guests.

On the other hand, exquisite guests generally don't "return to the bowl", that is, they don't add rice after a bowl. When eating, both the host and the guest should carry the bottom of the bowl with their hands. If the bowl is placed on the table, hold the edge of the bowl by hand.

This statement was invented by the working people and is a hospitality culture that has been circulating for thousands of years. Different places have different sayings, but the meaning is the same.

Don't pour too much tea for the guests. Hot tea will burn the guests and they can't drink it when it is served. This is disrespectful to the guests, and it also means to drive them away, so some places call it tea farewell.

Etiquette is a rule of etiquette for people to communicate with each other. Etiquette is a virtue that does not hinder others, and it is also a passport to do anything. Etiquette is a variety of forms that people show respect for others, including action forms and language forms. Such as shaking hands, bowing and kowtowing. It is in the form of action, greeting, thanks, etc. ,, and are all forms of language.

Extended data

Ceremony is a code of conduct that originates from the nature of human nature and meets the needs of life. Why do you say that? Etiquette is the difference between human beings and animals (due to human nature), and it is also the basis of peace in human society. Looking at today, few people talk about and understand the ceremony, social disorder is widespread, and various frictions and conflicts occur frequently. People not only feel insecure when they get along, but also have a sense of crisis when they are enemies.

Individuals, treat each other with courtesy, keeping courtesy is civilization, and long ceremony is peace and governance.

Group, rudeness, rudeness lead to riots, disobedience lead to chaos.

As can be seen from the above analysis, etiquette is absolutely indispensable in the crowd. People exchange feelings, things keep order, and the country keeps normal, all of which are the power of etiquette.

The function of etiquette cannot be ignored. How can we modern people not take it seriously and study? Otherwise, it is inevitable that you will suffer losses everywhere in society, and it will be too late to regret it.

Because we believe that no one wants rude behavior to be triggered by gossip and ridicule: "Someone is outrageous, uneducated, ignorant, rude, inhuman, never seen the scene, really annoying, ridiculous, far away from him, rarely in touch …" What kind of influence will this series of nouns have on your future and everything?

Etiquette is the virtue of not interfering with others, respecting people's good deeds, and it is also a passport to do everything by yourself, which is a necessary condition to achieve perfection.

If we can do more "self-denial" and start from our own responsibilities and families, I am convinced that society will be more peaceful and polite.

Reference Baidu Encyclopedia-Etiquette