Maturity is not secular. Tell me about it.

Knowing the world and being unsophisticated is a state of mind; Ignorance and ignorance are a kind of happiness.

Life is too short, the world is too messy, and you and I are too young. Now that I'm here, I wish you a wonderful growth in your mind.

We all experienced a lot in the process of growing up, either happy or desperate. Sometimes the environment forces us to become mature and sophisticated. Because it is not secular, it will unconsciously fall into the "accident" created by others. I want to say to those so-called friends around me: the farthest way I have traveled is your routine.

After a long time, you will eventually find that when you can't let go of every little thing, you will bear a lot and always find reasons to make yourself unhappy. Carefully analyze every word of others to see if it is aimed at you. Carefully observe other people's every move and reflect on whether you have done anything wrong. In order to better show your so-called modesty, you completely hide your joys and sorrows and become crying and laughing with others.

Youth is only a few years. I want you to be yourself, from immature to mature, and the process of transformation is always happy.

0 1 You don't have to sit in the right place.

From birth to death, we can't count how many words we have said and heard. If every sentence is carefully thought out, you will be tired and bored. In fact, you are nothing in the eyes of others, but you think you are his protagonist. Most of your sadness is because you take yourself too seriously and there is no need to sit in the right position.

Sometimes, the confusion between pretending and understanding is a problem of self-protection. After all, you have more important things to finish. Everything has to get to the bottom of it, and if you get nothing, you will be immersed in the whole set of others. Do you know that?/You know what? Do you know that?/You know what? When you fail, more people laugh at you than sympathize with you.

So, don't be so serious, just live your own life.

Stop the illusion that you were killed.

I have such a friend around me. I observe everything around me every day and feel that someone will be behind my back at any time. So what is shown every day is fear and discomfort.

Are you so unsure of yourself? Did you do anything out of line? Do you have a deep hatred with anyone? If not, what are you afraid of? When two people are whispering, you feel that you have said something wrong; When someone picks up the phone, you feel that you have been photographed; When you are a little unhappy with others, you think he will spread your shortcomings and tell his grievances everywhere.

In fact, human nature is good, and no one will spare you. Your pain stems from your doubt. Stop the delusion of being killed and be sunny.

Taking your time is the most beautiful scenery in life.

Unconsciously, we are always in a hurry, eager for success. Dissatisfied with the present and confused about the future, this is your life now. In fact, what you lack is a little calmness in the noise.

Sometimes don't go on, stop and enjoy the scenery along the way, because life is a one-way street after all, and you can only move forward after going through it. Take your time when you are in trouble, because you will make mistakes in haste. Do things without arrogance or rashness, because the future is beautiful.

The world belongs to oneself and has nothing to do with others.

People are born imperfect, born in different families, receive different education, deal with different people, and eventually form different individuals. Therefore, no one is perfect, and it is normal that people who like you will hate you.

However, some people just like to look at themselves from other people's eyes and spend their whole lives observing other people's hearts, ignoring their dreams. You should learn to live for yourself, because life is really impermanent, and no one is sure what will happen next, so you should manage your own world well.

Others can't give you what you want, you can only give it to yourself. Don't envy others all your life.

Look down on the vicissitudes of the world and feel safe inside.

With the growth of age and rich experience, you will see through more. Seeing through is the best way to protect yourself. You are most mature when you are silent in a noisy environment. Because there are a thousand Hamlets in the eyes of a thousand people, you should learn to put yourself in others' shoes. Say the wrong thing about others, and one day it may be yourself.

Some people may hate you, but they can talk to you on the surface. Maybe some people are useless themselves, but they like to pretend to have everything. This is the world, the skill of survival. But when you really learn this skill, you have sacrificed all your innocence and beauty.

I hope you are the one who has seen through the vicissitudes of life and can live safely.

Things change, but I'm glad I haven't become the person I hate so far.

Don't wear heavy make-up, don't care about your face, learn to love yourself first, and then others will love you. While respecting others, don't forget to treat yourself well.

Learn to wave your sleeves calmly and smile warmly.