Emotional copy worthy of collection

1. When you move from a small pattern to a big pattern, many seemingly inevitable problems that have plagued you in those years will be solved. For example, family problems, inferiority complex, emotional problems, income problems and career development problems. When you open your own world and improve your thinking horizon, compared with the past, it is also a 1 kind of "dimensionality reduction blow". This is 1 person's increasingly powerful "ultimate password".

2. If the arguments on the Internet are often emotional, then the arguments in the workplace are often about interests. What is your specific point of view becomes less important.

3. It is not the demand itself that creates consumption, but the class comparison psychology that stimulates consumption.

We think that we have surpassed this class by buying a luxury bag. In fact, we are just showing it to people in the same class around us, and we are also paying a high "class IQ tax" for this imaginary leap. If the luxury goods you buy really make you feel happy, instead of feeling guilty after buying them, then it is understandable to scrimp and save for a while. The terrible thing is that you are misled by all kinds of brainwashing remarks, fall into the trap of consumerism, and pin your happiness in life on consumption.

Man's desire is a restless beast. Once released, he will feel more empty inside. Many times, when the economic strength and social status don't match the goods you buy, you think that wearing them on your body is a label of identity, but it is actually a heavy shackle that distorts your mind and an externalized desire. In the face of all consumption impulses, you should seriously think about this: is this thing for me to get long-term physical and mental pleasure, or is it just to label me with a misnomer in a short time?

6. In this world, the most expensive luxuries with real long-term value are health, time and knowledge.

7. In recent years, some explosive aphorisms have become popular in the circle of friends, such as "better than you, harder than you" and "surpassed by peers". In fact, the real difference is not that two people have made the same efforts, not to mention that the content of one person's efforts is beyond the imagination of another person.

Luxury cars, luxury houses and luxury goods are only the result of the gap between the rich and the poor. Education is the differentiator of the gap between the rich and the poor, and it is the moat that guards the fortress of the gap between the rich and the poor.

8. As an adult, everyone needs to have a profound, objective and thorough reflection on his family, jump out of family of origin's perspective, open his heart and tear down the invisible wall in his heart. Then, if possible, try to be more tolerant of your next generation. In fact, the only thing you can really grasp and choose is your own study.

9. What is the pattern? I thought about it for a long time and summed it up as a person's height of looking at the problem, analyzing the depth of the problem and solving the problem. People with large patterns will always look at the problem from a more comprehensive perspective and will not simply walk into a dead end; Analyzing the problem will touch the essence, not the simple "because"; When solving problems, you should think carefully, make a decision before you act, not the rude "372 1". What runs through all this is our way of thinking.

10. Don't choose to close yourself at an age when you can still change. The way of thinking does not change, and the fate of life will never change. This fate, of course, also includes the fate of wealth. You can't choose history, you can grasp the present and create the future. I believe that it is never an instant that determines the gap between the rich and the poor. So in the final analysis, it is necessary to recognize what is the real gap between the rich and the poor.

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12. Pay attention to your thoughts, because it can determine your words and deeds; Pay attention to your words and deeds, because they can dominate your behavior; Pay attention to your behavior, because it will become your habit; Pay attention to your habit, because it can shape your character; Pay attention to your character, because it can determine your fate.

13. Stress-free life makes many people accustomed to the disorderly work and rest mode, and their bodies collapse unconsciously. For a young man, time, health and your few assets are all sources of luck. Protect them and make good use of them, and your luck will not be too bad.

14. Some things that you think are important choices today will become insignificant tomorrow. Some seemingly ordinary days have inadvertently changed us.

15. It turns out that time can really make many things as light as boiled water. From small to large, the process of growth is the process of constantly changing the circle of friends. It's not that you walk too fast and others can't keep up; It's that others walk too fast and you are left in the same place.

16. The so-called friends are actually the intersection of each other. The intersection of time and space is only a part of it, and more importantly, it should be the intersection of three views and cognitive views. Only when your three views and cognitive views are always at the same level can this relationship last.

17. When your vision, thinking, experience, information, contacts, etc. Everyone is very different from others. When you face the same thing and the same problem, the way you handle it is completely different from the final result.

18. When you open your own world and improve your thinking horizon, it is also a "dimensionality reduction blow" compared with the past. This is a person's increasingly powerful "ultimate password".

19. A person's growth will always go through the process of seeing a mountain is a mountain, seeing a mountain is not a mountain, and seeing a mountain again.

20. When you are reciting the words, the cod in Alaska is jumping out of the water. When you are doing a math problem, seagulls in the Pacific Ocean are flying over the city, and the gorgeous aurora is shining in the northern European night sky. When you are working silently, what you think you will never see in your life. The person you meet is coming towards you. ...