The goods enter from the mouth. Tell me about it.

There is an old saying in China that "no one talks behind his back". It seems that gossip and gossip are the nature of each of us.

However, if you don't want to get into trouble, always remember: don't judge others behind their backs.

Don't think they can't hear you. It is difficult to guarantee that something unexpected will not happen one day.

Furthermore, telling people what is wrong behind their backs will also make you feel frivolous and untrustworthy.

This, especially in interpersonal communication in the workplace, needs your attention.

In the workplace, many people like to talk about colleagues' faults or scandals behind their backs. Most people have such a bad habit, not malicious, deliberately attacking others.

But it is often misunderstood by others as the latter.

As the saying goes, "disaster comes from the mouth". You like to speak ill of people behind their backs. If you talk too much, you will often be misunderstood by your colleagues, and you will feel disgusted. In the end, you will often lose opportunities and even fail to gain a foothold in the office. You must be alert to this.

As the saying goes, if you talk too much, you will lose. Talking about others behind their backs will inevitably put my foot in my mouth.

The speaker has no intention, but the listener has intention. The same sentence, perhaps you are not malicious, but it is full of sarcasm and disdain to others.

If you want to avoid this embarrassing and passive situation in social interaction, it is the best solution not to talk about others behind their backs.

On a job-hunting website in China, a survey result of "which employees are least liked by bosses" was published, among which "gossip" ranked first.

In the eyes of many people, people who like to speak ill of others behind their backs are gossip.

Therefore, in order to have a harmonious relationship with others and avoid being disgusted by people around you, don't speak ill of others behind their backs.

You may ask: Can we talk about others behind their backs? Of course, you can not only speak, but also learn to speak well.

Don't talk about people behind their backs, in fact, it is to discourage you from gossiping about others: don't speak ill, don't say unfounded words, and don't say unfounded things.

Understand this, you should also understand that the most important thing behind is actually the good words of others. And this statement will have more social significance than praising people in person.

Learn to speak well of others behind their backs, which is the reason for success: if you speak well of others to their face, they may think you are flattering them.

On the contrary, if you say nice things behind your back, people will think you are serious. In this way, he will naturally appreciate and appreciate you.

It is much better to say good things about a person behind his back than to praise him in person. You don't have to worry. If you speak well of him behind his back, he can easily hear you.

Bismarck, the "hot-blooded prime minister" in German history, understood this and successfully avoided many social obstacles through good words behind him.

In order to win a parliamentarian who was hostile to him, Bismarck had planned to speak well of that parliamentarian in front of others.

Bismarck knew that those people would pass on his words to members of parliament after listening to their good words about him.

Later, they really became friends who talked about everything, and members of parliament also became supporters during Bismarck's administration.

Numerous facts can prove to us that the effect of praising a person is very different.

It is more sincere and credible to say good things about others behind their backs, and it is far better than praising others face to face.

The weakness of human nature determines that a person will never feel disgusted when he hears others say good things about himself, unless the other person says too much.

Therefore, learning to speak well of others behind their backs will definitely give you excellent social returns.

In short, you must master the social key of "Don't judge others behind their backs".

This not only means that you should not speak ill of others behind their backs and gossip at will; It also means that you should be good at putting in good words behind others' backs and bring you more benefits through the invisible mouthpiece of social interaction.

Remember, misfortune comes from the mouth, and happiness comes from the mouth. Whether it is a blessing or a curse is actually between your thoughts.